Guy problem, Relationships Options

[*morethanfriends...]

Heres a problem...please help me out. So I've been friends with this guy Craig and recently I've started liking him. We have a good friendship. We call each other and talk on the internet and hang out (last couple of times hes asked me to go to the pool). He just got a g/f about 3 days ago though. Lets just say it hurt. I try to be a friend about it but whenever he mentions about them 2 I get back into my crushing mode. I donno why but we do this thing where we try to make the other 1 jealous. Whenever he mentions his g/f (like saying shes hott, which is why everyone is saying to just 4get about him cuz hes bein mean n rubbing it in my face) I mention my other guy friend J.R and say I've been doing stuff with him like goin walking together and all theses other sweet things. The funny thing is that I haven't even talked to this dude JR since school ended lol. But if I explain 2 him he'll go along with me. The point is... everyone is saying to froget about him because he's bein really mean and stuff. I must admit it does hurt. But he's my #1 guy friend, and hes best friends with all my other guy friends. So if I lose touch with him I lose touch with about 5 other guys too. I donno what to do. Please help out my situation howver you can I can take any advice. Thank you!

P.S I left a link to his xanga. His g/f's name is Kristin. I visit his zanga a lot so u can probably guess how I feel everytime I read her comments (or even Craigs). Please just don't mention me or say I told you (if u leave a comment).

[love-issosweet]

he could just be jealous that you're always talking about "J.R." so he's just doing the same thing to you but with his girlfriend. you should just confront about your feelings to him instead of trying to make him jealous. and besides, how can you lose 5 guy friends just because you lose touch with craig?! they can't all be that shallow

[latinprep12]

^ yes i agree you and him make each other jealous and well its no a stab at you its just you named a other guy to your best friend...well if i was your best friend and you named a other guy i will go into defense mode..lol...well its all love and i think you and him sound cute...and if hes your best guy friend...then thats that until you and him break it...its all love [you and him]

i wish i had a girl like you...[a good girl friend]

[shereyol]

^ i agree, maybe you should try not to talking about J.R. anymore and see what happens.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

I dont believe he is trying to make u jelous and being mean to you intentionally, Its just hes recently got into a relationship with a new girl, So you know hes gonna be talkin about how great she is for a while. Its a fact when u start dating someone new , thats the only thing on your mind and u want to express how good u feel u found someone for that time being.

You arent helpin the situation by making up fantasies making him jelous, If you want him, you should tell him, because making him feel jelous wont help

[aera]

^i agree with that person.

mentioning J.R. won't help. it's probably making your relationship worse. if you stop, then maybe he might.

[ParanoidAndroid]

f*** craig. When I had a crush on my guy friend and found out he was dating my best friend even he didn't flaunt her or anything.

Well I guess maybe you should let the couple be. it's not good to interfere with someone's happiness for your own. And try to lay low with making them jealous even if he is doing that to you. If you know it hurt you when he flaunted his gf maybe you shouldn't do the same act in order to prevent that hurt to continue. Move on with life.

I don't think that Craig guy is making you jealous though. If i had a new bf I would be so proud I'd tell everyone. I'm sure you'd do the same.

[*mipadi*]

Did he know you liked him?

[MischievousLove]

everyones right. u should stop talking about J.R. & u should def. talk to craig about how he hurts u when he talks about kristen. & u should also probably tell him how u feel about him. it might make tihngs better