what kind of guys do girls like???, really Options

[urbz]

jw, but what kind of guys do girls find attractive??? (look, pers., etc..)

[Latina Babii]

I could name a few things i look for in a guy, he's gotta be sweet, non-egotistical, not sadistica( this was added when one of my boyfriends had a creepy obsession with pain ) and cute. I gotta have the lloks and I'm not talking drop dead gorgous. He can be cute, I find that adorable. Oh yeah and not to ripped.

Techinically probably a non exsistant man.....

Edit

HUNDREDTH POST YAYNESS!

[*anubis*]

that's a very general question.

it definitely depends on the girl.

[xxslithr0atxx]

yeah i think it's different for every girl but usually girls say personailty & sort of looks. can't be hideous? i guess thats what most girls think. personality is just a major one because who wants a good looking jackass? also yeah... if the girl wants a serious/good relationship then they would pick a guy reliable to their necessities and someone they can actually work with for a while. but i ono some girls go for gorgeous hot guys lol ? hmm yea.

[Latina Babii]

I don't go for HOT guys but I like them to be cute. Then again dating a cute guy was my problem in the last relationship, he was a real jackass.

[*suddenly she*]

lalala, i'm bored so i'm going to write a lot.

what ruth looks for in a guy, by ruth
-should have some musical/artistic talent,
-shares the same musical interests&other,
-shares the same religion,
-please. have some athletic talent, or you'll never keep up with me.
-intelligence.
-respects me and my opinions,
-doesn't grovel,
-supports my mad ambitions, like going to my yearly tournaments and such,
-shares feelings, is honest
-will not ditch friends or me. if the friends got the date, he doesn't give it up for me. if i got the date, he won't give it up for his friends.
-can carry on a decent conversation, meaning you say more than "yeah.. okay.. maybe.. haha"
-un-pushy-ness
-sensitive to what i'm thinking.
-the power to be perfectly happy just being around each other without needing to saying anything.
-be genuine. i don't want you to change and be a jerk while i'm not looking.

i'm tiredd.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

Use the search button =)

It all depends on the guy + girl

[Chii]

things girls find attractive in men:

1.) a good sense of humor: he can laugh at themself at times but stand up for himself when he's offended.
2.) opinionated: he needs to be able to speak his mind and not hold important issues to himself
3.) thoughtful: i had a huge headache and sore throat yesterday which continuted into today, after i went to summer school i went to my boyfriend's house and he surprised me by having lunch already made (which is quite rare), with soup for my sore throat
4.) a romantic: kind of like the thoughtfulness but more in the sense of a significant other type of thing, you know, the mushy but sweet letters, a rose out of nowhere for no reason other than for the simple fact that you love her, etc
5.) chivalry: pulling her chair out for her, opening a door, giving her your jacket when she's cold, etc
6.) spontaneous: out of the blue just surprise her by doing something she loves or by going somewhere you know she's interested in (like in save the last dance where that guy took julia stiles out to see the ballet before they went out because he knew she was into ballet in a way) or by just looking through the newspaper together and be like "hey that sounds fun" (like some time ago, there was a flower show at macy's, my boyfriend and i went to because we saw it in the paper)
7.) confidence: he doesn't have to be full of himself or love everything about himself, he just needs to be comfortable with himself, you know, don't complain about every little thing
8.) an open mind: don't be too uptight about everything, you can't just stick to every opinion you have, when you two are talking you can share your opinions and have them mesh together to form a better understanding of the topic from different points of views
9.) respect: respect the things she stands for, even if you're completely against them, nothing has only one answer.
10.) communication: don't pull that "i'm not talking to you" bullsh*t, not only girls hate it, EVERYONE hates it...
11.) compliment: i must say, most girls are very self conscious about themselves so give them a compliment whenever you can, but they have to be TRUE comliments, don't lie about stuff like this...like if she has a big tummy and you say "yeah, that belly shirt looks so good on you"
12.) don't lie: NEVER lie about anything...unless it's a good surprise, you know that thing where you tell her you're doing something boring but you surprise her with something else, kind of like the whole deal about pretending you forgot someone's birthday but you really didn't, you get the idea
13.) don't brag: we hate it when we finally give it up to you and within hours the whole school knows, or when you boast about something you achieved 5 years ago...especially when it doesn't apply to you anymore...like if you were the most valuable player in middle school but you suck at sports now
14.) do the right thing: if your friend is being cheated on/cheating on someone and you tell us, you HAVE to do something about it...otherwise we'll think that you're a jerk for letting your buddy hurt someone.
15.) nostalgic: most people love reminiscing about their childhood loves...like old nickoldeon shows (eureka's castle)
16.) don't complain: if we're going to do something we like that you probably don't like, don't bitch and moan about it, you had a choice, you could have just done something else but you wanted to come anyway, keep the whining to yourself
17.) comfort: if your girlfriend is crying hug her, even if she tells you not to, she most likely wants you to, it shows that you care
18.) sensitive: you can't be a hardass all the time, show some compassion, it's okay if you cried in "a walk to remember" who didn't? (or at least feel sad or something)
19.) keep certain things to yourself: yeah, girls want to know everything about you but we do not need to know about how you needed surgery in your testicular area because your intestine was too long and extended into your ball sac
20.) be who you are: don't dress up to be someone you're not, sure you can try to but in the long run, the suit will fall apart.

