ugh!, i have to let out all of my hatred. Options

[*xcaitlinx*]

grr... today me and my so-called "best friend" ruthie had a fight.

i walked into lunch and saw that she was depressed. so i sat down and asked her wat was wrong. she ignored me and didn't tell me...so i was pissed off and didn`t talk to her. Then, i started talking to my other friend about some random thing...and out of nowhere ruthie starts bashing me for no reason. She goes on about how what im saying is wrong...and when i say "ok...i made a mistake..." she keeps on going on and on. I know that she was upset and all [i still have no idea WHY!] but she has no right to tell me off. So...after she yelled at me i told her off. i said " all because ur upset about something it doesnt mean that u have to take it out on people and make them mad with you " she got all mad and said that i wasnt even a real friend.

then on AIM we were arguing and she said that I don't understand her and don't help her with any of her problems. How am i supposed to know what her problem is if she WONT tell me? Whenever I say what i feel or think to her...instead of talking about it...she yells at me and says that im wrong/insists that she's right. I can't take it anymore! Ugh..now we're not talking right now. What should I do? If i apologize [which is the only way that she will be my friend again] then ill just feel stupid...knowing that i didn't do anything wrong in the first place.

any advice?

[aznhunnie6o1]

I say, leave her. First off, she's your best friend, she should tell you when somethings wrong. Correct? Second off, she b*tches at you for no apparent reason. Third off, she says your not even a friend. Thats just plain low, theres no excuse for a best friend to do that. Ditch her, get a new best friend. If she trys to b*tch at you again, just get up and walk away. Wait till SHE appoligizes to you, even if she does, you probably wouldn't want to be best friends with her after that. And if she IM's you on AIM just to b*tch at you, ignore it.