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is it really love?
thebariplayer
post Feb 20 2005, 01:45 AM
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okay errgghh im cheesed over!!! well no, Ive gotten over the anger part of it. Now Im hurt and kind of embarassed and feel kind of betrayed.. anyways, i started talking to this guy, and i imediately started to like him because he was exactly what i want (and well, mostly what every girl wants lol) but anyways, so he started dating this girl, and when i found that out i was really jealous and then i realized that i was completely inlove with him, so i broke up with my boyfriend because that wasn't fair to him. well he broke up with her because i guess she "got around". anyways, so over winter break, he and i talked constantly, and we became really really super duper close, well more so than we were. anyways, so over the winter break i had asked him when i was going to be his girlfriend (which for me, was a really tough thing to do) and he said he wanted to explore his options. AH MY HEART BROKE lol.. but about 2 months ago, we started talking about dating, but he lives an hour away from me, so it was going to talk a lot of work (which no doubt, i was ready to put in) so we dont get to see eachother that much. so i was dating some other guy, just because i wanted to make sure how i felt about him was all true ... even though i basically knew it was. i had told him i loved him, and about 4 days after i was dating the other guy, this one said he loved me too. so i broke up with the other one, and started dating this one.. and since then, its been amazing. but the sunday before valentine's day he basically told me he didn't love me.. and then he got mad because he felt i was treating him unfairly, which the truth is is that i dont know how to treat him since im not sure how he feels about me.. umm.. yeah! lol.. and the past week hes been busy with this thing he does at school, so i havent been able to talk to him. I called him once really fast before i went into my lesson stuff, and he was kind of cold to me. but i talked to him last night and he was laughin and stuff, and now im really confused. anyone have any ideas? my friend said he might just be scared since hes never said i love you to anyone before, but i'd like some other peoples opinions.. thanks for your help, sorry it's so long
 
 
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aznhunnie6o1
post Feb 20 2005, 02:36 AM
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I don't think you TRUELY love him.. because if you truely love him, then you should be happy even if he is with another girl... As long as he's happy then you should be happy.

Maybe he's confused about the relationship? or he's PMSing...
 

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thebariplayer   is it really love?   Feb 20 2005, 01:45 AM
Azarel   I won't even bother to read your post, because...   Feb 20 2005, 02:08 AM
Shattered_Hope   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 20 2005, 3:08 AM)I won...   Feb 20 2005, 11:32 AM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 20 2005, 2:08 AM)I won...   Feb 20 2005, 12:00 PM
perfectxflaw23   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 20 2005, 2:08 AM)I won...   Feb 21 2005, 02:36 PM
Frankie   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 20 2005, 1:08 AM)I won...   Feb 26 2005, 01:07 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   He's shy and scare. He is lying to you, he pro...   Feb 20 2005, 02:13 AM
aznhunnie6o1   I don't think you TRUELY love him.. because if...   Feb 20 2005, 02:36 AM
dahding   okay, so lemme get it straight. u thought u loved...   Feb 20 2005, 08:40 AM
BitterSweetness   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 20 2005, 2:08 AM) I won't e...   Feb 20 2005, 12:15 PM
mishyerr   No.   Feb 20 2005, 10:38 PM
Wishful_Dream   ^lols agreed. i read it.. and i don't think i...   Feb 21 2005, 03:13 AM
espionage   Just how many people did you break up with in that...   Feb 21 2005, 01:36 PM
x_y0urElectrikk   I dont think its love.. Just a really big crush...   Feb 21 2005, 03:00 PM
brokenskys   call me a hopeless romantic but ive always believe...   Feb 25 2005, 01:26 AM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   I think you should take your "relationship...   Feb 25 2005, 07:37 PM
wincyyellow   i think thats not real love... after sometime u wo...   Feb 25 2005, 08:33 PM
h0y_Kalbo   well lots of people consider true love as the foll...   Feb 25 2005, 08:50 PM
wincyyellow   [QUOTE](h0y_Kalbo@Posted Feb 26 2005, 10:50 AM) i...   Feb 25 2005, 09:00 PM
EmmalieV   well take a while and think about it.   Feb 25 2005, 09:34 PM
yanners   no. why would you have gone out with another guy ...   Feb 26 2005, 09:30 AM
Programmer   ain't love homegurl....that's phsycal attr...   Feb 26 2005, 10:26 AM
ermfermoo   Damn. I was going to agree with Anna but everyone ...   Feb 26 2005, 10:47 AM


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