that's all i can think of for now...god, why do i put so much time in this?

i don't want to read it over so, sorry for whatever i messed up grammar wise.

[supahstah_luv]

wow.. chii up there's summed it up pretty good =)
but it really depends who the girl is.. what i might think might be totally different from what another girl might think.

[maia_dc]

What I look for:

- Confidence. Yes, even confidence bordering on cockiness. Just as long as he has evidence to pull it off.
- Gentlemen. Guys who hold open doors, don't hit girls, are polite, NEVER rude, etc. Chivalry is a main factor.
- Protection. Yeah, a guy who would fight for me and stand up for me no matter what.
- Spontaneous. Guys don't have to plan out a date to maximize the fun. Just being with him is enough.
- Respect. A guy who treats me right and doesn't lie. Sneaky guys are the worst.
- Outgoing. I know that I shy away when I like someone, so he has to be able to talk me up and make the first move.
- Manliness. Yes, no girly-boys allowed. He should dress nice, but not to the extent of vanity.
- Pride. He should be proud of being with me, and show me off whenever he gets the chance. Public displays of affection are a given.
- Taller than me.
- Athletic, but doesn't make sports the main topic of conversation.
- Talented.
- Loving. I know I have an ego, so a guy who constantly makes me feel loved/appreciated. Would do anything to be with me.

<333
Well, that's my perfect guy.

[Latina Babii]

Technically a fair tale guy (there maybe some gy out there like that but I have yet to meet one....)

[xldubaliciousx]

Ahh. I used to always get in trouble for going for only guys who fit my "perfect description." But there are a SOME basic necessities..

+ He has got to treat my friends right. You can tell how a person will treat you by looking at how they treat other people.

+ I feel comfortable talking with him.

That's not too much to ask for.. Right?

[berry_lickable]

+good loking
+nice to me and my friends
+gotta be fitted or atleast look nice
+bad boy
+could gigg
+confident
+could fight or atleast protect me
+romantic
+well built
+has atleast some kind of manners
+same religion as me
+looks clean
+be able to take me to meet his mom
+plans to do something productive in life
+a cuddle bug
+aint going to flake me
+listens to the music i listen to
+open minded
+semi jelous
+not possesive

[*anubis*]

things girls find attractive in men:

