Would you fcuk me?, right now? |
 Jul 21 2005, 11:08 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Yeah, that's how I feel.
 To get to the point, I went through something really awkward today. As you know, I am engaged. Well, my fiance, John, has a brother that I haven't exactly met. He lives in California, but he flew down three days ago for the wedding. Anyway, John, his brother (Charles), my in-laws and I went out to eat lunch at a buffet place. Since John and my in-laws went up to the buffet table, I had to stay at our table to watch Geena and Charles stayed with us. We got to talking and everything, and suddenly he starts complimenting me. For instance he said, "You have really nice legs." I thought it was pretty creepy, but I just ignored it. Then he said, "Jesus, I wish I got to you first. My brother is always the lucky one....He always wins..." And I tried to ignore that part. Then, believe it or not, things got even more awkward. Charles: Can I ask you something? Me: Yeah. What? Charles: If you hadn't met my brother first... Me: Mmhmm.... Charles: Do you think...? Me: Do I think what? Charles: Do you think if I met you first that we coulda...you know... Me: Haha, I don't think so. Charles: No, no, I'm not kidding. Me: Oh. Well, it really doesn't matter, I met John first, haha. Charles: It's fcuking hypothetical, Felicia. I was surprised that he cursed at me  We just stopped talking then and waited until John got back to the table.Have you ever been in an awkward situation like that? Where a friend or a relative of your boy/girlfriend hit on you? Dude, how am I gonna face him at the wedding?
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Jul 21 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Daydreamer Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,195 |
omg i cant belivehe said that!!!! but i havent had nething like that happen to me....try to avoid him thats gonna b hard tho....i hope he doesnt try sayign that u said something to him....u kno...like switching wut he said an saying u said it.
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Jul 21 2005, 11:15 PM
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 team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
OMLORD. ... you should give him a dirty look as your going down the isle. LOL. kidding. that is just weird. ive had my friends boyfriend hit on me before. but nothing like that. oh wait. my exboyfriends little brother was like, "sexy legs" and hes in .what? 3rd grade. haha. do you ever plan on telling john?
heck yes id fcuk you. 
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Jul 21 2005, 11:17 PM
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 I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
actually something like that has hapened to me before, but boy is that akward. you handled it like a champ tho. kind of off topic, but are you having a big or small wedding? because if its big, you would not have to worry about runnin into him too much.
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Jul 21 2005, 11:18 PM
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ooh dats creepy >.< he shouldn't have say/ ask anything like that sincee his brother is marring toh youu... >.< That kind of also rude..
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Jul 21 2005, 11:20 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
You put the smack down on his ass.
OR BETTER, Let John do it, we brothers love having excuses to take out our other brothers. Make it on pay per view and you get money with it! it's a win win lose situation! |
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Jul 21 2005, 11:26 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
QUOTE(CrazayChristian @ Jul 21 2005, 11:20 PM) You put the smack down on his ass. OR BETTER, Let John do it, we brothers love having excuses to take out our other brothers. Make it on pay per view and you get money with it! it's a win win lose situation!   Great idea!But, I'd confront him about it. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable, and that you don't like it and you want it to stop. It that doesn't work, tell your fiancee, and then the both of you talk to him about it. |
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Jul 21 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
Wow that's wrong. Ah what a creepy guy.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:04 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
That's weird. Very. Don't say anything for now. But if he tries to pull a fast one like that again.. Tell your fiancess/husband. Congrats by the way on getting married.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:13 AM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
Oh my. That's... terrible. I'd have a little sit down with the booger and get things straight. [Pretty much what SillyCourtney said (:]
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Jul 22 2005, 12:17 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
That's extremely rude. Hmm.. I guess I had some shit like that before. My boyfriend's brother always hung around me and stuff and people started suspecting that I liked him instead of my boyfriend. But I mean, our relationship was REALLY low profile and yeah. It's pretty annoying when people can make assumptions like that, but it's not so much your reputation this is, but your own comfort.
Jeez, tell the man to back off. Enforce some of your power. |
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Jul 22 2005, 12:17 AM
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 n3wbie Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,877 |
Punch him in the face.
