shorter guys, ...confused |
shorter guys, ...confused |
Jul 17 2005, 01:58 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
There's this guy name Eric who likes me & he's really cool & everything, but he's like an inch shorter than me & it bother mes & I'm only 5'3" I'm not even that tall!!!...
-I don't know if I'm considered shallow in another persons perspective, but I think it's jusst me bein uncomfortable in the situation.. |
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Jul 17 2005, 02:00 PM
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![]() I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
Ive never had that problem, because Im short anyways, so most guys I talk to or try to talk to me are taller than me. And I like tall guys anyways. But if you like him you should ignore his height.
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Jul 17 2005, 02:02 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i am short..i like guys who are taller too....are you sure..that you aren't wear high heels, or your hair is too big, or you to are the same height?
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Jul 17 2005, 02:03 PM
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![]() boogie down yo` ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,271 |
hrmm..i guess its kinda awkward for me too..but hey if you think he's cool & all..give it a chance :]
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Jul 17 2005, 02:17 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
I'm 5'8''. At this age, MANY boys are shorter than me. I don't let it get to me. I've gone out with people as short as 5'4".... Don't worry about it, if you like him, go for it.
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Jul 17 2005, 02:34 PM
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![]() <33 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I am short.
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Jul 17 2005, 02:42 PM
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![]() rwar (; ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
erhhmm well.. even though im tall, i dont really ahve your problem.
i'm 5'7" and the guys that talk to me are.. usually taller =] i suppose you not going out with him because he's an inch shorter is being shallow.. but i wouldnt think that it's that bad cause.. well it's a personal preference i would feel exactly the same as you. it jst kinda bugs at you. |
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Jul 17 2005, 03:13 PM
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
ive gone out with a guy who was 4`9 when i was like 5`2. it seems awkward at first but you get used to it. heehee plus he was cute as hell xD
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Jul 17 2005, 03:16 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
That's reallly meaan =(
I'm short compared to almost all the girls at my school -_- |
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| *Azarel* |
Jul 17 2005, 03:17 PM
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rofl. So I didn't go out with him, but Henry (Mystical) told everyone he was 5'8" or 5'10", and he turned out to be shorter than me (I'm 5'4", he's about 5'1").
I would never go out with a guy that was shorter than me. It's just at turn off. And there have been topics on height before. I'm just too lazy to dig them up right now. |
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Jul 17 2005, 03:39 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Honestly, to me, to turn a guy down because of his height is about as rude as it can get. Do you seriously think they can fricking help how tall they are?
My ex was SEVEN inches shorter than me. I didn't give a rip - he was an awesome guy. Sure, it was very awkward to dance wth him, but we didn't let that get into the way. Hopefully some people will learn to look past such petty differences like height. |
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Jul 17 2005, 04:05 PM
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ yeah. go you !
height really shouldnt matter tho. |
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Jul 17 2005, 05:42 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
ahh shit... man that happened to me [my 1st ex boyfriend] he was shorter than me, but hey i really liked him alot... ey some of my friends teased me about it but i ignored the fact that he was short b/c i liked him and he liked me
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Jul 17 2005, 05:50 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
it dont matter about the height. if it is, then ur shallow.
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Jul 17 2005, 09:12 PM
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ha i know what your talking about.. i really like this guy in my class, but he might be about an inch shorter than i am.. lol but that really doesnt matter to me at all, ive never really jugded anyone by apperance, but height is a little diffrent, just a bit ackward.. well dont worry heights will evenrtully even out, and if you want you can try to seem a little shorter.. u kno.. crouch a little, lean against something if you can.. umm make sure your hair isnt really big.. lol..
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Jul 17 2005, 09:39 PM
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![]() GEt You DRUNK ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 942 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,417 |
well i havent had that problem because i'm tall (5'6") and some of the guys at my school are short.
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Jul 17 2005, 10:03 PM
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![]() L1EK 0MGZZZZ! ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803 |
Hm,i went out with a shorter guy,personally it was weird enough making out with him. Lol i broke up with him after like a few weeks, i felt really uncomfortoble cuz i have to look kinda down wen i talk to him or kiss him and im 5'2 and hes about 4'7..yeah.