1.) a good sense of humor: he can laugh at themself at times but stand up for himself when he's offended.
2.) opinionated: he needs to be able to speak his mind and not hold important issues to himself
3.) thoughtful: i had a huge headache and sore throat yesterday which continuted into today, after i went to summer school i went to my boyfriend's house and he surprised me by having lunch already made (which is quite rare), with soup for my sore throat
4.) a romantic: kind of like the thoughtfulness but more in the sense of a significant other type of thing, you know, the mushy but sweet letters, a rose out of nowhere for no reason other than for the simple fact that you love her, etc
5.) chivalry: pulling her chair out for her, opening a door, giving her your jacket when she's cold, etc
6.) spontaneous: out of the blue just surprise her by doing something she loves or by going somewhere you know she's interested in (like in save the last dance where that guy took julia stiles out to see the ballet before they went out because he knew she was into ballet in a way) or by just looking through the newspaper together and be like "hey that sounds fun" (like some time ago, there was a flower show at macy's, my boyfriend and i went to because we saw it in the paper)
7.) confidence: he doesn't have to be full of himself or love everything about himself, he just needs to be comfortable with himself, you know, don't complain about every little thing
8.) an open mind: don't be too uptight about everything, you can't just stick to every opinion you have, when you two are talking you can share your opinions and have them mesh together to form a better understanding of the topic from different points of views
9.) respect: respect the things she stands for, even if you're completely against them, nothing has only one answer.
10.) communication: don't pull that "i'm not talking to you" bullsh*t, not only girls hate it, EVERYONE hates it...
11.) compliment: i must say, most girls are very self conscious about themselves so give them a compliment whenever you can, but they have to be TRUE comliments, don't lie about stuff like this...like if she has a big tummy and you say "yeah, that belly shirt looks so good on you"
12.) don't lie: NEVER lie about anything...unless it's a good surprise, you know that thing where you tell her you're doing something boring but you surprise her with something else, kind of like the whole deal about pretending you forgot someone's birthday but you really didn't, you get the idea
13.) don't brag: we hate it when we finally give it up to you and within hours the whole school knows, or when you boast about something you achieved 5 years ago...especially when it doesn't apply to you anymore...like if you were the most valuable player in middle school but you suck at sports now
14.) do the right thing: if your friend is being cheated on/cheating on someone and you tell us, you HAVE to do something about it...otherwise we'll think that you're a jerk for letting your buddy hurt someone.
15.) nostalgic: most people love reminiscing about their childhood loves...like old nickoldeon shows (eureka's castle)
16.) don't complain: if we're going to do something we like that you probably don't like, don't bitch and moan about it, you had a choice, you could have just done something else but you wanted to come anyway, keep the whining to yourself
17.) comfort: if your girlfriend is crying hug her, even if she tells you not to, she most likely wants you to, it shows that you care
18.) sensitive: you can't be a hardass all the time, show some compassion, it's okay if you cried in "a walk to remember" who didn't? (or at least feel sad or something)
19.) keep certain things to yourself: yeah, girls want to know everything about you but we do not need to know about how you needed surgery in your testicular area because your intestine was too long and extended into your ball sac
20.) be who you are: don't dress up to be someone you're not, sure you can try to but in the long run, the suit will fall apart.

that's all i can think of for now...god, why do i put so much time in this?

i don't want to read it over so, sorry for whatever i messed up grammar wise.

...you've put a lot of thought into this

[heyyfrankie]

it depends on teh girl. not all girls like sweet & innocent girls. some like them to be rough & manly while others like them to be cute & sweet. it just depends.

[technicolour]

Alright one time i was browsing around the boys locker room, it's scary in there, but anyways, there was this thread of "What kind of guy are you?" and Brenden [RockizLife] wrote this:

I'm a mix. I'd say The Skater type cause I am, lol, The Guitar Type cause I love rock and guitars, The Jock Type cause I love sports, The Theatre Guy cause I want to be an actor and I like theatre alot, The Funny Type Jack-ass funny type cause I'm usually always making someone laugh and Nice Guy cause I try to be nice to everyone. Wow, I'm quite a mix  

That to me, is Hot. Where you can fit in with so many people yet still feel comfortable. Makes for a very versitile life.

[Paradox of Life]

^ Okay, missy. Brenden is mine.

Anyway, no more of this shiz:

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...topic=65346&hl=

And there was a topic somewhere that requested that people stop making topics like this. Search button anyway.

[pinayprincess]

somebody who is so caring and sweet.. but also has to be attractive

[Azn_Angel13]

<3 a guy who is open and always tells her that he loves her
<3 a guy who isnt gonna make her do things she doesn't want to
<3 a guy who wraps his arms around her when its cold outside
<3 a guy who makes her feel beautiful... and tells her she is
<3 a guy who isnt going to play with her heart and feelings. being a player is juss dumb. im sry but i just think that that's dumb.
<3 a guy who treats her rite
<3 a guy who has a sense of humor and can make her laugh no matter what
if he has a GREAT personality, and is cute... then that's good!

[technicolour]

^ Okay, missy. Brenden is mine. 

I know, silly. lol. I was just using him as an example.

and I finally read all of chii's stuff. She summed it up incredibly well..

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http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...topic=65346&hl=

Search button.

