Ugh. Options

[SemiErotic]

I wish I knew why no guys liked me, I'm not asking for a sold mate of anything, just a f**king boyfriend like every other girl I know. I have like, barely any expeirience with guys and I feel really left out, and I do't get why it's so hard for me, I mean, I don't thnk I'm drop dead gorgeous or anything, but I wouldn't consider myself hideous...Maybe iI'm just annoying, but yeah, I'm done bitching now.

[ParanoidAndroid]

I love being single. When I had a bf it was such a drag. We had to spend every freaking time together and agree with each other. It's really annoying. But you know getting a boyfriend just so you won't feel left out is actually pretty much the wrong reason to get one. You get a bf so you can be with the one you like. But I believe that;s also your reason. Just to tell you, being single is fun, you dont have to make decisions or feel being locked in a cage. It's very fun! My last boyfriend wouldn't let me do anything but hang out with him and he kept calling me.... That really pissed me off. I mean I liked him but he is suffocating me.

[SemiErotic]

I love being single. When I had a bf it was such a drag. We had to spend every freaking time together and agree with each other. It's really annoying. But you know getting a boyfriend just so you won't feel left out is actually pretty much the wrong reason to get one. You get a bf so you can be with the one you like. But I believe that;s also your reason. Just to tell you, being single is fun, you dont have to make decisions or feel being locked in a cage. It's very fun! My last boyfriend wouldn't let me do anything but hang out with him and he kept calling me.... That really pissed me off. I mean I liked him but he is suffocating me.

I can't really say being single is fun because I had one boyfriend before and it was fun, ughhh, I really hate being single.

[xXirockhardXx]

Dont worry about it, I dont have a bf either but im not complaining. Im perfectly fine without one. But just like andromeda_90 said wanting a bf because you dont want to feel left out is a prety dumb reason. Just wait until someone ask you out and i doubt its because your ugly. If you keep saying that you are just gonna bring your self down.

[Edit]

I just saw your picture [i think thats you. lol.] and you are NOT ugly. =]

[SemiErotic]

I'm just vreally sick and tired f being a third wheel all the time.

[angelrevelation]

how old are you? cuz i just turned 14 and i've never had a bf...
maybe the right guy just isn't at your school

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

Dont' worry. You'll find someone soon. You can try ot make more friends.

[shereyol]

you can't just get a bf just caz you don't wanna feel left out or a third wheel. the whole getting a bf thing just comes naturally. whats the rush

[mouse_3k]

get ova it...?

[Chii]

stop being such an attention whore.

the point of dating is to find your future mate, NOT to just have someone to be there for you when you're bored. that's a FRIEND'S job.

since you want a boyfriend just to have one, you're probably not mature to have a real relationship.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Time can change anything.

[*mipadi*]

stop being such an attention whore.

the point of dating is to find your future mate, NOT to just have someone to be there for you when you're bored. that's a FRIEND'S job.

since you want a boyfriend just to have one, you're probably not mature to have a real relationship.

That's baloney. The point of dating in high school, possibly even in college, but especially high school is to have fun mainly, and also get some experience with relationships while you can still safely make mistakes--but mostly it's to have a good time. Kids in high school aren't dating to find a potential mate--they just want to have a good time, and dating can help with that. Sometimes people take the dating thing too seriously. It should be to have fun, not fulfill some future goal.

[aznhunnie6o1]

I haven't had a boyfriend the whole summer so I'm kinda obsessed with this one guy I've only known for 3 talking days. >.> I feel like a loser. Anyways.. Well.. there shouldn't be any rush to have a boyfriend. Yeah, having a boyfriend is fun, but when they break your heart it.. makes you want to do suicide. I understand what your saying.. but, like everyone else said, if your only wanting a boyfriend cause you feel left out and like a 3rd wheel, maybe your not ready for one. And you seem kinda desperate. So if you want a boyfriend that badly, go find a pitty boyfriend.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

I'm gonna be straight forward with ya.

Stop wondering why this and why that, Go talk to boys, hang out with boys, and maybe something can happen , sittin at home moping for a boyfriend isnt gonna help.

My fear for you is that when u do find someone, ur gonna push them away with all ur built up needyness for a bf ><;

[aznangel4eva]

hmmm
maybe work on areas that you think you can work on? dnt buy that "you should love yourself the way you are" crap. ppl always have things to work on...maybe you should too? but yea...if having a bf is wht you're strivin for...go for it!

