trouble...., so theres this boy.... Options

[breakfreeberebel]

ok. There is this boy. Lets say his name is Allen. And ok. I used to like him, and he's been really jerky to me, and I stopped liking him a while ago. I kind of hate him now. But he doesnt belive me! All the time he's like "oh just admit it, you dont hate me!" and "stop kidding yourself, we both know you dont hate me!"....gah, i feel like slapping him. He's so mean! I do hate him! I hate him so much, I've taken it to an art form. Well, you get what I mean. I've tried over and over telling him to leave me alone, and he keeps bugging me! I know he doesnt like me - he has a gf. So I just dont know what to do anymore! The question I need answered is:

Why does he keep bugging me!?!!? And HOW do I get him to leave me alone?!?

Anyone got any advice??

[pinayprincess]

dude... he likes you... lol that what happened between me and my ex... he bugged me so much that it turned out he tried to get my attention.. "old fashion style"... lol it was funny though.. it wasnt the "buggin" that it annoyed the hell out of.. the kind of buggin like her flirted with me... it got to me b/c at the time of him doing this, i was with my other ex boyfriend.. .. i dumped my boyfriend for him and started going out for a while [later broke up] but we still like each till this day =)


advice for you; why does it really matter to you? just leave him alone "since you hate him so much".. he'll be coming up to you so much that there gonna be THAT time where he probably comfronts you... [in my situation, i forced the boy to tell me whats up lol, i shoved him against the wall and he told me he liked me..]

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

kick him where the sun dont shine while yelling leave me the f**k alone, when hes on the floor laugh with a happy tone in your voice as you say "SO, i DONT HATE YOU , you THiNK. NEWSFLASH-- i DO"

okay okay just tell him straight up. i dont like you, get away from me.

[lilJdawg]

Looks like he likes you when he has a girlfriend already. Tell him to fck' off or you'll get your girls up on him.

[mai_z]

Ahh...isn't "there's a boy" always the problem? Sounds like he's just trying to boost his own self confidence by teasing you like that and trying to imply that you like him. If you really do/don't like him, the only person u have to answer to is yourself, and you have nothing to prove to him. Next time he does it, just brush him off. You can say it once that "you hate him" if you really want, but after that, just ignore his tauntings. Once you ignore him for long enough he'll stop teasing you about it, but you have to be sure of yourself, and don't give in to his teasing.

[Latina Babii]

dude... he likes you... lol that what happened between me and my ex... he bugged me so much that it turned out he tried to get my attention.. "old fashion style"... lol it was funny though.. it wasnt the "buggin" that it annoyed the hell out of.. the kind of buggin like her flirted with me... it got to me b/c at the time of him doing this, i was with my other ex boyfriend.. .. i dumped my boyfriend for him and started going out for a while [later broke up] but we still like each till this day =)
advice for you; why does it really matter to you? just leave him alone "since you hate him so much".. he'll be coming up to you so much that there gonna be THAT time where he probably comfronts you... [in my situation, i forced the boy to tell me whats up lol, i shoved him against the wall and he told me he liked me..]

Same here, my (now ex ) boyfriend wouldn't stop making fun of me, he poked fun at me, hid my stuff, immature crap, then we dated because I had a humuungaus crush on him and he like dd me to, bt if that's not the case, well the sun don't shine in some ares works to...

[aznhunnie6o1]

Slap him. Be like "B*tch please, I hate your guts... Fcuk off."

That's how I'd do it. >.>

[butterflikisSez1...]

Either he is trying to be funny and it turns out he's annoying or he likes you. I would just take him some place private and tell him straight how you really feel then ask him how he feels. If he tries to be funny just tell him your being serious and well if that doesn't work then I would start thinking he's a jerk. After that I'd spend less time with him and see what how he reacts.

[DORKalicious]

Yeah I agree with the other girls, he may secretly like you. Unless he just has a big ego.Talk to him seriously and privately and see what he thinks.

[enyceXaddiction]

he probably likes you but if you hate him and he says you dont just slap him and he'll get him

[*Azarel*]

Get a restraining order. Um. But seriously, if you don't respond to him, he'll eventually tire of it. By the sound of it, though, it'll probably take a long while.

This belongs in relationships.

[shortiiex]

say f*ck you in his face and show how pissed your really are

[CloudNine]

ok. There is this boy. Lets say his name is Allen. And ok. I used to like him, and he's been really jerky to me, and I stopped liking him a while ago. I kind of hate him now. But he doesnt belive me! All the time he's like "oh just admit it, you dont hate me!" and "stop kidding yourself, we both know you dont hate me!"....gah, i feel like slapping him. He's so mean! I do hate him! I hate him so much, I've taken it to an art form. Well, you get what I mean. I've tried over and over telling him to leave me alone, and he keeps bugging me! I know he doesnt like me - he has a gf. So I just dont know what to do anymore! The question I need answered is:

Why does he keep bugging me!?!!? And HOW do I get him to leave me alone?!?

Anyone got any advice?? 

Well he probably has feelings for you. Don't ever date him because he sounds immature lol. The sure way to really piss someone off or drive them nuts is simply- ignore them or smother them with kindess as difficult as that may seem. If you can do that, your a much stonger person than he is.

When he says, "Oh you know you don't hate me!" Than tell him with a smirk, "um...okay." Ignore him or say, "Okay and does it matter?" He in other words "feeds" off of how you get angry at him when you say you hate him. So to stop it then just give him what he doesn't want- you agreeing with him. That will leave him so damn baffled lol, than after you agree with him, what more can he say?

So either you be the more mature one and save yourself the arguing or you let your pride get the better of you and you keep feeding the fire.

[angelrevelation]

i think he has a crush on someone...

when he bugs you be like 'what is your PROBLEM?' and get all angry, slap him with a book, stalk off then he'll realize how mad you are, then he'll apologize and fess up! hypothetically anyway...

[breakfreeberebel]

hmm...interesting theories...I'll try them out and tell you what happened.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

...well ignore him & if that don't work cuss him out & be like leave me alone you have a girlfriend & if their is something going on I don't know then tell me...but if not & your really jusst annoying then jusst please leave me the fukk alone & get a life!!...but put it in a nice kind of way!!...or tell him straight up if it's that serious...

[sheddingtears]

dude he probably misses how you used to like him.

next time he says that, say "you wish" or "in your dreams"