i think i have problems..., not mental. but...i dno how to explain.. |
 Aug 4 2005, 08:17 PM
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hi.
i think i'm having some problems...like, not mental, but i mean, sometimes i feel i'm not supposed to be the gender i am now...  like i'm into girls stuff...like bras. and i dont no where i got all that curiosity, but i am so curious that i try that stuff...and i think i should be a girl, rather than a boy. and my mind keeps on thinking about girl's stuff...like i cant help it... i think i hav a problem. ppl, help me. what can i do!?!?!? |
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Aug 4 2005, 08:21 PM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
Well, if you can't help it then you can't help it.
I dunno if this is normal or not so? But hey, maybe you're just curious. Have you ever wanted to be with another boy? |
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Aug 4 2005, 08:23 PM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
I read in a magazine, and I dont remember what its called..,but there is this condition that like you are born one sex,but the way your brain thinks was somehow mixed up with the other. Like what you are having right now. Maybe that's it?
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Aug 4 2005, 08:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
I've seen stuff like this happen in Jerry Springer.
JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY. It's alright if you're gay or bisexual. Good luck. |
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Aug 4 2005, 08:42 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Eh, maybe you're turning gay, if your voice sounds gay then you might me, hehe. It's okay, I guess all boys can be like that sometimes.
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Aug 4 2005, 08:49 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
well i have a fascination with bra's...
did you know that most women are usually a size bigger if they get measured at victoria's secret and that if u soak a bra in cold water it revitalizes the elasticity? lmao it's jus this weird thing with me but yeah people have random things they like so its not that weird |
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Aug 4 2005, 10:00 PM
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QUOTE(JAMx33 @ Aug 4 2005, 8:41 PM) I've seen stuff like this happen in Jerry Springer. JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY. It's alright if you're gay or bisexual. Good luck.  haha how do you actually learn stuff from jerry? its all fake. i dont know what to tell you though. ive never heard of anybody like that, but maybe you just happen to be curious. |
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Aug 4 2005, 10:21 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Maybe it's just a phase. Maybe you're just tired of being a boy and you want to explore the more feminine side of you. If you feel more attracted to boys, then you are gay. Right now, you just sound like you're a little bit too curious. It shouldn't be serious though.
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Aug 4 2005, 10:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
lol.
i was watching this channel on the discovery health channel about people being transsexual and how some people actually has surgery for changing their gender. and this guy got it and he said that when he was young he would always feel like he was a girl and he would always try on his mother's clothes when she wasn't there and he did all this macho man stuff. but he got married and had a kid and decided he wanted a sex change and ... it was weird. yeah. you could be transsexual. or like bi or something. |
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Aug 5 2005, 12:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Aug 4 2005, 9:42 PM) Eh, maybe you're turning gay, if your voice sounds gay then you might me, hehe. It's okay, I guess all boys can be like that sometimes. If your voice sounds feminine, doesn't mean the guy is gay. They're just feminine. |
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Aug 5 2005, 03:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,509 |
k. thanks.
my voice is normal (like a boy) and so is my appearance and stuff. i'v never wanted to b with another boy or sth like that... ...just wondering...why is it so unfair, that girls get like millions of variety of clothes and underwear, but guys don't have a lot of choices...!? |
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Aug 5 2005, 04:10 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Maybe your just horny.
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Aug 5 2005, 07:16 PM
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 i really wanna say those three little words.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,636 |
on oprah one episode there was this couple.. but the man had gotten a sex change to a women. he (she?) said that when he was younger he always felt weird.. like he wasnt himself. like he was supposed to be something different. he still got married and had kids.. and then he got the sex change later. well it took a while.. like first he took estrogen and things like that.. and then he got the full thing. the 2 are still married too, but they arent um.. intimate. it was pretty interesting though. maybe you're like this? i'd try researching stuff on it. you may just be interested in stuff, you may be gay, or you might be like this guy (i'm not sure what you call it..)
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Aug 5 2005, 07:44 PM
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 **I am Hax0r** Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 192,907 |
uhm.. remind me again WHY A BOY IS THINKING ABOUT WANTING TO BE A GIRL!!!.. Are you sure its not mental problems? Its ok if u wanna be a crossdresser yah know u could even get a boob job if u wanted but thats your choice.. i dont think ne one here minds do we yall??
