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 Feb 15 2005, 02:28 AM
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Why is it so damn hard to find someone who can just listen to you vent? Why is it so damn hard to find someone who is willing to just listen and not expect something in return? WHy is it so damn hard to find someone who can listen without butting in and rambling on about thier own situation? I swear, im sure u all already probably know this but geez, if people took just an extra minute each day to listen to each other, rather then be so selfish, then we would seriously be much MUCH better off.
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Feb 16 2005, 09:07 PM
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nobody likes to hear anyone complain all the time. try talking/discussing your problems, instead of "venting," which sort of implies ranting/complaining. be willing to listen to others, as well. it's mutual concern that defines friendship. :]
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Funky Buddha Seriously... Feb 15 2005, 02:28 AM
Azarel I don't see you listening. Feb 15 2005, 02:36 AM
tungtwista QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 15 2005, 2:36 AM)I don... Feb 15 2005, 10:38 PM electric shock Psh. Like anyone CAN ever listen. Someone I know h... Feb 15 2005, 02:37 AM angel-roh Yes, I agree haha.
My friend, Yumi wouldn't le... Feb 15 2005, 02:46 AM yukichan its really hard to find someone hus willing to lis... Feb 15 2005, 03:09 AM DaTru KataLYST isnt that what xanga's original purpose was fo... Feb 15 2005, 03:12 AM tooeffingcrazy QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Feb 15 2005, 3:12 AM)i... Feb 16 2005, 09:10 PM Cake. Yeah, I know...
I always tell people about my prob... Feb 15 2005, 06:22 AM thait3n yah...i get probs like that to...I mean whenever p... Feb 15 2005, 07:40 AM iheartsimba god i know...
whenever i talk to my friends they... Feb 15 2005, 08:10 AM stephinika hmm yeah...for me its not so much finding someone ... Feb 15 2005, 09:24 AM EmmalieV because some people rather vent about there own pr... Feb 15 2005, 09:51 AM Heathasm i just want to say im not one of those people
just... Feb 15 2005, 11:15 AM DaTru KataLYST heehee
I got a great friend that listens to me ra... Feb 15 2005, 11:48 AM sunissed14127 I know what your saying...I cant trust any of my f... Feb 15 2005, 11:49 AM MAXpowers1023 yeah being able to just listen is a very mature qu... Feb 15 2005, 12:13 PM krispy_kreme333 ya i wish i had someone like that. none of my frie... Feb 15 2005, 12:15 PM Shortiiex ppl who are like that are like one-of-a kind.... Feb 15 2005, 12:23 PM DaTru KataLYST QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Feb 15 2005, 9:23 AM)ppl wh... Feb 15 2005, 07:40 PM xj_liana_tx everyone in this world is self centered Feb 15 2005, 02:11 PM tainted_angel ^In a way, that is true.
S'just that people ar... Feb 15 2005, 02:50 PM alone in the world i'll listen .. Feb 15 2005, 03:34 PM DanielleMaria05 I'm not one of those people. I will sit and li... Feb 15 2005, 04:47 PM slipper it's a give & take thing. you scratch my b... Feb 15 2005, 07:48 PM Funky Buddha ^^Is it really? I try to, I end up not though. I d... Feb 15 2005, 07:50 PM DaTru KataLYST QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 4:50 PM)^^I... Feb 15 2005, 10:48 PM alienchik ill listen. i do that with all my friends! Feb 15 2005, 07:51 PM sweetdreamsx3 If you ever need anyone to listen, you know my AIM... Feb 15 2005, 08:21 PM x_angawhomps Uh, well if we're all listening to eachother t... Feb 15 2005, 08:22 PM Azarel QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 15 2005, 5:22 PM)Uh,... Feb 16 2005, 12:52 AM TreesTurnMeOn I know how you feel. Everytime I vent to someone t... Feb 15 2005, 08:41 PM salcha yeah, i kinda feel liek that too.
i feel like i... Feb 15 2005, 09:18 PM [4]eternity Yeah, you wait until the other person is done talk... Feb 15 2005, 10:15 PM EXPLO5ION I don't have many problems, so I listen to my ... Feb 15 2005, 10:32 PM Funky Buddha ^^I was sort of being sarcastic on the first sente... Feb 15 2005, 10:50 PM DaTru KataLYST QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 7:50 PM)^^I... Feb 15 2005, 11:14 PM Litobabygurl88 Yeah, I know what you mean. I had the same trouble... Feb 15 2005, 10:54 PM Wishful_Dream QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 14 2005, 11:28 PM)Wh... Feb 16 2005, 01:28 AM sheepy i really agree with you. i mean sometimes its so h... Feb 16 2005, 08:49 PM weirdness that's why xanga is there; for me atleast. i f... Feb 17 2005, 08:59 PM Shattered_Hope you have a good point. Feb 17 2005, 09:03 PM Spiritual Winged Aura I agree, all my friends including my classmate are... Feb 18 2005, 02:07 AM BlissfulIgnorance yea i understand the whole needin sum1 to vent to ... Feb 18 2005, 02:11 AM |
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