What should I do?, i need help and advice..=( |
 Aug 13 2005, 12:27 AM
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 My name is Mimi  Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,525  |
My mom always stays in either her room, or one of the restrooms in the house. She rarely comes out, unless it's to toilet, eat, well, you get me.
 Only sometimes she takes care of my sisters and usually my grandparents and I take care of them, or my dad when he comes home, and he like, works all day.  When my sisters make a mess or something, someone besides my mother cleans it up. My grandparents are thinking of moving away from us..  Because my mom doesn't come out to eat when it's time to, so they think she doesn't like their cooking and my sisters are very troublesome, and they think with them gone, my mom will learn to be more responsible.  I feel sad..because every one of my grandmother's children have no problems with their marriage/life and the replationship in this house is tearing apart.  *sigh* I thank all of you who..bother to read this.  Please give me some advice.. 
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Aug 13 2005, 01:09 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
aww mimi. i feel so sorry for you!
i suggest that you talk to them, maybe that would work. 
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Aug 13 2005, 01:32 AM
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My name is Mimi Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,525 |
Thanks Julie!
 Other people might think I'm pathetic..or something..because..they look at my topic..and they just leave..
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Aug 13 2005, 01:40 AM
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 Lil JC Group: Member Posts: 868 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,741 |
i wont look and leave lol im not mean like that i know what you mean thats how my mom was b4 my parents divorced (not to say that will happen to you) but i dunno my mom was always hiding cuz she was doin drugs and drinkin and she didnt want my dad to know but it was obvious and she still drinks like crazy i barely talk to her anymore cuz thare's no point she jus forgets the next day...sry forgot about your problem i get off track easy lol anywayz you should just sit down and talk with her and ask her whats wrong and why she wont take on her mom/wife responsibilities or else (i hate to say it) you might be livin in 2 different houses
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Aug 13 2005, 01:53 AM
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 Boom. Bang. Shoom. Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,860 |
QUOTE(daonlylonely1 @ Aug 13 2005, 1:09 AM) i suggest that you talk to them  i agree with that. i cant think of much else that would actually make it even the slightest bit better. that just plain sucks. |
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Aug 13 2005, 02:55 AM
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My name is Mimi Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,525 |
I'll try.
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Aug 13 2005, 03:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,286 |
aww..omg i feel bad 4 u now....
well my parents r'nt divorced but...maybe at least u can try 2 talk 2 ur grandparents n make them see from her point of view and then have a really heavy mom to daughter talk...i think she has 2 realize wat she might lose if she doesnt stop with all this depression..she does care 4 u guys...shes just going through some rough times...help her snap out of it..be there for her..and if she needs a shoulder 2 cry on or something..try 2 always be there...just try to tell her how you feel..it might work...
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Aug 13 2005, 08:02 AM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
talk to your mom, ask her if she's alright and why is she hiding most of the time.
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Aug 13 2005, 08:45 PM
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Momo, just talk to them. sit down with your mom and talk to her. tell her how you feel.
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Aug 13 2005, 10:27 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
You're mom seems like she is depressed. I think you should talk to her and ask her why she doesn't come out and show her that you care for her.
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Aug 13 2005, 10:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
YOu should talk to your mom but i can't guarentee that she will just tell you what it going on
if she has a secret...just let her tell you when she wants to |
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