There's this guy, he makes me feel so crap Options

[mistaken_identit...]

So there was once this guy I really liked and I thought he liked me. But I told him I like him and I got rejected and well, I accepted that and thought, well, ok nevermind and I stopped talking to him.

But now he's being just sooo rude and annoying to me lately at school or on msn or just anything whenever I see him he makes some smart comment about me and teases me. He's done everything a guy could possibly do to annoy a girl, throwing erasers, teasing about my tann and just everything I do. I am just SO sick of all this bullshit from him. I was just like, Ok fine you don't have to like me but stop treating me like shit.

What should I do to make him stop?

[Skyline Drive]

I think he is doing that in the attempt of trying to get you to quit liking him. So maybe you should tell him to get over himself because he isn't that great anyhow. Or maybe a simple "quit being such a fucktard" will set him straight so he knows you don't like what he is doing.

[*anubis*]

I think he is doing that in the attempt of trying to get you to quit liking him.

i agree. usually when guys do that, there are a lot of possibilities of what they mean. just depends on the guy or the situation. or how he acts.

if he's like, teasing you--it could mean two extremes. he likes you or he hates you. yeah, confusing i know.

but since you say you already told him you liked him, then maybe what 'say_what_you_mean' was right--maybe he's trying to be a total assshole to try and make you stop liking him.

just tell him to stop. stop being such an assshole or 'don't flatter yourself. i don't like you anymore/that much'

etc etc etc

[Paradox of Life]

Theory 1:

He might end up thinking, hey I actually like this girl and he's taking the immature road of flirting by teasing you all the time. This is what I suspect to be the case, but you never know and judging by the information you gave, I probably can't give an accurate theory. And there's really no evidence that he likes you, but there's a big chance that he does.

Theory 2:

He has nothing else to do in his spare time, so he thinks that he can pick on you because he thinks since you 'like' him, you'll still think he's such a great guy. Or he's picking on you because he wants to make himself feel bigger and you're just a more vulnerable target.

If you're getting mad at him, you're giving him just what he wants. I know this is easier said than done, but tell him straight and serious that you are tired of him picking on you and that it's really immature. Find his weakspot and go for it (not literally). It seems like you're just sitting there while he's taking hits on you like a punching bag. Hello! Enforce some of your own power and show him who's boss!

[*incoherent*]

i bet you he likes you now.

[*anubis*]

i bet you he likes you now.

i doubt it

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I think he's doing that jusst to get you to stop liking him or he's starting to like you?!?!..I don't kno I'm confused...guys are jusst weird..

[aera]

i dont think he likes you. the next he does that, tell him that if he still thinks you like him, then he's a retard.

[angelrevelation]

tell him you don't like him anymore when he does that to set him straight. he'll either back off from trying to make you not like him, or try some other way to get you to like him

[mouse_3k]

then stop being his little target and make fun of him. Punch him in the face or make fun of him. Stand up for yourself.

[ghjgfkgfk]

maybe he doesn't know how to act around you

[earthangel64]

tell him to go screw himself!....btw that took guts telling him u liked him...lol i wish i could tell the boy i like that i like him.

[its_annah]

then stop being his little target and make fun of him. Punch him in the face or make fun of him. Stand up for yourself.

ahahah. I agree. Give him a piece of your mind.

[xldubaliciousx]

Hm.. Maybe he likes you now.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

tell him he has no right at all to treat you like shit on the bottom of his shoe. and if you dont like him anymore, tell him that yo udont because his attitude towards you. and if he doesnt stop being a bitch to you throw a few erasers really hard back at him and just dont talk to him. he doesnt even deserve to be your acquaintance if he treats you like that and makes you feel anything besides wondeful.

[sheddingtears]

he probably likes you, or maybe misses how you used to like him, or just wants you to get over him.

just throw back stuff at him or ignore him.

[technicolour]

he's JEALOUS

He realized how good you were and he's mad that he can't have ya now.

[mistaken_identit...]

Hey guys I just wanna say thanks for all the replies.

It's nice to know there's some good (and bad) posibilities.

<3

[dragyn]

Tell him he pisses you off, but:

When you talk to him about it, act more like you're disappointed in him than anything. Try not to seem pissed off, but more like you're offended that he would lower himself to that.

If that doesn't work, punch him.

[biglamchops]

i think he's trying to flirt with you..my opinion..but you think its annoying..so tell him..