[ApocalypseAelis]

That's baloney. The point of dating in high school, possibly even in college, but especially high school is to have fun mainly, and also get some experience with relationships while you can still safely make mistakes--but mostly it's to have a good time. Kids in high school aren't dating to find a potential mate--they just want to have a good time, and dating can help with that. Sometimes people take the dating thing too seriously. It should be to have fun, not fulfill some future goal.

Yes, but it's still immature to want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one or to fit in. Although it's not as serious, you can't look at it as though it were a fad, wanting a boyfriend because everyone else does. You may not plan on spending your entire future with a highschool boyfriend, but you still need to respect and like the guy, not just have him as your boyfriend so you can be like everyone else.


Don't worry, your boyfriend will come along someday. If it takes longer, when you find him, it will be all the sweeter and he will be an even better boyfriend than you imagined. Be patient.

Oh, and you're not ugly at all. -_- Don't be so pessimistic.

[_sarcastic_]

you just want one so that you'll have the status of having a bf or maybe fitting in.
well fyi, that's not why you get bfs in the first place.

[Chii]

That's baloney. The point of dating in high school, possibly even in college, but especially high school is to have fun mainly, and also get some experience with relationships while you can still safely make mistakes--but mostly it's to have a good time. Kids in high school aren't dating to find a potential mate--they just want to have a good time, and dating can help with that. Sometimes people take the dating thing too seriously. It should be to have fun, not fulfill some future goal.

are you kidding me? are you saying that people should just date to mess around and sh*t?

so you'll be fine with someone dating you for a year and then out of the blue be like, yeah that was fun the way you spent so much money and time on me but it wasn't real. oh well, maybe i'll see you around sometime.

oh, and just dating a girl "to get some" is a great relationship too? my god. it's people who think like you that make people make so many "does he like me?" "what's going on in our relationship?" and "why is he doing this to me?" topics here.

[coconutter]

Well, just ask some guys out or get your friends to help. You're not really missing out on anything Honestly guys are alot of trouble unless you're sure they really like you and they wouldn't break up with you for some other girl.

[silver-rain]

You have had a boyfriend before, so you do have experience with boys. Be more confident in yourself, you are not ugly. And, like others have said, do not get a boyfriend just because everyone else has one. So what if you're the third wheel? Stop hanging around with those people and find some single friends, or do things on your own. Being single is great, and sometimes having a boyfriend is not as great. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend, because he will come around one day.

[*mipadi*]

are you kidding me? are you saying that people should just date to mess around and sh*t?

so you'll be fine with someone dating you for a year and then out of the blue be like, yeah that was fun the way you spent so much money and time on me but it wasn't real. oh well, maybe i'll see you around sometime.

oh, and just dating a girl "to get some" is a great relationship too? my god. it's people who think like you that make people make so many "does he like me?" "what's going on in our relationship?" and "why is he doing this to me?" topics here.

Whoa, honey, don't presume to know my feelings about relationships. I'm not saying that you should just jump from person to person or not care; I'm saying that, especially in high school, you're absolutely insane if you are dating someone purely to marry them. Who is going to get married in high school? It's highly unlikely. So that's not the reason people date. People date to have fun. Having fun doesn't mean you don't take the relationship seriously or date "just to get some"--I never said that, and I'll appreciate it if you don't put words in my mouth, thanks. You can have a serious relationship with someone while still having fun--that's what relationships should be, fun. They shouldn't be a lot of work, or stressful--they should be a good time.

[Atobe_Keigo]

Mm....You have had a boyfriend in the past. Goshies....Just calm down. I'm not allowed to hang out with guys and I'm okay. You do have experience with a guy. If you're just getting a guy to be like everyone else, then you're just trying to get some attention like everyone else.
I agree with Chii. Maybe you're not mature for a real relationship yet...
Why don't you just ask a guy why he doesn't like you? Then, you'll probably find out.
Oh yeah, you said that no guys like you. How can you say that no guys like you when you had a boyfriend before?

[ichiban]

Um, well. Then just hang out and talk to boys more. and i'm sure several people your age don't have boyfriends either so .. calm down or something.

[ParanoidAndroid]

You guys take dating WAY too seriously at a very young age. We have all our lives after college to get married and stuff. Why be in a hurry to fine true love? My mom met my dad when they were in second grade and were friends till the end after college and then started dating and suddenly become married couples. But they were able to wait. I mean when I started dating I was like, "I am gonna be a grown-up soon. I don't want to hurry this up. I want to feel like a kid while I still can."

LOL when I am bored I go berserk and go to those kiddie play grounds and slide! LOL and the kiddies would look at me like am a retarded serial killer.