[*mipadi*]

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...topic=65346&hl=

Search button.

That link is broken. Should be this: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=65346

[technicolour]

oops..yea i just realized it's broken. Click the one mipadi put up

[ishowernaked]

thanks for describin me girls :) much appreciated haha

[technicolour]

^ *sigh* Poor guy...

I barely described you. Poor you.

[*mipadi*]

thanks for describin me girls :) much appreciated haha

You've definitely got the confidence part down.

[JoJo_x]

Depends on the girl...

Anyways, any guy that is nice, sweet, caring, funny, and doesn't try to be someone else..

I hate guys that are too full of themself, seriously, it's cute, but it gets annoying...

[mistaken_identit...]

Nice-ness. I think that's what all girls really want in a guy. It's hard to find a guy like that (personally) 'cause they're just guys =P nah. If you're super dooper nice the girls are about the notice you.

[*incoherent*]

that's a very general question. 

it definitely depends on the girl.

yeah. try explaining what you mean. this could mean preppy, emo, skater, etc. or black, white, hispanic, etc.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Personaility
-good listener
-entertaining
-easy to please
-loveable
-sweet
-romantic
-smart
-funny
-& act themselves & not who they think I want them to be

Appearances
-pretty eyes
-nice smooth skin
-straight teeth
-descent body
-clean cutt or curly hair
-smells good
-gorgeous smile
-descent face
-& takes care of himself

If any guy can fit this your my Mr.Right!!!...

[CrazayChristian]

You can fit it into to broad terms:

Strong
and
Sensitive

But, you can't be too sensitive, or you're screwed. You will be seen as an insecure pest that the girl will have to worry about.

In other words, when it comes down to one or the other. You need to be more STRONG than sensitive.

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The short long version:

You need to make her feel good. If she feels good then she'll like you.

And you say "Joshua, you idiot, that's simple" Ha..no.

Here's the catch:
You have to make her feel good, like noone else makes her feel good. In other words...
NOT THE SAME EASY WAY OUT!

You can't just do every little nice thing for her, and jump to the rescue when every little thing comes up. You can't just go into "instant empathy" when she's pissed or sad. WHY?

You become predictable, and boring.

Not making her feel very good...
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The long long version

You already need to know you need to make her feel good. Now, you need to make her feel good like noone else does.

LIEK OMG HOW JOSHUA?!?!?!?!?!1/1/1/1/SLASHONESLASH1

(Stop talking like that for one...) You need to have her attention, make yourself linger in her mind. Lets think of it this way:

Someone walks up to you, and says "Buy this, it's good!". Now, lets pretend you never heard the word good before, and you buy it.
Now, imagine after time, more people say "Buy this it's good!". At this rate, "good" has lost its meaning, and you're bored with "good". Sure, you might buy it if it looks interesting, has value, or you've heard good things about it. But, you're simply not going to buy evertime someone says "good" to you.

Now, imagine someone walks up to you and says " Buy this...you know..nevermind." You might turn around and say "Why aren't you selling me anything?" They respond "You don't seem very qualified for this product." Noone has ever said this to you! You aren't very happy, but you feel you should be given the chance, like you're power is beign challenged. So, the salesman asks you for a number, maybe you can call when you feel qualified.
Now, this guy has stood out to you, he challenged you, and you feel the need to meet this challenge. You call him, and decide to buy this product. It may not be as good as the other flashy products. But it makes you happy that you mastered something.

Let's take a look at what happend:
Product=relationship
You=Girl
Salesman=guys
"Buy this is good"=Adverage "W-will you go out with me?"
"You don't seem qualified"= Unique "I can take you or leave you, so take me before you miss your chance."

As you can see, something stands out here. Girls don't want you to be boring and adverage. It seems LOGICAL to put them on a pedestal, but ulitimatly it will land you in the "friends zone"

When you do adverage, you do the old "I'm not sure of myself, I like to beat around the bush, avoid problems, and wait on you hand and foot." And, this might work for a while. But, it eventually wears out. It becomes BORING AND PREDICTABLE. Just like you expecting everyone to say "buy this it's good".
You also can't do other versions like "But this, you'll like it"ect. You just can't make variations up.

