My mom always blames me.., for everything.. Options

[coconutter]

Everytime something goes wrong my mom blames me. If the laundry falls, she blames me. If somethings on the floor, she blames me. Yesterday I came in the door and the cat went crazy and broke a frame. Then she acused me of going up and grabbing the cat and then she made me clean it up when I was no where near the cat. What should I do

[mai_z]

That happens to me too a lot, but not quite that extreme. It's kinda funny how a lot of these problems just boil down to communication. You need to talk to your mother, and sooner or later she'll start listening. I know it's hard, and I do it myself, but try not to freak out or get angry. If you have to, count to ten, and take a couple deep breaths, and tell your mom how you feel about it. I know it sounds really cheesy and like therapist type thing to do, but believe me, it helps

[coconutter]

Thanks, that's not that cheesey it's not a huge problem, but it gets on my nerves big-time.

[Chii]

you should just say "dammit woman, i didn't do it!!" ...that's what i say in my head when my mother bothers me...


i think this is just some type of phase, it'll pass. i don't exactly know how old you are but you're probably almost in high school or in high school. i think that in a way, your mom is trying to keep you from acting out. she doesn't want you to rebel and stuff in the near future so she's being strict so she can show you who's boss. that way you won't be all sneaking out at midnight or coming home at 2am or doing drugs, etc because she's so strict with all the yelling.

i'm not sure if i worded it right but that's what my mom did to me...i didn't work too well though

[shortiiex]

you can talk or scream at her saying wtf is her problem? does she even love you?make her feel uncomforatable..till she stops accusing you

[xosteffanator]

just cry and say why do you always blaim everything on me- or tell her how you feel.

[da1_n_only_nikki]

eh my mom`s like that too. just try talking to her about how you feel and all.

[HelloSunshine]

Yeah.You should talk to her. I don't suggest yelling,though things'll just get worse lol. Anyhoo like it was said above just say it in your head..don't say it outloud..lol. Anyways,good luck!

[mouse_3k]

Tell her to screw herself. When my mom blames me for stuff I didnt do, i just tell her to get her facts straight and leave me alone.

[i can break]

Find some time to talk to your mother about these things. Either that or hold it all in and then explode one day.

[SillyCourtney]

Slap her in the face and show her who's boss.

But, the one drawback is you could end up on one of those Maury "Send my teenager to boot-camp!" episodes.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

woow...some of you guys really know how to respect your parents .....understand that most of the time your parents get mad at you because there working 24/7 and your not ...they have the tendency to get madd because they have to fix alot of things that you have done unintentially ..and stress usually ends up too accusation .....i guess try to talk to her about that you didnt do it ....but heck families are different soo i dont know

[Xtearsofyesterda...]

my mom does the same thing to me. the first thing is to makes ure that you don't take it out on yourself. it sounds like you're not blaming yourself, so that's good. talk to your mom if you feel comfortable with her and see where she's coming from. if that doesn't work, just brush it off. she's might just be stressed or something. if that doesn't work and she keeps blaming you, talk to another parent [if you have one] or a sibling. see what they think, like what you're doing here.

[iiTsDAYNA]

Are you sure shes not kididng with you? Try confronting her about the problem.

[toodlepops.]

Oh, maybe your mother is going through menopause?