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Wh1t3_w0lF
post Aug 4 2005, 03:14 PM
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I have been going out with my girlfriend for a week now, i really love her alot. Last night i was at hers and she asked me if i would start shaving my legs for her, as she doesnt like guys with hairy legs... now i was abit freaked out... she asked me to think it over and tell her next time i see her... I dont know what to do, as i love her lots, but i think its weird a guy shaving his legs... any advice please...
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 03:18 PM
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I prefer guys shave their legs as well but I think if you are not comfortable with doing it then dont. She should understand if you decide not to.
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 03:27 PM
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Now days guys shaving, that becoming like a fad or whatever.

If you really like her and want to stay with her, razors are on aisle 5 at walmart.

But if you decide not to, then really, she should understand.
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 04:13 PM
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HAHA. I thought she wanted you to shave her legs. Grosss. l0l.
Well. It's your body. Do whatever you want to it. But if you don't wanna do it. Then don't. Even if you "love" her a lot.
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 04:31 PM
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if you dont want to dont.
but if you really want to do it for her, then do it [:
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 04:34 PM
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Yea, it really is your decision, after all, it is YOUR body.
But yea. She'd understand if you didn't want to if she really loved you back.

Personally, I think it's kinda freaky.
 
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post Aug 4 2005, 05:33 PM
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post Aug 4 2005, 08:57 PM
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If you want to shave your legs than go ahead but if you dont and she doesnt understand then move on
 
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post Aug 5 2005, 08:23 AM
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if shes says "i dont feel like going out with you because you dont shave your legs" then break up with that bitch.
if you feel pressured if she ever loooks at your unshaved legs, tell her you dont want to shave your legs or that if she really cares that much about it, she needs to get a life.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 04:36 AM
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shaved my legs in the end, shes worth it i reckon biggrin.gif feels abit odd tho...
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 05:44 AM
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^Whoa, okay.
I guess you made your decision already. wink.gif
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 07:51 AM
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i think she should understand that u choose not to... afterall its only been a week for u guys being together.. how'll things be later on if u start doing things against ur will from now?
besides... she should compormise and you shoudlnt sacrifice... or is it the other way around ;)
ur call!
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 08:26 AM
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go for it. its not that bad. lol you might even like it.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 08:48 AM
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if u don't want,then don''t
i think she will understand u=]
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 08:48 AM
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I think you should think about and if you don't want to, tell her why and she should understand. If she doesn't understand I don't think its worth your time to be with her although you love her. If she loves you back she should respect your decision and the fact that its your body. I have seen some guys shave their legs and it looks normal. You could try trimming it a bit or something.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 09:02 AM
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QUOTE(Wh1t3_w0lF @ Aug 9 2005, 4:36 AM)
shaved my legs in the end, shes worth it i reckon  biggrin.gif feels abit odd tho...
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good for you, you shaved it
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 10:06 AM
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tell her you love her & all but youre not comfortable changing for anyone. even if it is your physical apprearnce.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 11:57 AM
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I prefer whatever. I like both. depends on the guy.

anyways, do the thing that you want to do. if she has a problem with you not shaving your legs, or shaving your legs (or aka your opinion) then I say that's not a true girlfriend.

hope I helped throb.gif
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 12:45 PM
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if you don't feel comfortable shaving your legs then don't. if she cares about you the way you care about her, then she shouldn't mind. just tell her you're uncomfortable with it.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 01:25 PM
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If you don't want to do it, then don't. She'll understand if she likes you as much as you like her.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 01:27 PM
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i agree with everyone. she should accept you for who you are, not how you look.
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 02:09 PM
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EEK, ya shaved em.
Woah.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 11:52 AM
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Just wondering if anyone knows how long it would take for my hair on my legs to go back?
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(Wh1t3_w0lF @ Aug 10 2005, 12:52 PM)
Just wondering if anyone knows how long it would take for my hair on my legs to go back?
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it won't take too long, maybe a week? i don't know i don't shave my legs because the hair is really fine and unnoticeable.

personally, i think it's creepy if guys shave their legs...men are supposed to be hairy. you should have just trimmed it.

god, if you just gave in at the snap of her fingers what else is she going to change about you next? your hair? your clothes? your friends?
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 01:54 PM
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QUOTE(Wh1t3_w0lF @ Aug 10 2005, 10:52 AM)
Just wondering if anyone knows how long it would take for my hair on my legs to go back?
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hMmMm...it depends if its noticeable or not. but itll grow sooner or later.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 02:00 PM
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depends what you mean by "growing back" You'll probably start to see stubble within the week, but it could take anywhere from a week to 2 months for it to all grow back.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 03:24 PM
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you could always get them waxed... jkjkjkjk. that's just really weird.

personally, i don't really care if guys shave their legs or not... i kinda like it when they don't. but it's up to you.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 03:47 PM
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just tell her that yuu're not comfortable shaving... i'm sure she'll understand. she loves yuu, and it shouldn't make much of a difference.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 03:48 PM
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I highly doubt you love her since you guys have only been going out for a week.. but what do I know?

Ummm, I'd say that if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't. Just tell her you don't feel comfortable and don't. I don't like it when guys shave their legs, it just.. I dunno. I just don't like it.. huh.gif
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 10:03 PM
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If you don't want to, don't. If she cares about you, you not shaving your legs shouldn't be a problem.
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 10:29 PM
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1. u cant be in love in a week...
2. if you two were REALLY in love, she wouldnt pressure u to shave ur legs
 

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