love, more to it? Options

[cewinee]

do you think love can be so much more than just a romantic aspect?

like it can help you and ur gf/bf strive to such great heights (together)? even for the future. i dunno how else to put it. tell me if i need to be more specific..

cuz i believe it is.

If you mean helping each other striving for your goals in the future, then tes. Having a romantic relationship with someone, but also being their companion shows a strong relationship and with that they can help each other in the future.

yeah thats wat i meant. my bf and i have been together for 2years now in a long distant relationship visiting each other every 2-3months. through the time and distance we've been apart, we've only grown closer than ever rather than apart n that really means something.. we've both made such great impacts in each others lives from the begining n achieved so much.. we're in a very serious relationship and he loves me more than anything in the world.

however, recently he's gotten so terrified that he might've gotten in my way of a better future for me (its long & complicated) saying he's scared that he wont give me wat i deserve in the future.. n told me i should set him & our relationship aside until im done with college.. i went crazy, it was hard for him as it was for me. all i wanted was to get through all this with him. i knew we could do this cuz we've gone thru so much for the passed 2years.. he thought it would be for my best.

later we settled our issues and i reminded him of the dreams & goals we always had together & that wat we have will help us strive through it together as it has for the passed 2 years, why stop now? see where our love can take us even further.. why stop something thats not even damaged? our love is so extremely strong.. i dunno i hope im making sense. but yeah.. we're still together =.) thank god

i guess he got cold feet or somethin like that, but he's so relieved that i talked him into his senses cuz he had so much on his mind and was getting scared of the future getting near. it is a scarey thing..

so love/strong relationship can help me strive through our goals together right?
cuz i strongly believe it does..

[Just_Dream]

I truly think it does.

There are times where I truly want to give up on school, and there are times where Tony (my boyfriend's name) feels the same way too. But we help each other out and we push each other to do the work for school. And at the same time, he's even inspired me to choose pharmacy as my career goal. Back in 9th grade, 2 years ago, he wrote an essay and inspired me.

There's so many times where there's obstacles in the way of perfection and it makes me think that life isn't fair and I feel like dying... But then I realized that I'd miss Tony if I ever committed suicide. I also realized that in the future I can choose my life and that I can be with him in the future, despite all the things that have gone wrong in my life. I look forward to a future with him, he's the only right thing in my life. Everything always turns out bad, but he's the only thing that's kept me going... Without him, I don't know where I'd be.

I know that him and I joke to each other about breaking up.. like I would be like "I hate you. I break up with you!" And he would say "fine, I break up with you too!" lol Yea we're always joking about that..

But deep down, I'm scared for my life. I don't know what I'd do if we ever broke up. We've been together for over 2 years now and I can't imagine living my life without him. He's everything I'll ever want. Sure, sometimes he can irritate me by his laziness, but deep down he's my other half. I'm pretty lazy myself, but I'm his biggest fan. I love him to death and we're always supporting each other. I love him with all my heart and I'll do anything to keep our relationship going... He keeps me happy, optimistic, and helps me succeed.

[cewinee]

I truly think it does.

There are times where I truly want to give up on school, and there are times where Tony (my boyfriend's name) feels the same way too. But we help each other out and we push each other to do the work for school. And at the same time, he's even inspired me to choose pharmacy as my career goal. Back in 9th grade, 2 years ago, he wrote an essay and inspired me.

There's so many times where there's obstacles in the way of perfection and it makes me think that life isn't fair and I feel like dying... But then I realized that I'd miss Tony if I ever committed suicide. I also realized that in the future I can choose my life and that I can be with him in the future, despite all the things that have gone wrong in my life. I look forward to a future with him, he's the only right thing in my life. Everything always turns out bad, but he's the only thing that's kept me going... Without him, I don't know where I'd be.

I know that him and I joke to each other about breaking up.. like I would be like "I hate you. I break up with you!" And he would say "fine, I break up with you too!" lol Yea we're always joking about that..

But deep down, I'm scared for my life. I don't know what I'd do if we ever broke up. We've been together for over 2 years now and I can't imagine living my life without him. He's everything I'll ever want. Sure, sometimes he can irritate me by his laziness, but deep down he's my other half. I'm pretty lazy myself, but I'm his biggest fan. I love him to death and we're always supporting each other. I love him with all my heart and I'll do anything to keep our relationship going... He keeps me happy, optimistic, and helps me succeed.

that really touched me n made me cry.. i'm so relieved to know that someone has the same hopes as i do with someone they love n push through to get as far as they can for the future together.. i almost died 4 days ago trying to overdose myself when he told me wat he thot would be best for me.. i cant live without him, we've been through too much together. i'm so incredibly thankful to still be alive to find the strength to give him the strength he needed from me. and he realized that he can take care of me if he keeps trying, theres no point in stopping.. he was jus so scared for me. i jus needed to give him hope again cuz the future is scarey. everything seems settled now.. thank u for sharing that with me.