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[huihead]

i met this guy in the summer through a friend. we were playing games together online and it was fun to talk to him. we talked more online and i found out that we had a lot in common and he lived really close to me. everyday we'd be chatting and chatting and chatting and we started doing stuff together, like going to the park. but i felt like he was a little, clingy?.. if that's a word. every second online we'd be doing something together, whether it is chatting or playing games, but didn't really mind because it was the summer and i wasn't doing much anyway. i sorta got the feeling he liked me, but i wasn't sure. but he was a really good friend.. really sweet. i learned about about him and vice-versa. he was always willing to do things for me. one time he ran over to my house at night in the rain to give me a cupcake o_0. i went on vacation in the summer and before i left, he said "i'll miss you" and instead of saying "i'll miss you" back, i said "lols."i think i began to like him at the end of the summer. i don't really remember much after that except that slowly things changed. he changed. we started talking less.. he was less enthusiastic and responsive when he talked to me. we grew distant. one of my friends told me that he had told her in the summer that he liked me, but she didn't know how he felt about me then. i tried to start conversations with him, but they would die off quickly. he was a completely different person. i felt like i lsot a friend. one day, i found out that he blocked my sn. i asked him on another sn why, but he just blocked that one too. i asked my friend to ask him and he said that he wouldn't answer me. among his words were, "tell her i'm sorry but this is just the way i feel." it hurt a lot because we had been really good friends. right now i want to hate him for hurting me so much. i really valued our friendship, but those two months, as fun and amazing as they were, and four months of being barely acquaintances were not worth the hurt i went through. i see him a lot.. and every time i bump into him, i think he can see the coldness and hurt in my eyes.. =T. sometimes i can't help but wonder WHY.. how could things have changed so much. most of it is just a blur to me.

so what do you guys think of this? feedback..? =]

[pyrochick19770]

Ooh, that`s so sad and horrible! It always sucks loosing a great friend. I`m sorry...but hey, I guess you gotta respect his decision, and if he finally understands that you were a great friend and that he shouldn`t have done that to you, then welcome him with open arms. If he doesn`t then...o.O

[mystical]

Well, i think he still likes you but he's shy.

[conster]

aww... feel better hmm.. i think he wants to block u cuz hes not the kind that forgives and forget, he rather forget u than forgive, i knoe theres nothing u done wrong that u need be forgiven at, but maybe to him that u goin on vacation is a fault? maybe he knoes hes gonna miss u a lot and all u said was 'lols' and that wasnt the answer he expected?

it sucks that the friendship has to end like that, if im u ill approach to him anyways face to face and if he runs away ill call him a wuss behind his back and yell out "fine be a wuss, i tried my hardest but ur not bearing wit me" hehehe guilt trip girl

[waccoon]

maybe he's just an a-hole.
or he could've been "whatever, she doesnt like me. fcuk it."

[angel-roh]

Well, i think he still likes you but he's shy.

yeah i agree..hes prolly shy... and maybe hes not ready i guess or u knoe hes prolly up to somethin'... or maybe not...hmm hes prolly like someone else then...and he found out that u like him...so hes tryin to show u a sign...that he doesnt like u no more...and that hes uncomfortable to be a friend....so i guess u need to gib him time......heh thats wat i kno at least...cus my friends were in that situation...and they told me the same thing too...like awhile ago they jus told me O_O...lols hehe

[ichiban]

I can sort of relate .. i was best friends with this guy .. two years ago .. we did everythin together and stuff .. next year he tld me he liked me, but i just said "oh .. i see" instead of saying that i liked him back, which i really did. summer vacation, and then new school year started. nothing'z been the same .. we barely talked at the beginnin of the year .. he started hangin out with new ppl that i didn know that well .. and NOW .. we NEVER talk and we aren't even friends anymore .. hard to imagine that TWO YEARS AGO we were the best of friends and now its like we don't know each other.

But I FINALLY got over it, and I thnk you will too. Don't worry, you have other friends. Or maybe jsut walk up to the guy at school and ask him why he's acting like that lol ..

[whomps]

Wow, that sounds a little like my situation last year, except the guy I liked is idiotic and I hate him =) I blocked because uhhmmm.. I was falling for the wrong guy. So yeah. I blocked him but he still knows my other friend. Then one day he got his friend to IM me and check if I was still online and stuff and yeah. I didn't block the guy.. I just told him to fcuk off and that I didn't want to deal with the other guy anymore. Very simple.

That's so sad though.. A good relationship gone to waste... Ack. x_x Stupid guy. I just want to scream up to his face and tell him to stop ignoring the past, damn nit.

[*CEP*]

Ehh..that's sad.
Then again, that's what I'm doing with this other girl.
I say just let him be...he has his own reasons for doing it. You can always just move on. He's probably doing the same thing.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[angel-roh]

Ehh..that's sad.
Then again, that's what I'm doing with this other girl.
I say just let him be...he has his own reasons for doing it. You can always just move on. He's probably doing the same thing.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

wait... u mean that girl is doing that to u too? wha? jose? confused hahaha ur not talkin' abot eve...right? lols

[xEat a VeganX]

this just proves it. guys are assholes. whos only purpose in life is to confuse us.

[kraziegrl]

this just proves it. guys are assholes. whos only purpose in life is to confuse us.

yeap, but not all. there are some really sweet guys out there, we just ahve to find the right one some day. hmm.. this happened to me.. last year i used to talk to this guy every single day, and now we talk less and less.. he doesnt even come on as much anymore :/ im positive he didnt block me tho ;)

[huihead]

heh.. so much conflicting advice =x
i guess i should just go with the flow

[dani41790]

wow thas soo sad =(. mayb u should try tawkin to hym until he tells u why he stoped tawkin to u n stuff

[*instantmusic*]

there must be more to the story. maybe he has a whole different perspective. who in there right mind would just blow off somoene like that for no particular reason?

[anna_banana08]

aw sad :-( feel better! there are much more sweeter guys out there.

[rOckThISshYt]

ohh... i feel sorry for you. i think, the reason for his avoiding you and stuff, is cuz he was really hurt when you apeartently didn't reaturn his feelings about him missing you. maybe he was just upset and a little ticked that he did so much for you and he didn't think you apreciated him. maybe if you tell him how you feel about him when you guys like bump into each other, then he wont feel so hurt and that he still likes you and wants to be with you. good luck.

pee ess:: i think this guy seems really special. don't let him go without a fight!!!