If you do the old "I need you, and I'll wait forever for you" routine. Guess what? You'll wait...and wait...and WAIT. WHY? Because, she know's you'll always be there. You'll always obey like a good dog, and you'll always listen. You aren't relationship material anymore. You're a "friend" that will "always be there", and she doesn't need to pay any special attention, because you gave her so much slack that now, she's holding the leash.

SOLUTION:

You have to be Confident almost to the point of severe Cockiness. You have to be so sure you can suceed, that it doesn't matter if you lost once or twice, because you can always move on. Guys who "look good" or "athletic guys" ect. seem attractive because they have this mind set, they KNOW they can still go on, and don't have to worry if it goes any farther.
This however doesn't mean you have to make a total ASS of yourself. It just means that you should think you're all that, and you'll actually BE all that!

You also MUST be funny, you need to blend this with Confidence. If she can laugh, then she'll feel nice and confortable with you. It will also help you NOT become a total ASS.

HOWEVER, you can't be TOO confident (ASS) or TOO funny (Goof off who never takes anything seriously) BLEND this together.

HOW YOU CAN DO THIS:

Next time you want a girl to notice you, do something no other guy has done to her that day. Tease her.Or ask her a question that you can tease.
Example:

You:Hi
Her:er..hi
You:I've been meaning to ask you somthing.
her:Yes?
You: How do you feel about the whole "Womens Equality" thing. You know, sort of like "We can pay for our own meals" and stuff.
Her:(made up)Blah blah blah blah <HERE COMES A KEY WORD!>Guys Pay blah blah.
You: OH! So, you don't belive in equality?
Her: That's not it at all!
You: It sounds like all of it pretty clearly...

Something like this, what you want to do is find the KEY WORD/PHRASE of her sentence. And actually USE it in your own sentence. This not only shows/allows you listen, but you can use this later on and it drills in your memory.

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX:

Special techniques, such as when she's surrounded by friends, become useful to get her out of that group. Example:

Forceful: Hi, may I borrow her for a second?(Then take her out of the group) "I can't belive your friends would let you leave with a total stranger..."

Subtle(but funny): Hey, (Hand money) I need a drink, can you get that for me? thanks. (85% of the time, she'll be rather pissed and follow you to give your money back.(Yes...I've done this)(No, I don't care it was in Hitch)

Creative things make you stand out of a crowd. But, what really makes you stand out is your body language.

BODY LANGUAGE:

Most women will shoot you down before you ever open your mouth. No, it's not because your fat, no it's not because your fly is open, no, It's not because your hair sucks. It's because you instantly give off the signal that you are completely faking your confidence and you have no idea what you're doing.

We are Pre-Wired with sensors that read body language. We can't help it, they are just there. Women are scientifically calculated to be able to send and recieve Body signals 10 times better than men. So, is this important?
HELL YEAH!
This language is so subtle, that everything from the tone of your voice, to how you look, to how LONG you look, to how you hold something, is important. A friend of mine always holds his drink a certain way when he's trying to hook up with someone.

"Touch the middle of her back. But watch out, Too high means 'I just want to be friends' too low means 'I just want to grab some ass'"

-Hitch
This is serious stuff.

TIPS:

Edit:Avoid the "3 Too's"

Too fast
Too Much
Too soon

Too Fast- you go from "Hi" to "I love you" In days (or less)

Too much- You spill your heart out in days(or less)

Too soon(most important)-You do this all too SOON and ruin your chances by 85% or more.

Just don't rush it, and follow (yes another hitch quote)

"She may not want to see it ALL AT ONCE, but she does want to see it."-Hitch

You can do the romantic stuff. But don't find out her favorite restraunt and take her out there the next day. Wait as long as a few WEEKS then take her. It shows that you listened and you didn't just buy her company.

I'm not saying don't be romantic, I'm saying don't do every little thing that pop into your mind AS SOON AS IT POPS INTO YOUR HEAD. It will be less predictable and more "SUPRISE" that way.(/edit)

Make sure you don't take to fast. Infact, don't make any quick movements. That just shows you're nervous and can't handle yourself.
Make sure your voice isn't higher than normal. (You tense up and actually talk at a higher pitch when you're nervous. If anything you want to go a little lower)
Sit up, and maybe lean back a little. It'll show you're confidence, and if you slouch or look down too much, then you are saying "I'm lazy, insecure, and unsure of myself."

Use a mirror, you can look and see for yourself. If you are doing something wrong, then you'll know. It's natural.

