PLEASE READ: real love situation |
PLEASE READ: real love situation |
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I'm 17 and I have a boyfriend of almost 12 months. It feels like we're still in love with each other but sometimes it just fades then it comes back again. We have been arguing alot and disagreeing, it seems like the only thing keeping us together is the sex and the fact that we've been through so much together. I feel like I'm just staying because I can't bear to move on but sometimes I want to move on so bad because it's like we aren't compatible as we used to be anymore. Well, there's this guy that works right across from me and we always smile at each other, then one day he starts talking to me and asked me to lunch. We talked for a long time and I felt happy, I actually felt happy. Now he likes me but he knows I have a boyfriend. He's 23 and he doesn't want to pursuit anything because I don't turn 18 til September and he doesn't know whether I would accept him. I know I love my boyfriend, I care about him, but...maybe I'm not IN LOVE with him? Sometimes I feel so trapped, I just want to fly away. PLease help and leave suggestions or advices!
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
the fact that you said this: I know I love my boyfriend, I care about him, but...maybe I'm not IN LOVE with him? Being able to say this says alot of things...the fact that you're unsure as to where you should be...Why don't you take a break? Sex shouldn't be the only thing that's saving the relationship. It's the fact that you can talk about things without arguing and have agreements. The only reason you feel guilty after you've been with John is because you're already with someone else...[your b/f]. Maybe.....you should end things now before you have any more doubts and go for "John" instead.
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