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HongKongDong
post Feb 15 2005, 02:28 AM
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Why is it so damn hard to find someone who can just listen to you vent? Why is it so damn hard to find someone who is willing to just listen and not expect something in return? WHy is it so damn hard to find someone who can listen without butting in and rambling on about thier own situation? I swear, im sure u all already probably know this but geez, if people took just an extra minute each day to listen to each other, rather then be so selfish, then we would seriously be much MUCH better off.
 
 
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angel-roh
post Feb 15 2005, 02:46 AM
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Yes, I agree haha.
My friend, Yumi wouldn't let me talk haha.
She had problems with this crush she likes.
But it's okay. I pretty much understand because
I used to be like her too. I mean you were like
that too, right? Yes, it's annoying when someone
does it. Anyways... these days I rather listen
and help. But when I try to help, they keep ignoring
me. It's like they are talking to an imaginary friend.
Eesh... like I'm not exist. If they keep ignoring me.
I use my high tone and change the subject.
Because when I get mad, I can hang up the phone.
Haha... I don't think that's harsh. They should know
that I'm trying to help and they won't let me because
they talk too much. Heh I like talking to my friend,
Yumi though, even though she talks too much and
won't even let me talk haha. I mean she's my friend.
I'll just listen... hehe. But I dislike people when I try
to talk about my problems, and they just change the
subject out of nowhere. It's kinda like what I said up there.
I would be like Yumi. And you know like I said,
if she ignores me too much, I will change the subject?
Yeah... so I would do the same thing and feel the same
way. So I don't know what to do about it. Just stay calm?
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Funky Buddha   Seriously...   Feb 15 2005, 02:28 AM
Azarel   I don't see you listening.   Feb 15 2005, 02:36 AM
tungtwista   QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 15 2005, 2:36 AM)I don...   Feb 15 2005, 10:38 PM
electric shock   Psh. Like anyone CAN ever listen. Someone I know h...   Feb 15 2005, 02:37 AM
angel-roh   Yes, I agree haha. My friend, Yumi wouldn't le...   Feb 15 2005, 02:46 AM
yukichan   its really hard to find someone hus willing to lis...   Feb 15 2005, 03:09 AM
DaTru KataLYST   isnt that what xanga's original purpose was fo...   Feb 15 2005, 03:12 AM
tooeffingcrazy   QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Feb 15 2005, 3:12 AM)i...   Feb 16 2005, 09:10 PM
Cake.   Yeah, I know... I always tell people about my prob...   Feb 15 2005, 06:22 AM
thait3n   yah...i get probs like that to...I mean whenever p...   Feb 15 2005, 07:40 AM
iheartsimba   god i know... whenever i talk to my friends they...   Feb 15 2005, 08:10 AM
stephinika   hmm yeah...for me its not so much finding someone ...   Feb 15 2005, 09:24 AM
EmmalieV   because some people rather vent about there own pr...   Feb 15 2005, 09:51 AM
Heathasm   i just want to say im not one of those people just...   Feb 15 2005, 11:15 AM
DaTru KataLYST   heehee I got a great friend that listens to me ra...   Feb 15 2005, 11:48 AM
sunissed14127   I know what your saying...I cant trust any of my f...   Feb 15 2005, 11:49 AM
MAXpowers1023   yeah being able to just listen is a very mature qu...   Feb 15 2005, 12:13 PM
krispy_kreme333   ya i wish i had someone like that. none of my frie...   Feb 15 2005, 12:15 PM
Shortiiex   ppl who are like that are like one-of-a kind....   Feb 15 2005, 12:23 PM
DaTru KataLYST   QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Feb 15 2005, 9:23 AM)ppl wh...   Feb 15 2005, 07:40 PM
xj_liana_tx   everyone in this world is self centered   Feb 15 2005, 02:11 PM
tainted_angel   ^In a way, that is true. S'just that people ar...   Feb 15 2005, 02:50 PM
alone in the world   i'll listen ..   Feb 15 2005, 03:34 PM
DanielleMaria05   I'm not one of those people. I will sit and li...   Feb 15 2005, 04:47 PM
slipper   it's a give & take thing. you scratch my b...   Feb 15 2005, 07:48 PM
Funky Buddha   ^^Is it really? I try to, I end up not though. I d...   Feb 15 2005, 07:50 PM
DaTru KataLYST   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 4:50 PM)^^I...   Feb 15 2005, 10:48 PM
alienchik   ill listen. i do that with all my friends!   Feb 15 2005, 07:51 PM
sweetdreamsx3   If you ever need anyone to listen, you know my AIM...   Feb 15 2005, 08:21 PM
x_angawhomps   Uh, well if we're all listening to eachother t...   Feb 15 2005, 08:22 PM
Azarel   QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 15 2005, 5:22 PM)Uh,...   Feb 16 2005, 12:52 AM
TreesTurnMeOn   I know how you feel. Everytime I vent to someone t...   Feb 15 2005, 08:41 PM
salcha   yeah, i kinda feel liek that too. i feel like i...   Feb 15 2005, 09:18 PM
[4]eternity   Yeah, you wait until the other person is done talk...   Feb 15 2005, 10:15 PM
EXPLO5ION   I don't have many problems, so I listen to my ...   Feb 15 2005, 10:32 PM
Funky Buddha   ^^I was sort of being sarcastic on the first sente...   Feb 15 2005, 10:50 PM
DaTru KataLYST   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 7:50 PM)^^I...   Feb 15 2005, 11:14 PM
Litobabygurl88   Yeah, I know what you mean. I had the same trouble...   Feb 15 2005, 10:54 PM
Wishful_Dream   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 14 2005, 11:28 PM)Wh...   Feb 16 2005, 01:28 AM
sheepy   i really agree with you. i mean sometimes its so h...   Feb 16 2005, 08:49 PM
monde libre   nobody likes to hear anyone complain all the time....   Feb 16 2005, 09:07 PM
weirdness   that's why xanga is there; for me atleast. i f...   Feb 17 2005, 08:59 PM
Shattered_Hope   you have a good point.   Feb 17 2005, 09:03 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   I agree, all my friends including my classmate are...   Feb 18 2005, 02:07 AM
BlissfulIgnorance   yea i understand the whole needin sum1 to vent to ...   Feb 18 2005, 02:11 AM


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