Your so-called-friend.., goes out with your ex |
 Aug 28 2005, 12:19 AM
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 omnomnom  Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688  |
My friend totally did that, she went out with like my public enemy number one what should I do?
When I went out with him she say "yall make a horrible couple you should break up with him". I was thinking about saying that but like, I hate to be mean. |
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Aug 28 2005, 12:26 AM
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 Flamebow Group: Member Posts: 299 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,444 |
Sorry to say it... but maybe they really like each other. I dated my ex's best friend, and then we got married. Its just a boy. Dont ruin your friendship over it, there will be so many more to choose from.
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Aug 28 2005, 12:33 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
wow.. you even married.. him.. lol.. j.k j.k.. but yeah it's jsut a boy.. thee's so many out there.. but you jsut gotta find the right now.. don't let boys get in the way of your friendship..
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Aug 28 2005, 12:35 AM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
QUOTE(Rogue_Ewok @ Aug 27 2005, 9:26 PM) Sorry to say it... but maybe they really like each other. I dated my ex's best friend, and then we got married. Its just a boy. Dont ruin your friendship over it, there will be so many more to choose from.  Whoaa. How romantic. Yah. Don't trip. There's plenty of other people out there. |
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Aug 28 2005, 12:37 AM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
Man I would hate to be in that sort of situation.
Go find another guy, an even hotter one! |
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Aug 28 2005, 12:44 AM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Well I never really liked to girl in the first place and my ex is just desparate I know they don't really like each other because it took 3 people just to get my ex to say yes... I give them a week.
Also, I don't really care about the boy but this whole thing is just UGh |
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Aug 28 2005, 02:16 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
If you don't really care about the guy.. Then just let her date him and they'll eventually break up AND why does it matter who he dates? What exactally is the problem here? If you don't like either of them, then why does it matter?
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Aug 28 2005, 03:56 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
^ agreed..you say you don't care, but u still do..
just let them date each other..they'll probably break up eventually.. |
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Aug 28 2005, 05:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,222 |
if he's ur ex you shouldnt really care, if she starts to change and act weird around it means she's not your friend. if she is normal then thats fine. like i say:
[B]you cant lose a friend over a fish ^-* |
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Aug 28 2005, 08:26 AM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
you shouldn't get worked up over such things, he's your ex you said that he was just desperate and just went out with her for the sake of it, well let her find that out herself. don't lose your friendship over a guy.
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Aug 28 2005, 12:19 PM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
That's freaking evil. Revenge!!!
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Aug 28 2005, 02:14 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
she`s evil. i secretly hate her and i plot against her....
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Aug 28 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 217,916 |
Going out with exes is soooooo complicated, because first you have to make sure the person doesn't have any feelings for them anymore...and yeah...
Right now, I wouldn't really care WHO went out with my ex boyfriend. I still love him, but he's changed into a totally different person and it's just not even funny...So yeah. |
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Aug 28 2005, 02:21 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
So what if she dates your ex? My best friend dated my ex. Who cares? They're just boys. They're not your husbands. Your friend has feelings to you know. If I were you I wouldn't think so selfishly and think about what's best for the other no matter how much I felt I am back stabbed.
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Aug 28 2005, 02:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 217,916 |
Maybe she wanted him to be her husband? I don't know.
I think that as long as you're not in love with the person, it should be okay if your friend dates him. |
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Aug 28 2005, 02:28 PM
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 coolest prep in CB Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,836 |
If they really like each other, nothing can break it, If they can't be a romantic couple, let them be friends or a sweet couple who is in love.
you can't rule their lifes, let them be happy! |
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Aug 28 2005, 05:09 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Be happy for them. That's all I can say. You guys weren't right for each other anyways. You broke up, remember? You say you don't care about the girl....or the ex... this shouldn't be an issue. Let it go.
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Aug 28 2005, 06:24 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I understand, I would be pretty pissed off as well but I you have to deal with the fact that they like each other. If she is your friend you should be supporting her no-matter- what. Move on. You'll find someone better
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Aug 28 2005, 06:55 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
hes your ex. you dont claim him.
if you broke up with him, why are you mad ? you let him go. he was free, if he broke up with you, it must hurt but again, he can like and date who he wants and you cant control that. you dont have a claim to him. theres absoluetly nothing wrong with going out with friends ex`s. |
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Aug 28 2005, 07:17 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
She said yall make a horrible couple? Then why is she even going out with him? You can try to get another one that you like better or just try to deal with it and move on.
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Aug 28 2005, 07:26 PM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
he broke up with me for another giel and i still kinf of like him though =0 but i hate him at the same time and i feel so weird >.<
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Aug 28 2005, 07:54 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ GAHH. I know exactly what you mean and I seriously hate that feeling! Like you know you should hate him after what he's done, but you just still feel kind of attached to him. My advice to give is still be friends with your ex (and laugh your ass off when he and your friend break up). I think your friend sounds kind of rude. Just wait a few more weeks and things shouldn't feel so extreme.
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