If you were me what would you do?, In case of Selfishness and Selflessness Options

[ParanoidAndroid]

There's this guy I really like. He's goofy and suicidal. My type of guy that I want to date. But as expected, he likes my cousin. If not my cousin, he likes blondes who are preppy (they're actually the reason why he's suicidal). Instead of being selfish and thinking of myself, I thought about him and decided not to tell him how I feel. I don't want to be one of those girls who goes after every guy friend they like. I want him to be happy with the person he likes. What would YOU have done? If you were me, would you have confessed your feelings?

[HelplessCry]

that depends do you really like him? and if you do, do you still think about him? if your hanged over him might as well say something. but i think you did a good thing.and maybe he likes girls who are not afraid of what they say. btw i love fruits basket TOO!!haru is my lover..haha

[*suddenly she*]

you should have described a situation when you had a chance to tell him.
not just ask us, should i have told him?
timing is important.

+, should be in relationships.

[ParanoidAndroid]

Well I really do like him. This is the first time I really liked someone. One time during Sunday I was about to confess but seeing him with his ex just told me I am NEVER good enough to make him happy.

[mai_z]

Stop. Rewind. Look at what you just said:

I am NEVER good enough to make him happy.

NEVER say that. Goofy and suicidal is an interesting combination, but i'm curious. How does liking blondes make you suicidal?

I would hint at it, but I don't know if I would tell him outright. Of course like "suddenly she " said, Timing is very important.

[ParanoidAndroid]

if you really wanted him that it hurts so much and youd die for him and youd kill every single innocent soul for him....
i would have told him

lmao. i was exaggerating. anyways, if you liked him, as in love, maybe he'll give you a chance and see how cool and unique you really are!! =]

LOL thanks that's really comforting. But isn't it a lil one-sided if I take him on instead of not thinking about the fact that he likes another?

Stop. Rewind. Look at what you just said:


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I am NEVER good enough to make him happy.


NEVER say that. Goofy and suicidal is an interesting combination, but i'm curious. How does liking blondes make you suicidal?

I would hint at it, but I don't know if I would tell him outright. Of course like "suddenly she " said, Timing is very important.

What??? I didn't get what you said and the preppy blondes he dated make him sucidal because they keep clubbing and flirting with other guys making an emo guy like him feel worthless. (Hey we're pretty much the same)