is it really love? Options

[thebariplayer]

okay errgghh im cheesed over!!! well no, Ive gotten over the anger part of it. Now Im hurt and kind of embarassed and feel kind of betrayed.. anyways, i started talking to this guy, and i imediately started to like him because he was exactly what i want (and well, mostly what every girl wants lol) but anyways, so he started dating this girl, and when i found that out i was really jealous and then i realized that i was completely inlove with him, so i broke up with my boyfriend because that wasn't fair to him. well he broke up with her because i guess she "got around". anyways, so over winter break, he and i talked constantly, and we became really really super duper close, well more so than we were. anyways, so over the winter break i had asked him when i was going to be his girlfriend (which for me, was a really tough thing to do) and he said he wanted to explore his options. AH MY HEART BROKE lol.. but about 2 months ago, we started talking about dating, but he lives an hour away from me, so it was going to talk a lot of work (which no doubt, i was ready to put in) so we dont get to see eachother that much. so i was dating some other guy, just because i wanted to make sure how i felt about him was all true ... even though i basically knew it was. i had told him i loved him, and about 4 days after i was dating the other guy, this one said he loved me too. so i broke up with the other one, and started dating this one.. and since then, its been amazing. but the sunday before valentine's day he basically told me he didn't love me.. and then he got mad because he felt i was treating him unfairly, which the truth is is that i dont know how to treat him since im not sure how he feels about me.. umm.. yeah! lol.. and the past week hes been busy with this thing he does at school, so i havent been able to talk to him. I called him once really fast before i went into my lesson stuff, and he was kind of cold to me. but i talked to him last night and he was laughin and stuff, and now im really confused. anyone have any ideas? my friend said he might just be scared since hes never said i love you to anyone before, but i'd like some other peoples opinions.. thanks for your help, sorry it's so long

[*Azarel*]

I won't even bother to read your post, because the title is enough.
If it were love, you wouldn't even have to ask. So no, it's not.

[_sarcastic_]

I won't even bother to read your post, because the title is enough.
If it were love, you wouldn't even have to ask. So no, it's not.

i agree.