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post Jul 17 2005, 01:58 PM
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There's this guy name Eric who likes me & he's really cool & everything, but he's like an inch shorter than me & it bother mes & I'm only 5'3" I'm not even that tall!!!... ermm.gif ..When we talk about height he says he's taller than me, but I'm pretty sure I'm taller than him...Has it ever bothered you someone whose shorter than you likes you & you think to yourself sometimes maybe if he was a little taller you'd go out with him?!?!...


-I don't know if I'm considered shallow in another persons perspective, but I think it's jusst me bein uncomfortable in the situation.. _unsure.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:00 PM
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Ive never had that problem, because Im short anyways, so most guys I talk to or try to talk to me are taller than me. And I like tall guys anyways. But if you like him you should ignore his height.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:02 PM
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i am short..i like guys who are taller too....are you sure..that you aren't wear high heels, or your hair is too big, or you to are the same height?
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:03 PM
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hrmm..i guess its kinda awkward for me too..but hey if you think he's cool & all..give it a chance :]
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:17 PM
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I'm 5'8''. At this age, MANY boys are shorter than me. I don't let it get to me. I've gone out with people as short as 5'4".... Don't worry about it, if you like him, go for it.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:34 PM
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I am short. cry.gif hmm, but not the shortest in my class though. I say I'm 5'6 or something along the lines of that. hmm, I've never had this problem either. but, I would say no. not because of the height but something else.. like, something else of that boy's personality (sp?)
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 02:42 PM
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erhhmm well.. even though im tall, i dont really ahve your problem.
i'm 5'7" and the guys that talk to me are.. usually taller =]
i suppose you not going out with him because he's an inch shorter is being shallow..
but i wouldnt think that it's that bad cause.. well it's a personal preference
i would feel exactly the same as you.
it jst kinda bugs at you. pinch.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 03:13 PM
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ive gone out with a guy who was 4`9 when i was like 5`2. it seems awkward at first but you get used to it. heehee plus he was cute as hell xD
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 03:16 PM
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That's reallly meaan =(
I'm short compared to almost all the girls at my school -_-
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 03:17 PM
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rofl. So I didn't go out with him, but Henry (Mystical) told everyone he was 5'8" or 5'10", and he turned out to be shorter than me (I'm 5'4", he's about 5'1").

I would never go out with a guy that was shorter than me. It's just at turn off.

And there have been topics on height before. I'm just too lazy to dig them up right now.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 03:39 PM
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Honestly, to me, to turn a guy down because of his height is about as rude as it can get. Do you seriously think they can fricking help how tall they are?

My ex was SEVEN inches shorter than me. I didn't give a rip - he was an awesome guy. Sure, it was very awkward to dance wth him, but we didn't let that get into the way.

Hopefully some people will learn to look past such petty differences like height.
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post Jul 17 2005, 04:05 PM
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^ yeah. go you !

height really shouldnt matter tho.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 05:42 PM
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ahh shit... man that happened to me [my 1st ex boyfriend] he was shorter than me, but hey i really liked him alot... ey some of my friends teased me about it but i ignored the fact that he was short b/c i liked him and he liked me
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 05:50 PM
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it dont matter about the height. if it is, then ur shallow.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 09:12 PM
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ha i know what your talking about.. i really like this guy in my class, but he might be about an inch shorter than i am.. lol but that really doesnt matter to me at all, ive never really jugded anyone by apperance, but height is a little diffrent, just a bit ackward.. well dont worry heights will evenrtully even out, and if you want you can try to seem a little shorter.. u kno.. crouch a little, lean against something if you can.. umm make sure your hair isnt really big.. lol.. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 09:39 PM
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well i havent had that problem because i'm tall (5'6") and some of the guys at my school are short.
 
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post Jul 17 2005, 10:03 PM
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Hm,i went out with a shorter guy,personally it was weird enough making out with him. Lol i broke up with him after like a few weeks, i felt really uncomfortoble cuz i have to look kinda down wen i talk to him or kiss him and im 5'2 and hes about 4'7..yeah.