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Jul 24 2005, 06:02 AM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
i really do prefer guys that are taller than me, but that isn't a problem since most of them are...
but if i liked him so much and his cute face made up for it, i wouldnt mind. |
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Nov 21 2005, 03:31 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
My on-and-off boyfriend has always been shorter than me, for the past year and half.. until now. It never really bothered me but in the back of my mind I'd be like UGH GROWWWWW FOOOL. But now, he's taller.
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Nov 21 2005, 03:48 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 278,575 |
it doesent really bother me. im tall but most of the people i know are taller so ive nver had that problem
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Nov 21 2005, 04:26 PM
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![]() =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
it doesnt really matter. i'm 5'3 and the guys around my age are really short anyway.
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Nov 21 2005, 05:54 PM
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![]() you`re undeniable ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i'm 5"2 so every guy i talk to is taller than me. but actually i think short guys are hotter. not midgets, but guys around 5"5-5"8
i don't know... height isn't really that big of an issue, unless he's out of proportion or something. |
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Nov 21 2005, 06:16 PM
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Yeah I don't really think I'd ever date a guy shorter than me. My ex-boyfriend was pushing it because he was like an INCH taller. I guess it is a bit shallow but everyone is shallow in some way or other.
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Nov 21 2005, 07:43 PM
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![]() Too slow. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
My friend is going through the same situation. This guy likes her and he's shorted than her. But whatever she doesn't like him..
If you like you should go out with him, it's not even a big height difference. |
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Nov 22 2005, 06:44 PM
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![]() </3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
My bf is 4"9 and I'm 5"5. Height really doesn't bother me. Sure I have to look down to talk to him and kiss him but It really doesnt bother me a whole lot.
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| *Programmer* |
Nov 22 2005, 07:12 PM
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im a tall guy... and i feel sorry for all the girls that can't get a tall man lol..
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Nov 22 2005, 07:40 PM
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![]() SAXY kathy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
i'm 5'10" and its really hard to find guys taller than me. but dont worry about it. if ppl find it weird, then its their problem. and its ONLY an inch. if you really liked him, you wouldnt care.
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Nov 22 2005, 07:45 PM
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![]() "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
eh. i dont think your shallow its just your taste we all like different things. being 5'5 1/2" sometimes feels like im 5'9! but whatever just be comfortable and ignore that fact that your taller.
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Nov 22 2005, 08:37 PM
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![]() Hey People ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 |
all i can say is atleased he's not 5 inches shorter..(my crush is)
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Nov 22 2005, 09:27 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,584 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,748 |
theres actually a bunch of ppl i know going out where the guy is shorter than the girl..so its ok...and height doesnt matter to me..im pretty short so the guys i talk to..i usually have to crane my neck to look at..which is tiring..so i wouldnt want someone super tall..
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Nov 22 2005, 09:28 PM
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An inch shouldnt matter much. I guess I could date a girl taller than me but I have yet to find one.
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Dec 16 2005, 11:14 AM
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![]() you`re undeniable ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
well just look at usher and eishia.
![]() they still look cute to me. |
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Dec 16 2005, 01:01 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,352 |
i feel the exact same way,
n i obviously turn down all em boys that were shorter than me, its not that im shallow but they gotta understand from my perspective, i just dont feel comfortable. BUT this is different i guess, if u really like him n its just a 1inch defferences. it shouldnt bother much, just give it a try. |
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Dec 16 2005, 03:17 PM
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oddly enough, i'm drawn to guys that are shortish. my boyfriend is 5'6" which could be considered short even though he's 2 inches taller than me. i don't judge a guy based on his height, and as long as he's not extremely short, i really don't care. if his height bothers you, then move on. but height isn't everything.
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Dec 16 2005, 05:51 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 306,335 |
haha yeah im really short and it seems odd to be liked or like others who are shorted than i am
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Dec 16 2005, 06:42 PM
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![]() hi ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,478 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,897 |
QUOTE(BrokenDream @ Jul 17 2005, 2:34 PM) I am short. wha |
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Dec 16 2005, 08:17 PM
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I don't find many guys shorter than me, cuz i'm 5'2'', but if you like the guy enough, you'll figure out how to deal with it. Sure, things may be awkward at first, but if you like the guy, go for it!
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Dec 16 2005, 09:31 PM
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omnomnom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I've seen girls go with guys who are like 2 feet shorter than them, honestly if you like him what does a few inches matter?
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Dec 16 2005, 09:41 PM
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![]() My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
YES! i like this person but hes a tad bit shorter. i also feel kind of uncomfortable when i'm chubbier too.
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