which would you rather have Options

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

i've been thinking about it and, which friend would you rather be friends with. someone who is really into themself. like thinks they are really pretty and everything. or a friend that hate how they look and had a really low selfesteem. i have a friend that like hates herself and i always with that she would stop saying all this stuff. but then i have/had a friend who thinks she is really hott, like she thinks she has a big butt and huge boobs and i wish she would just stop. so my answer to my question, if i had to chose between the two, i know its really selfish but i think i would choose the low selfesteem one. so final question would you rather have a friend with a high selfesteem or low selfesteem and.. would do you spell selfesteem

[Chii]

self esteem is two words, you were close enough

i'd rather be friends with someone who has high self esteem like the one you described. both of their actions are annoying but i'd rather be with someone who's positive because someone negative would drag me down with them.

[b0st0ngrl]

I'd rather have a friend with low self esteem. Not to make me feel better about myself or anything but one of my great friend has a low self esteem but she's still really nice and I get along with her great. I also have another friend who is really into themselves and although I am good friends with her, it's really annoying when she goes on and on about how she thinks she's the best.

[aera]

i'd rather have a friend with low self esteem. just because someone who's really into themselves are really annoying and always think that some boy is looking at them and that all the boys like flirting with them. i hate that. i have friends with low self esteem and i'd rather hang out with them then with friends that have high self esteem.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

high self esteem because yes its annoying but they are most cheerful to be around. i don't like hanging around people who bring everyone around them down just because they are lack confidence

[silver-rain]

Hmm, chii brings up a good point about the negativity from someone with low self esteem, but I would still rather be friends with that person. I know some people who have really high self esteems, but are so annoying; they go on and on about themselves and how good they look, how they could get any guy they wanted, etc., and frankly, I find that attitude appalling. Sure, some positive self esteem isn't bad, but I hate it when people think highly of themselves and think that they're all that, when they aren't. However, sometimes people with low self esteem don't broadcast that and usually aren't negative. I have a friend who has low self esteem, but she's fun to be around, and isn't negative.

[_sarcastic_]

high self esteems, i mean at least the have a positive outlook on life, so what if they get on my nerves, at least i know that she won't be wanting to kill herself or even hurt herself.

[technicolour]

Gees. I have incredibly low self esteem, but no one can tell cause I'm always joking about it. But anyways. A friend is a friend..but if their low self esteem turns into hurting themselves..then off to the adult I go. But the high esteem people, yeah, they are so fed up with themselves to notice anything.

[*stephinika*]

self esteem is two words, you were close enough

i'd rather be friends with someone who has high self esteem like the one you described. both of their actions are annoying but i'd rather be with someone who's positive because someone negative would drag me down with them.

exactly. i hate it when people go on and on about how much they hate themselves or whatever. ugh.

[littlewhite]

High self-esteem.
I mean like arrogance is at least better than someone who degrades him/herself.

[NgocQuyen]

lols i think high self esteem...i mean goshes...i would rather have my friend like themself than diss themself all the time! it gets annoying to me that my friends dont have self confidence....sometimes i think they just want attention or something...

[NgocQuyen]

lols i think high self esteem...i mean goshes...i would rather have my friend like themself than diss themself all the time! it gets annoying to me that my friends dont have self confidence....sometimes i think they just want attention or something...


+++sorrie for double post...this is like my first double post ever...i was doing so good too!! X___X

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I'd rather have a friend whose not so into herself..cause that wouldn't annoy me as much...but sometimes I feel like people who look down of themselves do it on purpose jusst for the attention of people to say no your not fat or ulgy..your beautiful...& sometimes that jusst pisses me off...

[shortiiex]

i like people with low self esttem
peopel who think too much of themselves are just so annoying..they are like...look there are cute boys there..at least we're hot..
friends can help those with low self esteem

[sheepy]

i cant really stand both types of people, and i doubt eithe kind would be a very close friends of mine. but i guess low self esteem, because maybe i'll be able to boost it up for them.

[squashie]

yea i agree with carol ^. cuz it would be easier for me to boost up someones self esteem then bring it down. (okay that sounded mean) but hm. some people who view themselves as higher class people cant change, so yea.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I'd rather have a person who is positive and confident with themselves then negative and hate themself

[ParanoidAndroid]

I want a friend with low self-esteem. That way we have something in common. And I like to help people out a lot so maybe we can connect because of our low self-esteem -ness. (I know that wasn't a word)

[SSJ Kenshin]

I actually have both, and I prefer the company of the friend with high self esteem. She doesn't bum me out like the other one. We can have a great time together.

[shereyol]

high self esteem, i rather have someone who's confident and won't always make you unhappy.

[5ayuri]

high self esteem.
I think some people I know are like that, if they talk to much about themselves I just tell them to shutup already.

[lit0chinagirl]

i'd rather have someone with high self esteem. it's funner that way. plus a little bit of confidence goes a long way.

[Cwlplover]

Low self-esteem. I could help bring it up. :)

I can't stand people who are full of themselves.

[xscore]

^ i agree.