Fellas On My Mind, Am I wastin my time?... Options

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I'm not gonna lie. I'm a playette & sometimes it's nice having that title, but then it's also a burden. I have so many guys crazy in love with me, but I still feel lonlieness killing me inside. I know most of you can say well make one your boyfriend and be happy. I love their personaility and talking to them on the phone, but their is always a problem. It's either long distance or I'm not attracted to them. I try not to be shallow & not to put my standards up so high, but thats how I've always been. It's just that I'm tired of playing the game even though I just started. I want to settle down and I'm only 14. I've fallen in love 3 times and thats more than I can handle. I have guys that want to have sex with me, guys that want me to be their girlfriend, guys that want just a piece of me. One of my guy friends said I'm like a cake everyone wants a piece of me. I don't want to be a cake I can't give myself to everyone. I want to give myself to one person & only. Then another one said I'm like a banana split cause I have a split personaility. I don't want to be a banana split either. I want to be the best kind of dessert thats not meant for sharing, but also a dessert where I have one personaility when I'm with this special guy. All I'm really trying to say is I'm a playette, but how can I settle down? I only flirt with guys cause I like the attention, but when I get attention sometimes they start to like me as more than a friend. Thats not what I want and then I end up hurting them.

+ I've got grounded alot this summer cause I've been to boii crazii what should I do?...
I need some help ladies...I know it doesn't make sense, but the parts that do try to help me out with it..

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

how about you get one boyfriend, and stop flirting ?

your situation sounds really regular to me. girls that just have some boys who like them. and all boys practically want sex so.. your situation is what i think a lot of girls actually go through.

and when i was your age, i had already been in deep love once, in love a second time and struggling to not fall in love again. i rounded 3rd base and almost ran home, but the game was delayed. yadadamean ?

if you dont want to be a playette just try to calm down on what you do. try not to flirt so much. find ONE dude you can cetner all the flirting on and ask him out. be with him for as long as you want.

[shortiiex]

i think you should just stop thinking about boys and move on...
there are more important things than boys...it will be hard though but you'll try


but if you can't handle without boys just find a boyfriends you are not attracted too and just have fun with him..like on dates

[enyceXaddiction]

get a boyfriend. it'll get your mind of the other guys. me, i think about guys all the time, but i find it a waste of time so i try to spend most of my time with my friends.

[sheddingtears]

you should be patient, cause the best things come to those who wait.
and when you do flirt, dont go overboard that you'll know you'll break his heart later.