*shudders* He's creepy. |
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Jul 22 2005, 12:20 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
good lord. what is wrong with that guy ?
you must be drop dead gorgeous. which you seem to be. kick him where the sun dont shine and say your ugly and your brother isnt leave me alone. |
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Jul 22 2005, 08:20 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
*weirded out*
meh, ur fcuking hot and way cool, no wonder he can't resist. and if he doesn't back off, either: 1. bitchslap back to kingdom come. 2. a straight swift kick to his...boys 3. *pow pow* a glock works fine. 4. *pffffffttttuh* yay for pepper spray 5. john, honey, ur brother's been....bothering me. can u go kick his ass? 6. arsenic + coffee = teehee. 7. cut the brakes on his car. 8. oops, i pushed him over a bridge. 9. pretend to like him back, pretend to cheat, and then take some photos of him with you, pretending like it's rape or whatever, bring it to court, and sue the shit out of him, and then go live in the bahamas with john for the rest of ur lives, being all happy and yay. |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 22 2005, 08:26 AM
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haha. what a loser.
you shoulda poured water on him
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Jul 22 2005, 08:28 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Why don't you tell John and ask what he thinks you should do?
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Jul 22 2005, 08:36 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
TELL JOHN !
What if he was scared all along and knew his brother would say something like that to you. OH and then emphasize the part where he swore in front of Geena. Er yeah. Sue him for sexual harassment. To a minor. Mwahaha. |
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Jul 22 2005, 08:37 AM
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 The Lyricist Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,967 |
daaamnnnnn what the fcuk is that. that guy got some guts man....for real, you must be some fine lady hahaha. pretty hard to tell you fiance..."hunny, i think your brother is hitting on me..."
but damn. whats wrong with taht guy. |
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Jul 22 2005, 09:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,711 |
Um... Kill him. Then nobody will know anything ever happened.
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Jul 22 2005, 10:06 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah what the hell man. That's is awkward and messed up. Was he hotter than your fiance.. because if so.. no one has to know. haha I'm kidding. That hasn't ever happened to me but my best friends boyfriend hit on me alot when they were going out..
 Ugh it was uncomfortable. I see where you are coming from though.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:06 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
WTF?! Back off a-hole. Wow. This hasn't quite gone on with me before, thankfully, but seirously. Tough situation.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:10 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
What an a-hole. How old is he? How are you gonna face him? Don't. Or tell him that he made you feel very uncomfortable that day to make sure he doesn't do it again.
It's sort of happenned to me before. While I was "getting it on" with a boyfriend from a while back at some house party... his friend kept walking in and um... admiring the view. He even told my boyfriend that if he needed any assitance, he'd be glad to help. LOL. He was very very drunk. |
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| *CrackedRearView* |
Jul 22 2005, 12:20 PM
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Well, that's a little on the creepy side.
So when's the wedding? 
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Jul 22 2005, 12:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
OMFG?!?!?!?!?!?!?!...I can't believe he did that!!...& no I have never been in that kind of situation before...that is realli messed up of him...& I would tell my husband or future husband of what he did or said..but I'd tell my fiance not to make a big deal of it...or I would only tell him if his brother did it again!!...or I would act as if nothing happened!!..I would do one of those!!...but one thing I hate about all these suggestions is that he gets away with what he did...& to me thats not acceptable!!...
..but I hope I helped maybe jusst a little... 
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Jul 22 2005, 12:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
chill.... thats too much, and then your wedding is coming up?! wtf? ... just hope that things arent gonna get too "hectic"
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Jul 22 2005, 07:35 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Dude Felicia, that was really innapropriate of him. You should tell your fiance that his brother hit on you. That makes me SICK. but yah, I would def just stay away from him, and at the wedding, i mean that's a special day between you and John..so charles is outta the picture, just don't get close to him or talk to him at the wedding lol. seriously, that's so messed up. i'm really sorry that happened. But i def think you should talk to ur fiance about that one.
