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 Feb 18 2005, 08:12 PM
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 07 isz coming  Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490  |
hmm k theres this grl, i absolutely HATE>> 4 variouz reasons.... she used to be my best friend last yr, but aftr i realized how 2faced she was being, i lost interest in having any contact w/ her
anywyssss, a few days ago she was crying a LOT> n evry1 thought it was because she didnt get the part she wanted in the school play. turns out her dad is going to iraq- i knew he was in the military n all, but i nvr knew he was going..... n now i feel pretty bad for her. i dunno, i want to do something for her, anything... should i 4get evrythng she's done2 me & my friends and just be there for her now or wht?? i dont evn know -how- 2 be there for her cuz we're not real close anymore. sry i just need advice, thnks !!! |
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Feb 18 2005, 08:23 PM
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I think you should help her instead...as she is not doing the right thing,if you still wanna be with her and you want her to be happy with you...
Forgive her...thats the hardest part,but it is also the most powerful... I have a very best friend since 2000,we sticked together every day but i never knew when she started hating me...until 2004 i found her had been stealing my books,my purses,my belongings,and she spread bad messages about me to all other classmates... I can't say i never hate her about that,but my sadness was more than anger,although i show how i dislike her in front of her,i was always wanting to be as close as we were at the beginning... last month i wrote her a letter saying that whatever she had done i still wanna be with her,i was too rude at that time...blablabla,and now?she wrote me back a letter of apology and regret for what she had done...and we are close fds again! Forgiving a person is very difficult,but with your greatest love on her things will get easier... |
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DixieDaCutie friendship Feb 18 2005, 08:12 PM
_sarcastic_ ^ i agree
be there for her right now, she's p... Feb 18 2005, 09:35 PM runforfun529 Just as the Earth can change, so can people. Every... Feb 18 2005, 10:19 PM Shattered_Hope it's up to you. but I think you should be ther... Feb 18 2005, 10:56 PM kenshin3 forgive her Feb 18 2005, 11:09 PM angel_revelation let her know you're there for her, if she need... Feb 19 2005, 05:07 PM Frankie you can still not be friends but this is a time of... Feb 19 2005, 05:10 PM ChellyDasWassup forgive her but dont forget what she has done...le... Feb 19 2005, 05:20 PM VGyrl88 She needs someone right now, so it's a good id... Feb 19 2005, 05:36 PM helllla jankyyyy I would forgive her. She's having a really har... Feb 19 2005, 06:31 PM helllla jankyyyy I would forgive her. She's having a really har... Feb 19 2005, 06:32 PM
Shortiiex just be her friend for that moment till she's ... Feb 19 2005, 07:25 PM |
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