IN CONCLUSION:

Edit: Avoid the "3 Too's"

"Any man has a chance to sweep ANY woman off her feet. Just needs the right broom."
-Hitch

In otherwords. Just make her feel good. Don't bore her.
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(Damn...I need to get some sleep...after all this)
(I have a bad feeling I didn't have to type all that...)

-Joshua

[crazi_in_love_08]

hmm well it definatly depends on the girl ... sum people only go with sumone like them ( preppy, goth, punk) but my friends consider me as preppy .. but i love punk n metal music. and my ex is in to all of that .. but than again this other guy i went out with was sorta a redneck ... they both treated me rite so i guess it just depends on the guy and how they treat me ...

[sheddingtears]

he's cute,
can talk so sweet,
and can make a girl laugh.

[Smilessss]

hmm lets c...wat kinda guy i go fo?...lol well here it is...
~very sweet
~ hmm he doesnt havta b hot...but he does havta b cute *winks and smiles*
~trustworty
~honest
~ funneh
~fun to hang out wit
~respects yoo
~loves yoo and meant it

hmm..couldnt think of nething else.... XP

[*mipadi*]

hmm lets c...wat kinda guy i go fo?...lol well here it is...
~very sweet
~ hmm he doesnt havta b hot...but he does havta b cute *winks and smiles*
~trustworty
~honest
~ funneh
~fun to hang out wit
~respects yoo
~loves yoo and meant it

hmm..couldnt think of nething else.... XP

Proper spelling/grammar not a must?

[dancingkait]

for me he has to be kind, has a good sense of humour and can make me laugh, romantic, sweet, relaxed, not too serious, carefree...just a fun person :)

[gnarly_d00d]

Hm, well, I like guys that are funny, intelligent, sweet, outgoing, honest, etc. As far as looks go, I like the pale, scrawny, nerdy types. Heh, no joke. Or, metal heads with long flowing hair.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

If a guy can make me laugh I'm in love

[pyrochick19770]

-Respectable
-Loyal
-Funny
-Honest
-Romantic
-Layed back [but responsible]
-Can take care of himself and me.
-Knows when he can put me in my place.
-Someone who can take charge.
-Someone who'll defend me.
-Doesn't have to rely on anyone to get what he needs.
-Has to be able to open up to me.
-Good looks are a BIG bonus.

[shortiiex]

for me
-has to be cute...he doesn't have to be hot
-has to smart but not smarted than me
-has to be funny
-laid-back
-romantic
-trustworthy
-doesn't try to hard
-someone you can talk to and have fun with

[YoUr HeRo]

cute, funny, nice, not afaid to say how he is feeling, puts me before himself,sweet and romantic

[cheerbee07]

has to be
- nice
- not egotistical
- friendly
- understanding
- not sadistic
- or evil
- (and preferably cute, although it doesn't really matter to me lol)

and generally i end up falling for guys who sing or play soccer... no clue why though lol

[Tiffany_Prep_Gir...]

nice, handsome, have money (maybe more than 50 dollars is already good), popular, cool, have a good style, who is always in fashion...

well, is the type of guy whom most of girls in my school wanna have, sure!

[Atobe_Keigo]

1 - Musical Talent - Piano or a bit of singing
2 - Nice voice
3 - Looks good and is intelligent
4 - Lets me support him in his goals
5 - Is rich
6 - Is trustworthy....

[redpeony]

I tend to be attracted to guys who are honest, straightforward but considerate, genuine, caring, responsible, practical, funny, cheerful (as in not seemingly depressed 24/7), not eager-to-please... because he is comfortable with himself.

Athleticism is also hot... devoted time to at least a single sport can be very appealing. It's probably the whole "devoted" part that does it for me (plus the fact that he cant keep in shape and all, haha)

Bonuses = Nice eyes.

But then again, when I think about it... most of the guys I become interested in don't really match my description. And some guys who do have the qualities described won't really do it for me. Because even though we all like to write out these things as if we've got it all figured out... I think we just like guys because there's "something about them"... and they seem right for us.

Heh, that's true in my case, at the very least.

