first gf Options

[lexaa621]

a few weeks ago i went to camp. after the first week there was this girl i liked but i didnt want to start anything because all the couples at camp were just falling apart and it seemed like a dumb idea to start a relationship. anyways things just sorta happened and we got closer and she started making all the first moves which really surprised me cuz she was sorta the shy type and she'd never had a bf before. so turned out i liked her and she liked me back, and we just ended up bf and gf. but we only got to enjoy it for a week and a half or so, because camp ended a week ago. we still talk and really like each other but its so hard since she lives in a different state. this is the first time i've had a gf, since i guess i'm the shy type as well. just wondering if anyone had some advice for me on long distance relationships? we probably wont see each other for a few months or at worst a year, and i'm scared that it'll be tough to never see her for that long.

[technicolour]

Long distance relationships are hard. Talk over the phone, buy webcams and you can have "dates" online. THat's what one of my friends did. They bought webcams and had "dates" every saturday. It was a good idea. I do believe that they are still goingout.

If no webcam, then, phone. Talk regularly, if possible.

Or write letters. Snail mail, traditionally, but sometimes they can be the coolest things ever.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

^ I'd have to agree with her. Or you can mail each other. Find out her address send her tiny presents and photos of how you're doing. But I think Webcamming is the best.

[*mipadi*]

My advice? Give up the romantic relationship and just be friends. Part of having a relationship is being together. Long-distance relationships can work out if both parties have already been together for a while and have been forced apart by circumstance, or if one or both parties can drive or otherwise travel to see each other, but it's nearly impossible and not that much enjoyable when you are young and have no control over your situation.

[heyyfrankie]

break it off. simple as that. y'all are KNOWN each other for like 2 weeks in all? and whenever i san KNOWN i mean KNOWN. why woul dyou want to spend months (and possibly years) of your life having a LONG distance relationship with someone that you've only known for a short period of time? just be friends but still write letters and talk.

[mouse_3k]

Long distance relationship dont really last. I say get a new gf cause the more u stay with her when u are so far apart, the harder the break up is going to be

[Smilessss]

yeahh long relationships ARE hard..in fact im in one now but we do talk on da fone... speaking of webcams..both of ours are jacked up...grrrr...but heh..at least we have AIM or da fone...or else i would really really miss him...>.< >_<

[sweetest-emotion]

teh web cam date idea is really good. although, i have to tell ya, long distance will most likely not be as long as you would probably like it to be. it'll be hard. if you guys don't live too far away, then try to see each other maybe before school starts. or whatever. depending on your age, if you're young, then i'd say leave it to just a summer fling and go out and enjoy yourself. or, if you think the chemistry is right, then the heck with it, stick it out and see how long it lasts. i'll tell ya it won't be as satisfying as a "real" relationship, but good luck to ya.

[XtasyHigh]

wait a minute... what camp did yuu go to?

[megan_x3]

Webcam - AIM / YAHOO / MSN .
Talk through microphone - use webcam to see each other's face.

[shereyol]

long distance relationship is hard, esp. if you only see the person once a year, i'm in a long distance relationship right now. yes, you should webcam, call, msn/aim each other if you can. communication and trust is important

[lexaa621]

its really hard not being able to see her (in person), but i like her so much and theres no way we could just forget about each other and just move on. i really want to see her again before next summer, but i dont know what i can do.
thanks for all the help though. the webcam idea sounds good, since we already talk on the phone and on AIM a lot.

[*incoherent*]

long distance relationships involve A LOT of trust seeing that youre so far away. if both are you arent goodwilled and trusting, nothing will work because all you will do is fight over the phone. theres also a lot of insercurities on both sides. always wondering who are they with? are they cheating on me? and some other questions that could probably never be answered unless you both are truthful.

just take my advice and realize they are VERY difficult to do if you cant do whats listed above.

[kpx_danny]

get over her as quickly as u can.... it wont work out no matter what,. u have to face it. she'll prolly find a nother guy as well and u wont be able to tell if shes cheating on u.

[freakonaleash]

godamnit shame on you people who keep saying long distance relationships don't work coz they can. just keep it up dont lose faith and sometime you'll see her again! maybe plan to go to her state for the holidays and meet up with her or vice versa! you never know