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Aug 5 2005, 07:46 PM
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 .:.Da Kid Vash.:. Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,945 |
na its just one of those awkward phases in ur life...bah dont worry about do wat u want itll change soon.....or will it :-\
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Aug 5 2005, 07:47 PM
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**I am Hax0r** Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 192,907 |
o just to let yall know... i WASNT being mean..SRY if i was I Apologize...
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Aug 5 2005, 07:47 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
go you. do whatever your heart tells you and dont let society hold you back
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Aug 5 2005, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(chickattracter @ Aug 5 2005, 6:44 PM) uhm.. remind me again WHY A BOY IS THINKING ABOUT WANTING TO BE A GIRL!!!.. Are you sure its not mental problems? Its ok if u wanna be a crossdresser yah know u could even get a boob job if u wanted but thats your choice.. i dont think ne one here minds do we yall?? don't listen to that assswipe  look. everybody is created different. i don't know you well enough to just immediately assume that you could be a transexual in the making--but i'm just saying, whether it's just plain curiosity--or if you really want to be a woman, don't be ashamed of yourself and beat yourself up for having a different way of thinking. if you wish to be a girl and you feel more comfortable as a woman, wearing dresses, bras, thongs, or whatnot--please don't be ashamed of it. you might feel guilty and sometimes even sick inside doing some of these things--but it may be your body trying to discover itself. i don't know how old you are, but i'm guessing you're pretty young. let time go by. in a few years, you'll better understand yourself and see if you were just curious, or you had a different nature, or if you were transexual or gay. either way, don't hate yourself for being different. none of this is your fault |
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Aug 5 2005, 08:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
it's either you go bothways or you want a sex change...you can do which ever you feel like..
you should go out in public wearing all the girl stuff...and see if you feel comfortable peopel staring at you...and after see if you still want to wear girls clothes |
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Aug 6 2005, 11:44 AM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
maybe youre just not sure yet.
kinda reminds me of how girls go thru that "tomboy" stage. butttt i dunno. |
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Aug 6 2005, 04:00 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
I have a facination with bras and what they hold... But ehh its natural to be a little curious. Its usually a phase
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Aug 7 2005, 12:23 AM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
^^...right.
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Aug 10 2005, 01:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,509 |
QUOTE(JAMx33 @ Aug 5 2005, 9:41 AM) I've seen stuff like this happen in Jerry Springer. JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY. It's alright if you're gay or bisexual. Good luck. dude. good luck!? what the hell... 
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Aug 10 2005, 06:11 PM
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 The Blue Panda Of Doom Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 195,223 |
No, i dont think you have problems, I think you are just curious on what it must feel like to be the other sex.
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Aug 10 2005, 09:57 PM
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 THERE'S N0 GREATER P0WER THAN THE P0WER 0F G00DBYE Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,345 |
um..dont alll guys like bras...i mean its in guy code to like boobs. but maybe ur a metro. [i'm 1]..if u ever need advice PM/e-mail me.
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Jan 8 2007, 08:14 PM
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 dfhgklfhksdhd Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,454 |
God made you specificly a boy.
I understand exactly what your going through. It will get better/change. You were made a male for a reason. Don't feel bad about it. 
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Jan 8 2007, 08:54 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
so you'rwe saying that you want to be a girl?
you can get it done with surgery if it pleases you. |
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Jan 8 2007, 09:21 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
For everybody who said that he is gay or bisexual - y'all are stupid fcuks. Why are y'all so stereotypical? Seriously.
Maybe he just has feminent qualities. Doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. Anyways, if you're into the bras/clothes, I'd say you're only a transvestite at the most. However, like others have suggested, it may just be a phase of curiosity. |
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Jan 9 2007, 02:22 PM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
doesnt matter
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Jan 11 2007, 11:03 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
well... maybe it's just a phase you're going through right now.
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Jan 12 2007, 12:35 AM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
Uh isn't it typical for a guy to like bras or boobs or whatever? Maybe you are just curious and want to know more. depends the level of your obsession or something. and you may not be gay or bi. Not all guys have to be exactly alike, you know.
