jealous, i don't know whats going on with me |
 Aug 28 2005, 08:46 AM
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ok. lets start:
1. i have a mega crush on a guy who likes me back. he used to be in my brothers class but now he's in boarding school so i never get to see him only on webcam and talk to him. so nothing is happening between us. 2. my best guy friend has had a girlfriend for 2 years and ever since that ive become more and more jealous of her and i can always see me in her place. they are a crap couple anyways, they've been going out for 2 years and they have only kissed on the lips for 1 second. i don't know why but im so jealous of her and i dont ever have a crush on the guy. hes just been my best mate for 5 years... 3. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH ME!? 4. i think i need therapy. question: whats going on with me..? |
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Aug 28 2005, 10:11 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think you already know what's "wrong" with you, you're jealous.
why don't you just stick to school instead of boys? jealousy isn't an attractive trait. who are you to say that your best guy friend's relationship with his girlfriend is crap? you're not there to witness it and it's not like he's going to tell you everything that goes on between them. |
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Aug 28 2005, 10:57 AM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
Well, maybe your jealous because you like the guy even thought you dont kow it or you think that he's gonna stop hanging with you since he got a gf. That's all I know. Sowwy.
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Aug 28 2005, 12:08 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, maybe you're just jealous because he hangs out with his girlfriend more? And, you really can't say anything about his relationship since you aren't witnessing everything about it. Just concentrate on other things.
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Aug 28 2005, 05:27 PM
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oooooor maybe you're jealous because you've been his best friend and you're afraid that his girlfriend is gonna take your place and then you guys aren't gonna hang out together anymore.
or, maybe you know that since your crush is going to boarding school, you really want a boyfriend and you think you might have a crush on your best friend. i don't think i helped, though... |
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Aug 28 2005, 05:40 PM
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 coolest prep in CB Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,836 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Aug 28 2005, 5:27 PM) oooooor maybe you're jealous because you've been his best friend and you're afraid that his girlfriend is gonna take your place and then you guys aren't gonna hang out together anymore. or, maybe you know that since your crush is going to boarding school, you really want a boyfriend and you think you might have a crush on your best friend. i don't think i helped, though...  i agree, maybe u r just jealousing bcauz u r thinking she will be more important in his life than u. when a person starts dating, that person starts to stay more far of friends to stay with the girlfriend. well, u can't finish with that romance, try become his gf's friend too, u will feel better, being the couple's friend, not only his. |
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Aug 28 2005, 06:07 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you are jealous, you should try and focus on other more important things
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Aug 28 2005, 06:21 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I am a jealous too but let's not get one-sided? If you know what I mean...
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Aug 29 2005, 01:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,222 |
thx guys...yea i think its coz now that she's there me and him are losing our friendship...i duno. lol ty tho
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Aug 29 2005, 05:50 PM
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QUOTE(OhXiet_ItzDonnA @ Aug 28 2005, 7:57 AM) Well, maybe your jealous QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 28 2005, 9:08 AM) Yeah, maybe you're just jealous QUOTE oooooor maybe you're jealous QUOTE i agree, maybe u r just jealousing QUOTE you are jealous wow 
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Aug 29 2005, 10:03 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^hahahaha well it is true
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Aug 29 2005, 10:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think your only jealous that you can't have a realtionship...and someone deserves you love for them..unlike your best friend's crappy realtionship..you know you will do better than that but your not in a relationship
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Aug 31 2005, 05:43 PM
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Its just jealously. You probably see the guy you like as the girl's boyfriend and thats why you're so jealous because you see yourself as that girl.
 You'll find new guys and forget all about the old ones.
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Aug 31 2005, 10:35 PM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,620 |
okay heres the thing. its almost for sure that if you hang around a person of the opposite gender, you will start to have feelings for them, consciously or subconsciously. maybe that answers some questions.
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Aug 31 2005, 10:36 PM
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hello. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,620 |
noo double post. sry.
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Sep 1 2005, 01:42 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
Maybe it's because you do like him, you just haven't realized that yet. It can be that you're scared that she'll take all his time up and you and him won't be friends anymore. Or maybe you're just jealous of the relationship. Meaning you want a boyfriend, but you don't have one. So you're seeing yourself in her place, having a boyfriend and being happy. Oh yeah and piece of advice, don't tell him their relationship is crap...
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Sep 2 2005, 07:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
you just miss him being around.. i dont blame you being mad/jealous... b/c the girl practically stole your best friend away [am i right?] so dont worry about it, things will be alright
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Sep 2 2005, 09:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
If they're such a crappy couple, then their relationship will end up falling apart soon. What's going on with you? Well many things. You're a teenager.
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