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post Jul 11 2005, 03:10 PM
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If only...
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*sighs...


Couple months ago, my girlfriend did somethign horrible to me. now, I'm single...

I been trying to keep busy (Which I have) talked to friends, hang out, meet new people, etc...

But, my gosh, it just feels unbareable now. I can't take it ne more...

i feel so lonely, and like a person on the outside looking in, like no one can relate, and every one just says "Aww, yup, yeah, yup..."


I just wanted to vent... I need a female to talk to... sad.gif
 
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WrathOfOnigo
post Jul 11 2005, 03:22 PM
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Hah! Its funny cause its true...
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You can ventto me. =D. I like listening to people problems and trying my best to help out.

When my first ex broke up with me I felt the same way. I did my best to keep busy and not think about it, but whenever I was just alone I would feel horrible. I guess over time you'll feel better.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:25 PM
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Despite how you may feel at the moment you shouldnt need a girl in your life in order to feel happy.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:29 PM
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there's not much you can do. it's a good thing you are actually trying to get over it though and keeping busy and such though. just give it time.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:50 PM
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^ i kinda agree .. just give it some time and you`ll be okay

console.gif but im sorry that you guys broke up =( you can vent to me if you would like. i hope u feel better soon! flowers.gif
 
Mizz Rizza
post Jul 11 2005, 03:53 PM
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everyone says give it time
and i totally agree
and sometimes it may take a while
and the horrible thing she did to you
will kill you inside and it hurts
and mzkandi's right
you don't need a girl to make you happy
hang with ur friends
just get out
try to hav fun
 
lKVNiiKINKYl
post Jul 11 2005, 04:12 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN
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*points* YOU SEXIST PIG! just kidding...but don't worry even though i'm not a female i have faith that you'll move on and get better. i mean love and girls aren't everything
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 04:13 PM
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Instead of being upset, revel in your singleness and independence--you can do whatever you want and have to answer to no one!

Also, you shouldn't rely on someone else to make you happy; you have to be happy with yourself first before you can really have a good relationship with someone else.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 04:17 PM
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Plus, how old are you? I'm 16 and I never had anyone so it honestly can't be that bad...
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:18 PM
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you can talk to me. pm me anytime.

and i KNOW how you feel. my friends say im in love w/ my ex and i honestly dont know all i know is i still want him back. you can vent to me about whatever you need. but do just give it time and try to talk to other girls.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:20 PM
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awww yup...yeah...yup

these girls here are pretty nice why dont you see if any of them in your area and just hook up with them
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:21 PM
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cheatin on u hmm ?
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:21 PM
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^ =0. lol your funny.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:46 PM
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Being happy...is all that matters
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I know how you feel. When my first boyfriend broke up with me, I was devastated. I was fine the first couple of days, because I was convinced that he'd come back to me, but after a week, I realized that nothing was gonna bring him back. Then I sank into a kinda of depression thing. I was lonely whenever I was alone, I felt sad and very very lonely.

What I did to pass that phase was...well...it's gonna sound stupid, but I just let time take over. After a couple of months, I didn't have that lonely feeling anymore. Sometimes, you just have to let things sit. Continue on keeping yourself busy and try not to think about her. Make a conscious effort to stop thinking about her.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:52 PM
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none of it seems real
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Don't get caught up in feeling that way.. Like Kiera said you don't need a girl to be happy, same goes for the girls. Some people seem to be so dependent on their "lover" that they feel they always need one. Just take it easy and someone will come around.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:09 PM
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Dude... I feel the same exact way, and I don't think you should vent to anyone else who feels the same way, because they have no way of making you feel beter, and you both end up more lonely and more sad... Go out there and get a girl man, I bet you could...
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:10 PM
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There's nothing else for you to do. Try hanging out with your friends more so your lonesomeness goes away.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:28 PM
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oh god yes i feel the same, havent got a bf in 4 years >_< i need someone :o
just go out and meet new people.. how hard it seems , there will be someone who will fall for you :)
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 06:25 PM
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find a female betsfriend then. thats the best you can do for now.
 
post Jul 13 2005, 09:14 AM
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just dont do stupid things
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 09:22 AM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 11 2005, 5:12 PM)
girls aren't everything
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seriously? uh-oh *calls girl and tells her shes not all that and a bag of potato chips cuz he just heard it on tv, she then starts laughin and hangs up* damn she didnt believe me
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 03:01 PM
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QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Jul 12 2005, 10:09 AM)
Dude... I feel the same exact way, and I don't think you should vent to anyone else who feels the same way, because they have no way of making you feel beter, and you both end up more lonely and more sad... Go out there and get a girl man, I bet you could...
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That's true. But it's not really fair to that new girl if you still like your ex. It'll end up backfiring on you.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 03:05 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jul 11 2005, 1:25 PM)
Despite how you may feel at the moment you shouldnt need a girl in your life in order to feel happy.
Agreed.

QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 11 2005, 2:13 PM)
Also, you shouldn't rely on someone else to make you happy; you have to be happy with yourself first before you can really have a good relationship with someone else.
And yet again, I concur.

Before you get into another relationship, STOP BEING SO CODEPENDENT! I went through a phase similar to this, where I just felt unwanted - but I realized, I have to live for myself, not someone else. It's my life. Soo yeah.

The only reason you think being single is so horrible is because you choose to. Cheer up and get your mind on other things that make you happy; you'll be fine.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 07:10 PM
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Until the end of time...
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Don't worry about it...jus go back to the way things were before u dated ur girlfriend. It's better to be independant...
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 07:55 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jul 11 2005, 3:25 PM)
Despite how you may feel at the moment you shouldnt need a girl in your life in order to feel happy.
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Right. You shouldn't always depend on a "significant other" for happiness. I've been single for 2 years and yea it sucks ass but, at least i'm not getting hurt or something like that.
 
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post Jul 15 2005, 11:33 AM
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Yea I know how you feel my bf broke up with me and I feel so lonely and like I'll never be happy again.
 
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post Jul 15 2005, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jul 11 2005, 3:25 PM)
Despite how you may feel at the moment you shouldnt need a girl in your life in order to feel happy.
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yes thats true
 
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post Jul 15 2005, 05:02 PM
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I know how you feel, just something empty that no matter what you do, it's still there. You just have to get over it with time, that's what I did.
 
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