now what?, relating to friendship problem. Options

[teeners4]

what do you do when you feel like you cant trust your best friend?
like i donno if she is telling me the truth or lying to me? cause she acts different with different ppl. like if she had to pick between me + someone else, s/he sometimes will pick the other person.


and like lets say one day me + her talk about how we dont like that person cause that person is getting on our nerves right? then the next day she goes hangs out with that person and acts all friendly and stufff without me. how am im supposed to feel? betrayed.

but then maybe she's just saying she dont like that person just to agree with me ya kno? and then when she's with that person she talks about me. so like playing an act.

have you ever felt that way? i mean maybe im being paranoid. but yea... its like a gut feeling. and my gut is usually never wrong.

should i talk to her? i mean what if she's like saying i'm just accusing her and stuff?

sigh

[Chii]

she doesn't sound like a best friend

you're supposed to be honest with each other no matter what...people can disagree and stay friends, she shouldn't agree just to make you happy

if you're best friends, you shouldn't be afraid that the friendship will fall apart. if it does, you'll see what kind of friend she really is, if she's a best friend or at least a good friend, she'll listen and everything will be all good...if she just leaves, you've saved yourself the trouble of cultivating a friendship with some stupid b*tch