[malimars]

THE KIND OF GUY THAT IS WILLING TO SPREAD MY ASS CHEEKS AND JUST EAT MY ASS RIGHT THE f**k OUT THEN I DO IT TO HIM AFTER THEN WE MADE OUT WITH SHIT ALL OVER OUR LIPS THEN HE CUMS ALL OVER MY MOUTH AND MAKES ME LOOK LIKE I HAVE A MILK MUSTACHE

[Bianka2005]

i like guys with long penises ...i like chewing then smakin them on my chin and talking to them with a funny voice.......but dont grad to hard cuz you'll get callises....gosshy mushey penises

[AngryBaby]

haha wow^ to the both of you

[CrazykidXD]

idk

[ParanoidAndroid]

SK8ER BOYS!

[rinchan089]

Well, for JUST physical attraction, Tall, Dark and Handsome.

For someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, I'd want them to be intelligent, UBER-CONSERVATIVE, honest, sincere, strong (mentally or physically), protective, ambitious, kind, stable, wants to have a family, and makes good money.

If I really like a guy:

90%-> personality
10%-> appearence (physical appearence, whether you're ghetto or a slob... that stuff)

Rin-chan

[hulagurlie413]

basically...

- cute
- nice
- sweet
- funny
- doesn't have the "wandering eye"
- compliments me now and then (i say this cuz i don't get it very often from my bf )
- enjoys spending time with me
- easy to talk to
- isn't OBSESSED with the computer and WoW (<---- like my bf )
- doesn't ignore me for dumb computer games
- doesn't talk shit behind my back
- doesn't lie (to me, at least)
- doesn't brag or act like a f*cking poser to try to be "cool" w/ me and others
- sensitive
- fun (obviously-lol)
- thoughtful
- DEFINITELY...ROMANTIC (<--- my bf is @ a 35-40% with this department)
- likes to cuddle
- semi jealous (shows he cares...)
- same interests
- not a player


but OBVIOUSLY these kind of boys DON'T exist

[aznhunnie6o1]

I like guys that are funny, smart, and.. For some reason, I like guys who play CS (Counter Strike). I'll like them, then I'll find out that they play CS. It's really weird. Oh, and they have to be atleast decent looking. (Sorry to sound shallow.. )

[HoodieObsessed]

For me...

Personaility:

- NOT OBSESSED WITH CARS
- Nice (ofcourse) and just a bit gentlemenly, aka, gets a chair for you, opens doors etc. but don't be overly like that, or else it gets tiresome
- PAYS ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU'RE SAYING
- it's ok to be obseesed with something, like computers and I GUESS cars as long as you don't rattle on aobut them for hours
- Fun (if this doesn't come naturally for you in front of your girlfriend it probably will once oyu get to know her better, so maybe for the first few dates just stick with being nice, always keep the conversation going, you know)
- Funny (if you can. But once again, we're not all comics, to make up for it be especially in tone with what the girl likes and just be nice)
- Caring (duh)
- don't say he loves you after first date (like she's gonna buy that)
- Is sensible. What I mean by that is doesn't smoke, drives safely, doesn't get drunk etc. Show your girlfriend you arn't reckless.
- and please, PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING, I cannot say that enough.

Enough on personaility, time for looks:

- Thin (I'm sorry, I can't help it), you don't have to have muscle, but if you do than grrrreat.
- For hair, I don't really care, just whatever works for you
- Clean clothes, and not really big and baggy. Maybe if your not great at dressing yourself ask your friends to help you for your first date, or your...mom? lol, it depends what mom you have though.
- No nose rings. Please, spare me.

hmm, that's about it I guess. but really, just be yourself

[OverratedStupidi...]

I don't think any girl can completely say what they like in a guy because it changes with the guy. For example, my ex-boyfriend had long hair and I really liked it on him, but on other people it just doesn't fit them.

Then again, I usually don't go for looks, cause those always tend to change and they don't tell much about the person.

The best advice I have for any guys trying to find out what most girls like is to just be yourself.

[tequila_sky]

funny, respectful, **faithfull**, smart and strong, trustworthy, ambitious.

Looks... um nothing in particular. I don't put much importance to that. Just has to 'click' between us.

[_suzie_]

''19.) keep certain things to yourself: yeah, girls want to know everything about you but we do not need to know about how you needed surgery in your testicular area because your intestine was too long and extended into your ball sac''


LOL CHII!!! ahahha

yeah just be yourself. not too cocky, not too quiet. i like an artistic person, musicians etc. but just be yourself