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[endura88]

feel like your falling for your bf's friend?ahhh i cant fu*%ing hide it anymore cause it's killing me.....i like my bf's friend...and i dont know what to do?
i feel like i wanna be just with his friend and not with him...and i donno i dont think i have any feelings anymore for my bf but sometimes i do?im so dam-n confused....what would you people do if u were in my situation?plz help me?
im in a dillema?(sp?)

[endura88]

ah?nobody? :(

[*mipadi*]

Nothing wrong with ending the relationship if you're not into it anymore.

[mouse_3k]

Dont double post plz.

Ne who, if you cant hide it AND you lost interest in your bf then dump him. Better to be happy then miserable.

[lilJdawg]

Yeah, if you lost feeling for your bf, end the relationship. It's better then feeling guilty when you're falling for his homeboy.

[red_hot_tamales]

but if you break up with him...don't go out with his friend too soon. cuz that's just not right...wait a few weeks if you can. because then you are more likely to be able to prevent a huge fall out between them...

[xldubaliciousx]

Dump your current boyfriend. You're giving a half ass effort in this relationship.. And he can probably tell.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

try to stay a little longer and see what happens .....if problems still coincide then the above statements can help you

[*danielle_x3*]

it happened to me before. i waited, but when they broke up, i didn't like him anymore. :P . . let the feelings fade

[heyyfrankie]

if i was in that situation, i honestly don't what exactly what i would do. i guess you COULD break it off with your current boyfriend & start dating/going out with his friend but that would most certainly piss your boyfriend off SO i would suggest breaking up with bf & trying to get with someone TOTALLY not linked to your boyfriend.

gah, i hope that made since. v-v;;

[technicolour]

If you don't like your bf anymore, it isn't fair that you are still with him. 

If you like his friend, the thing is, if you and his "friend" start dating after you dump your current bf, it can ruin their current friendship.

First things first, break up with your bf, break it to him gently, you shouldn't be his gf anymore if you no longer have feelings for him.

Talk to them both, explain things slowly, and if they both reject you, don't be so surprised.

COMMUNICATION(hahaha...imitating sprinkle-the-stars.hehehe..)is the key.

WHY ARE PEOPLE STEALING MY LINE?! *$^%*$&%*$

But seriously Just talk...Talking is key...

Damn you people. Line stealers.

[pinayprincess]

na... man but that sucks.. lets just hope nothing goes crazy with your man... knowing bf's these days, they'd get jealous for the gf liking his bestfriend... well its how YOU feel -- so look at it like this; he cant control how you feel towards people.. so do what YOU want to do.. kind of put it like "who do you like most?"

[daflirtyychick]

Well i felt that way..OMG buh you have to know who u feel i guess. If you really want to be with your bfz friend...at least get sumone tah find out if your bz friend feels the same way. Then You just gotta sit down with ya bf n talk with him n tell him how u really feel...Or its just gonna get worse...

[maia_dc]

I haven't been in that situation, but what you really need to do is break if off with your bf before anything happens. After things are done between the two of you, you can really check to see if your feelings for his friend are legitimate, and not just a "i want what i can't have."