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 Feb 19 2005, 03:29 AM
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when you feel like your REALLY losing your best friend or something?
like.. tomorrow, i'm going to hangout with her.. but I still feel like I'm losing her to this other girl.. but that other girl is our really close friend.. so ya.. I just feel kinda bad.. because they always talk to eachother, and we don't talk much anymore.. It's like our close friend doesn't really want me to get involved... how do I stop myself from feeling like I'm losing someone? cuz, clearly I'm not really... >< and last time.. she wrote in her xanga questioning that, "what is better? a close friend or a best friend?" anyways, what do you think is better? close friend or best friend? please include reasons.. =) I just wanna know. =x opinions please. thanks. close this if it's already made, but give me the link to the topic! =) |
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Feb 19 2005, 01:47 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Sorry, but I stopped believing in "best friends" a LONG LONG time ago. That was so middle school to me... And it's been 3 years since I ever had a best friend.
In my opinion, when you have a best friend and call them your best friend, you're somewhat obligated to hang around them all the time.. sticking like glue. You're obligated to go places with them, etc. Versus a close friend you just like to talk to, you don't have to hang around them all the time, it's like whatever.. you know? And best of all, most people fight over being your best friend or steal your best friend away, and you'd be like "WTF?! That's my best friend!" Like you just did right now..  Anyway, you see what I mean? Most people also think that you can have only 1 best friend.. I know some that thought so.I have close friends... A few, but still very close. They're there for me and close friends has a different meaning.. :] |
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Wishful_Dream what do you do... Feb 19 2005, 03:29 AM
yanners i'd talk to her about it if i were you. expla... Feb 19 2005, 03:41 AM sweetdreamsx3 I'll talk to her about it because afterward, s... Feb 19 2005, 09:52 AM racoons > you just talk to her about it... otherwise she may not... Feb 19 2005, 09:53 AM Shattered_Hope the only thing you can do is to tell her what... Feb 19 2005, 11:03 AM leeniex3 just get another best firend because .. that happe... Feb 19 2005, 12:36 PM xd0rkette hm. i feel that way too.
well; i guess just talk t... Feb 19 2005, 12:46 PM xSiLLyMex If u guys were really good best frends then she... Feb 19 2005, 01:46 PM angel_revelation close friends are great, but best friends are the ... Feb 19 2005, 05:01 PM Frankie i think that a best friend is better! i think ... Feb 19 2005, 05:04 PM
ChellyDasWassup well i have this friend and slowly we r growing ap... Feb 19 2005, 05:13 PM |
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