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 Feb 20 2005, 01:46 AM
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I'm 17 and I have a boyfriend of almost 12 months. It feels like we're still in love with each other but sometimes it just fades then it comes back again. We have been arguing alot and disagreeing, it seems like the only thing keeping us together is the sex and the fact that we've been through so much together. I feel like I'm just staying because I can't bear to move on but sometimes I want to move on so bad because it's like we aren't compatible as we used to be anymore. Well, there's this guy that works right across from me and we always smile at each other, then one day he starts talking to me and asked me to lunch. We talked for a long time and I felt happy, I actually felt happy. Now he likes me but he knows I have a boyfriend. He's 23 and he doesn't want to pursuit anything because I don't turn 18 til September and he doesn't know whether I would accept him. I know I love my boyfriend, I care about him, but...maybe I'm not IN LOVE with him? Sometimes I feel so trapped, I just want to fly away. PLease help and leave suggestions or advices!
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Feb 20 2005, 01:47 AM
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today I went to lunch with him again. I'll just call him John, cause I dont want to state his real name. And i felt horrible because my boyfriend was working today and he got out of work at 3 and came to visit me. I was so scared so I left my work to go and see him before he comes too close to my workplace and John would have to see my boyfriend. It would've been awkward. I felt bad because my boyfriend said he missed me and he gave me a big hug. I felt like crying. After he left, i went back to my workplace and John asked me to go to lunch with him and so I did. But what's weird is that when I'm with him, all the stress and sadness goes away. I didn't even feel guilty. I only feel guilty when I see my boyfriend. Well, later on when I was almost closing, I had an arguement with my boyfriend on the phone and we're mad at each other. It's really stupid ****. but John makes me feel better right away. I just love talking to him. There's still a lot that I dont know about him, and with my boyfriend I feel like I don't know who he is anymore. Almost a year and now Im having doubts. Everytime we argue, I just get so stressed out. I tell myself I don't deserve this but my boyfriend's a good guy. I dont know what to do. So many times before we broke up and tried to just be friends but we always got back together...
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thekillersfan24 PLEASE READ: real love situation Feb 20 2005, 01:46 AM
yukichan uhhhh...if u dont love ur boyfriend anymore, y be ... Feb 20 2005, 01:51 AM angel_revelation maybe you should just break up, and try being on y... Feb 20 2005, 02:10 AM K!$$ Like nekochan1018 says, why be with your boyfriend... Feb 20 2005, 02:24 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Choose the one that benefits you the most. Feb 20 2005, 02:29 AM K!$$ ^ Benefit? That's harsh. And pretty shallow.... Feb 20 2005, 02:36 AM xSWEETxCANDiix Hmm..what a tough situation.. Well..it seems like... Feb 20 2005, 04:31 AM _sarcastic_ like everyone says, i think you should go with thi... Feb 20 2005, 07:25 AM swe3ttemptasian awW... that's exactly how I felt for the past ... Feb 20 2005, 11:18 AM Shattered_Hope the fact that you said this: I know I love my boyf... Feb 20 2005, 11:27 AM BitterSweetness QUOTEShattered_Hope Posted: Feb 20 2005, 12:... Feb 20 2005, 12:18 PM silver rain You know, once in a while, I feel like that with m... Feb 20 2005, 02:58 PM Shortiiex it could be just cupid messing with you, relations... Feb 20 2005, 06:30 PM
Programmer lmao...this is hilarious...but on a serious note..... Feb 20 2005, 06:38 PM |
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