*WAH* I'm sad. |
 Jul 28 2005, 11:31 PM
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Me and my boyfriend were on a break [break = I said I wanted to figure out if I wanted to be tied down when I'm only 16]. Then I gave a guy my number cuz my friends pressured me to talk to him since I said he was cute. =_= Then the guy asked for a hug so I gave him a hug. AND MY BOYFRIEND WAS WATCHING ME THE WHOLE TIME.
I was upfront and honest and told him that I was falling out of love with him. He said he will never forgive me for what I did. He said that we're never gonna get back together. It's funny bcuz we once had dreams of marrying each other and that was all washed down the drain.. YES, I know I'm young and will find other guys. I'm just feeling right now all I want is him. I still love him. The reason why I was falling out of love with him was bcuz I never got to talk to him or see him anymore. I couldn't help it. Yea, call me a dumbass. Call me anything you want but I just wanted to let out my sadness and grief. SIGH. |
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Jul 28 2005, 11:33 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
You're ONLY 16. Many things can happen.
Love is also an extremely strong word. But it sounds like you guys had it.. COMMUNICATION: Talk with him about this. Honestly. If you ever had hopes of getting back together and hoping he wont hold a grudge, you seriously need to talk to him. ha. Now no one can steal my line. |
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Jul 29 2005, 06:33 PM
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ah same thing happened to me and my ex... lol it was funny b.c when boys say "we'll never get back together again" or "theirs no turning back" [something like that] .. the boy always runs back after you... yeah we had those "dreams" about marrying, but eh... reality... you man will get over it... just give him time... you can try talking [COMMUNICATION^^^] but just give him some space i guess
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Jul 29 2005, 06:57 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
what the hell? the point of being on a break is to figure things out, NOT to go see if there are better fish in the sea.
i don't think he'll want you back, that was just disgusting to do that right in front of him...quite frankly i hope he doesn't take you back. just quit with this dating for awhile, it doesn't seem like you can handle a relationship. |
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Jul 29 2005, 07:44 PM
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so your boyfriend is bad at you b/c you got another guys #...and you are a break...first ask him to define break...cause that is really the whole point of it...
and if he loves you...he'll come back |
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Jul 29 2005, 09:20 PM
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Ya you should of been sure about it b4 u broke up with him cuz once there gone you realize wut u really had and what ur now missing and wish you had...Either way he should still be your friend you cant expect to be with that once person forever your still young and have lots to experience!!
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Jul 30 2005, 01:01 AM
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I don't think a guy will ever figure out what a girl means by a "break".
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Jul 30 2005, 01:04 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
pretty sucky what you did , people want what they cant have.
but I think you were more pressured into hugging him. |
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Jul 30 2005, 08:15 AM
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Sounds like something simailar to my previous relationship. I was going out with this one guy but since we only got to see each other once a week and only talked occassionally it didn't quite work out. Maybe you should try spending more time together. Not seeing him might've made you forgot what you feel in love with =]
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| *danielle_x3* |
Jul 30 2005, 09:27 AM
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QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 29 2005, 12:33 AM) You're ONLY 16. Many things can happen.  I agree. You'll find other people. He should be able to forgive you. Just talk to him, and someday he will. And try to smile, things will get better. 
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 4 2005, 10:29 AM
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"We were on a break!"
Maybe if you borrow that line, things will work out. |
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Aug 4 2005, 11:41 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Um, you broke up with him and he no longer likes you. Are you asking for advice? Apparently you're not because you said you just want to release all your sadness or whatever. Write about it in your blog or something. I have a feeling you're not telling the entire truth here.
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Aug 4 2005, 01:33 PM
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 They Set Us Up With The Bomb Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761 |
I'm so sorry... I hope it all works out, because I hate seeing a beautiful girl acting sad, or angry, or pouty...
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Aug 4 2005, 01:37 PM
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QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Aug 4 2005, 2:33 PM) I'm so sorry... I hope it all works out, because I hate seeing a beautiful girl acting sad, or angry, or pouty... Is that to say that it's totally okay if an ugly girl is acting sad, angry, or pouty? |
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Aug 4 2005, 01:38 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
mipadi, have you ever said anything to a girl to make her feel better?
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Aug 4 2005, 01:39 PM
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I think so, once. But then she stabbed me in the back. I think that was unrelated to the nice thing I said, but I'm not sure.
Maybe twice. |
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Aug 4 2005, 01:41 PM
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He's said plenty to me to make me feel very happy.
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Aug 4 2005, 01:41 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I think he said 'beautiful' to make her feel better...
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Aug 4 2005, 01:42 PM
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Oh oh! I'm remembering a third time.
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Aug 4 2005, 01:42 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Ha ha ha ha.
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Aug 4 2005, 04:48 PM
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Since everyone seems to think that communication is the key, I'l go ahead and say it. Talk does nothing. Actions speak louder than words. And a lot of times people don't really give a damn what you've got to say once you've pissed them off. Communication works two ways, no need to put lead in your pencil if you have no one to write to.
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Aug 4 2005, 06:19 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
your boyfriend was being a little touchy... explain to him your friend forced you to. and you ARE the one who asked for the break, right?
your bf says he won't ever talk to you again, but he's just mad. he probably doesnt actually literally mean it. |
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Aug 5 2005, 02:06 AM
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Dont worry hun
if u stay strong. you can find a better guy =] |
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Aug 5 2005, 06:19 AM
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They Set Us Up With The Bomb Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761 |
QUOTE Is that to say that it's totally okay if an ugly girl is acting sad, angry, or pouty? NO it's not ok.but I just can't stand when any girl is sad....alright I'm not being shallow, I'm just saying that SHE's beautiful, and I cant stand to see HER sad... Sorry bout the confusion. |
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Aug 5 2005, 09:45 AM
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eh..has happened to meh bunch of times wit mi current bf now...at first our relationship started good...den it goes down..den up again... im sure he will come bak to yoo...cuz wen mi said we're neva ment to b..and i was soo sad dat i needed him..but like a few mins lata..he came apologized and asked meh out again...and now everything is good...so hopefully..he'll come bak to yoo... *winks and smiles*
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