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Jan 14 2007, 04:05 PM
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 ¤ The Fatal Virus ¤ Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 488,115 |
QUOTE(bylrarzeitnt @ Aug 4 2005, 7:17 PM) hi. i think i'm having some problems...like, not mental, but i mean, sometimes i feel i'm not supposed to be the gender i am now... like i'm into girls stuff...like bras. and i dont no where i got all that curiosity, but i am so curious that i try that stuff...and i think i should be a girl, rather than a boy. and my mind keeps on thinking about girl's stuff...like i cant help it... i think i hav a problem. ppl, help me. what can i do!?!?!? Wow...you sound alot like me about four years ago (I was 13)!! Look, nothing is wrong with you. Dont ever think that!! DONT!! When I was going through that, I really thought I was a freak but I embraced it. No, I dont wear womens clothes but I embraced the part of my brain that thought like a woman. Now, dont get me wrong, I have always liked boys. When I was in elementary and everyone I knew had girlfriends, I never wanted one. I got asked out alot and I was always kinda like "Ehhhh....I dont want a girlfriend right now." and then when I got into jr. high, I realized I was gay and came out and dated guys. Anyway, if you truely think you are meant to be a woman, go for it. Dont let anything stop you from being happy. If you do, you'll regret it later on. Or, just go gay. Like cross-dressing gay. |
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Apr 2 2007, 12:09 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
QUOTE(Lil_Cloud @ Jan 8 2007, 10:21 PM) For everybody who said that he is gay or bisexual - y'all are stupid fcuks. Why are y'all so stereotypical? Seriously. Maybe he just has feminent qualities. Doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. Anyways, if you're into the bras/clothes, I'd say you're only a transvestite at the most. However, like others have suggested, it may just be a phase of curiosity. okay, the point you're making is a good one, that's what I was going to say, but the term is "transgender" QUOTE Transgender people often say that they are trapped in the wrong body — they were born one sex but feel more like another. -HRC for more information, this might be a helpful site. It's perfectly normal, and you should never feel like something is wrong with you. |
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Apr 2 2007, 04:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 793 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 425,250 |
QUOTE(kzp @ Jan 8 2007, 8:14 PM) God made you specificly a boy. God didn't make him, his father's sperm along with his mother's egg did. Don't bring religion into this. maybe you need a sex change. thats not sarcastic that's forserious my cuz had one when she thought she was supposed to be a man. and now shes a man well... he's a man and she/he couldnt be happier... her/his girlfriend is really hot too |
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Apr 2 2007, 05:42 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
MAYBE YOU'RE GAY LOL
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Apr 2 2007, 06:23 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
Your Just curious, its a guy thing..LOL
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Apr 2 2007, 06:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
This reminds me of Japanese punk pocker ... like .. direngrey(sp?)
they would dress up as girl, wear makeup, and styff. |
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May 27 2007, 09:42 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,530 |
It could be that you're just curious or that you're a transsexual. (you were born one gender but feel you should have been born another gender)
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May 27 2007, 09:47 AM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
yah. and apparently, its sort common for all guys to go through that stage one point in their life...
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May 27 2007, 09:55 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE([pshaa]shauna @ Aug 4 2005, 09:23 PM) I read in a magazine, and I dont remember what its called..,but there is this condition that like you are born one sex,but the way your brain thinks was somehow mixed up with the other. Like what you are having right now. Maybe that's it? I seen something like that on the news! Ask the doctor? Or maybe your parents? The doctor could probably tell you whats wrong or a therapist lol. You could also could be transsexual or just curious. |
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May 27 2007, 07:58 PM
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it's probably just a phase i went through a time where i was totally self absorbed and felt girly everytime i said something, i got over it though
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May 27 2007, 09:24 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
Get laid, with a girl. Were you into it? If yes, then maybe you'll just grow up to be a hair dresser or make-up artist or something. If no, you're probably into the fellas. Never know until you try it though.
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May 28 2007, 02:35 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
why is this back from the dead....made in 05 motha fuckkkas
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May 29 2007, 04:11 AM
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QUOTE(bRoKeNxALoNE @ Aug 5 2005, 04:10 PM) Maybe your just horny. i agree with you. |
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May 29 2007, 11:28 PM
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dfhgklfhksdhd Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,454 |
honestly,
you were made to be a guy. i go through the same stuff...& sometimes I wish I was a girl.(but for the wrong reasons) but I know that i should be a boy! its just curiousity & there's nothing wrong with that. trust me, it wont last. |
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