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post Jul 24 2005, 06:02 AM
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i really do prefer guys that are taller than me, but that isn't a problem since most of them are...

but if i liked him so much and his cute face made up for it, i wouldnt mind.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 03:31 PM
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My on-and-off boyfriend has always been shorter than me, for the past year and half.. until now. It never really bothered me but in the back of my mind I'd be like UGH GROWWWWW FOOOL. But now, he's taller. _smile.gif
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 03:48 PM
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it doesent really bother me. im tall but most of the people i know are taller so ive nver had that problem
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 04:26 PM
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it doesnt really matter. i'm 5'3 and the guys around my age are really short anyway. ermm.gif height isnt that big of a deal.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 05:54 PM
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i'm 5"2 so every guy i talk to is taller than me. but actually i think short guys are hotter. not midgets, but guys around 5"5-5"8 throb.gif

i don't know... height isn't really that big of an issue, unless he's out of proportion or something.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 06:16 PM
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Yeah I don't really think I'd ever date a guy shorter than me. My ex-boyfriend was pushing it because he was like an INCH taller. I guess it is a bit shallow but everyone is shallow in some way or other.
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 07:43 PM
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My friend is going through the same situation. This guy likes her and he's shorted than her. But whatever she doesn't like him..
If you like you should go out with him, it's not even a big height difference.
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 06:44 PM
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My bf is 4"9 and I'm 5"5. Height really doesn't bother me. Sure I have to look down to talk to him and kiss him but It really doesnt bother me a whole lot.
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 07:12 PM
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im a tall guy... and i feel sorry for all the girls that can't get a tall man lol..
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 07:40 PM
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i'm 5'10" and its really hard to find guys taller than me. but dont worry about it. if ppl find it weird, then its their problem. and its ONLY an inch. if you really liked him, you wouldnt care.
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 07:45 PM
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eh. i dont think your shallow its just your taste we all like different things. being 5'5 1/2" sometimes feels like im 5'9! but whatever just be comfortable and ignore that fact that your taller.
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 08:37 PM
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all i can say is atleased he's not 5 inches shorter..(my crush is)
 
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post Nov 22 2005, 09:27 PM
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theres actually a bunch of ppl i know going out where the guy is shorter than the girl..so its ok...and height doesnt matter to me..im pretty short so the guys i talk to..i usually have to crane my neck to look at..which is tiring..so i wouldnt want someone super tall..
 
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An inch shouldnt matter much. I guess I could date a girl taller than me but I have yet to find one.
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 11:14 AM
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well just look at usher and eishia.


they still look cute to me. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 01:01 PM
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i feel the exact same way,
n i obviously turn down all em boys that were shorter than me, its not that im shallow but they gotta understand from my perspective, i just dont feel comfortable.
BUT this is different i guess, if u really like him n its just a 1inch defferences. it shouldnt bother much, just give it a try.
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 03:17 PM
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oddly enough, i'm drawn to guys that are shortish. my boyfriend is 5'6" which could be considered short even though he's 2 inches taller than me. i don't judge a guy based on his height, and as long as he's not extremely short, i really don't care. if his height bothers you, then move on. but height isn't everything.
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 05:51 PM
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haha yeah im really short and it seems odd to be liked or like others who are shorted than i am
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 06:42 PM
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QUOTE(BrokenDream @ Jul 17 2005, 2:34 PM)
I am short.  cry.gif hmm, but not the shortest in my class though. I say I'm 5'6 or something along the lines of that. hmm, I've never had this problem either. but, I would say no. not because of the height but something else.. like, something else of that boy's personality (sp?)
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wha blink.gif ? If your short than i'm a midget.
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 08:17 PM
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I don't find many guys shorter than me, cuz i'm 5'2'', but if you like the guy enough, you'll figure out how to deal with it. Sure, things may be awkward at first, but if you like the guy, go for it!
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 09:31 PM
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I've seen girls go with guys who are like 2 feet shorter than them, honestly if you like him what does a few inches matter?
 
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post Dec 16 2005, 09:41 PM
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YES! i like this person but hes a tad bit shorter. i also feel kind of uncomfortable when i'm chubbier too.
 

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