Change, my friend changes.... Options

[chongmaggie007]

I have a friend. She is a TB (tomboy). Before, she studied really hard and got As in all of her subject ( quite good , yeh ? ) . However, she now becomes very lazy .... She did not study at all and her grades are only fair... Moreover, she does what she wants to do without thinking, such as skipping lessons.

What should I do ? I have asked her what's wrong but she said she doesn't know either. She just wants to do this. I want her to change back to the one I know before...

[Wishful_Dream]

my friend's a tomboy. she doesn't study hard. she still gets fairly great grades. =x better than i'd ever do even if i study =p

i have this other friend. she study really hard. at least 5 hours every single day. she studies from 6 til 3 am most of hte time. it scares me. she gets straight A. but last term, she was ONE percent from an A.. because she got a B in pe. >< 89.4. heh. =/ she coulda gone on principles list.. x.x

^if that girl changed. I'd be afraid, and scared. y'know? i know how you feel.. >< she was pissed off at everyone when she got ONE wrong.. out of this REALLY hard test T__T" anyways, i don't know how to help you.. but try to remind her of the memories..

try to show her what's she doing to herself..? before she screws up worst..? tell her, "i liked who you were before. i wish you were back to the way you were, but i know it's impossible." then just leave. =/ iono what you could do. i don't think you can do anything.

it's her. it's the way she is now. you can't change her back.. unless she wants to change back herself. =)