I don't think i've ever been in a situation like that..thank goodness. I'm really sorry that happened tho :( that guys a creep, stay far away |
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Jul 22 2005, 07:40 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
gosh when i read this i was like SCORE UNCLOSED PORN but that really sucks...i think you should just ignore him because you love his brother right? so there shouldnt be a problem...yes he is creepy but you know yourself that you wouldn't do anything so just ignore him and stay away from him =)
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Jul 22 2005, 07:45 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
I would have hit the shit out of em
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Jul 22 2005, 07:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Obviously, he's pretty much a dickhead and i'm proud to say that.
You wouldnt be with that dickhead if you met him if you did then you'll broke up. Beside, who wants to be a dickhead's wife? you get the point? i hope it helps.QUOTE We got to talking and everything, and suddenly he starts complimenting me. For instance he said, "You have really nice legs." QUOTE Dude, how am I gonna face him at the wedding? Just report this situation to your future husband. Maybe he might talk to charlie about it. Maybe he could spread the unexpected news to his family members. Also,you can embarassed him in front of everyone while you're doing an announcement or your part =] about facing him at the wedding, just dont pay attention to him. if i were you, i would really hated people who has gotten my attention in the past. it really screw the next situation just like your upcoming wedding. QUOTE I thought it was pretty creepy, but I just ignored it. Then he said, "Jesus, I wish I got to you first. My brother is always the lucky one....He always wins..." what the heck, would you believe that? Maybe Charlie is a loser. He probably let his brother to succed. Well, the point is .. just dont believe his blabbing little nonsense .. even if he did, he shouldnt be inferring your happiest relationship since you have the right not to make any contact with a dickhead, charlie.
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Jul 22 2005, 10:26 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that's disgusting  you're going to be his sister soon (sister-in-law but it's pretty much the same thing...or at least it should be)what a sleazy bastard...how can he try to come onto his brother's fiance?  you should probably do something about your future brother-in-law...because he seems to be those violent jealous types because he cursed and seemed to get all worked up because you were turning him down... i forgot to answer the question, silly me. i always dated the oldest boy in the family...and their siblings were always younger than me or i never met them...however my ex's friends would always say how pretty i was to my ex and how lucky he was and that pissed off my ex...i don't understand why wouldn't you be proud to have a pretty girlfriend?  |
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Jul 22 2005, 10:30 PM
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AH. What an a*shole. That's just... wrong. Psh.
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Jul 23 2005, 05:39 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
woah that's totally messed up, tell john about it.
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Jul 24 2005, 01:10 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
CreateBlog is now my advice center.
 Oh, and just to let you know: Charles is 39 years old, four years older than John. And he's pretty heavy set. (He's fat.) |
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Jul 24 2005, 01:40 AM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Holyguacamole
Wow, i can even imagine his size. That's amusing. He's quite immature. He needs to screw himself. and need to get a life. |
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Jul 24 2005, 09:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
omg that is so wrong...are you sure that wasn't a setup?
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Jul 25 2005, 07:37 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Gosh, he is so wrong to have said that.
Go tell John of his weird ass brother. |
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Jul 25 2005, 11:14 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
That's never happened to me, but that's just weird. Why would someone do that if they already know you're getting married? And knowing that he's going to be your brother-in-law, that's gross.
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Jul 25 2005, 11:24 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Wow, I don't know if you should tell your fiance' about that or not. Well, if you feel you want a trust or something between him (wait I don't know what I'm talking about.) Anyways, just ingore him haha. Steer clear of him.
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Jul 25 2005, 11:40 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 183,042 |
thats crazy....
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Jul 25 2005, 11:42 AM
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Wow what an a-hole. He needed to be slapped for that.
I never gone through anything like that before and hopefully I never will. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jul 25 2005, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Jul 23 2005, 11:10 PM) CreateBlog is now my advice center. Oh, and just to let you know: Charles is 39 years old, four years older than John. And he's pretty heavy set. (He's fat.) Woah, John is 35? |
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Jul 25 2005, 06:58 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
You think mayeb he was testing you to see if you were really into John?
well anyways he sounds like a creep , i realllyy hope ( and im sure ) Johns not like that. |
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Jul 25 2005, 08:31 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
jeez. id ignore it. hes a freakish weirdo. but anyway, CONGRATS YOUR GETTING MARRIED!!!!!
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