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i'm bored, how do you apologize?
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post Jul 11 2005, 05:42 AM
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what's your way of saying sorry? do you usually just say the simple word in their face, 'i'm sorry for blah blah blah...' or do you send them a card, gifts, a song or something? what's your way of apologizing when you've done something wrong? and if you don't have a way, what do you think is the best way? if someone has done something wrong to you, how would you like them to apologize to you?

i haven't been here long so if this topic is already made, feel free to close. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:09 AM
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i don't really believe in getting people gifts/candy as a way of apologizing. in a way, it's sorta like buying back their friendship.

i apologize by sincerely saying how wrong i was and asking for their forgiveness. not a simple, "i'm sorry." cause, don't say it if you don't mean it.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:28 AM
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I usually just say sorry in a sincere way, or if I still feel guilty, I will take that person out for a meal.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:30 AM
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QUOTE(niez_cho @ Jul 11 2005, 6:28 AM)
I usually just say sorry in a sincere way, or if I still feel guilty, I will take that person out for a meal.
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you owe me an apology T_T




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hah, i kid >.<;; anyways, i just say sorry if its my fault. if its the other persons fault i tell them im willing to make up if they apoligize ^^. sometimes if i feel like it i write a letter.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:12 AM
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I can't recall a time of when I was feeling guilty enough to buy anything accompanied by a simple "I'm sorry".

I just say it, and mean it.
Give a hug and make up, hopefully.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:10 AM
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I just say sorry for whatever I did.
No need to buy anything.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:16 AM
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Apologizing must be one of my weak points. It would probably take a life defying situation for me to actually give an actual true apology. I have no idea why, I don't want to hurt people, when I do it hardly ever is intentional. When it comes to apologies, I just can't do it. Hell, its hard for my mouth just to pop out a simple "sorry." Apologies... something thats hard for me to do. I would joke around with "ok ok im sorry" but I don't think I actually mean it. Everybody I tell it too probably knows it but just doesn't say anything, I want to change, i'm trying to change but hell, it's more then I expected. I have been building up on this for a long time but it just isn't getting around.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:25 AM
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i just say i'm sorry and like give them a hug or something. buying them a gift is a cop out.

OH, I'M SO SORRY!!1 HERE, TAKE THIS CUTE, SOFT TEDDY BEAR! hug.gif

[/sarcasm] rolleyes.gif
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:06 AM
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i dont find any point in sending them cards etc. ill just apologize to their face. its much more suitable.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:10 AM
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I just say it, but If I am really sorry, I write poems, I do something original, ust to express my feelings.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:22 AM
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I usually just say sorry and that's pretty much it I'm not all too big about money and that kinda thing a sorry should be good enough
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:44 AM
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i just tell the person im sorry. no need to go all out and make them love you again. if they dont forgive you, you dont need them. its that simple.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:27 PM
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I just say sorry like I mean it.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:31 PM
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It depends on what I did.

If it was really serious, I'd start saying "I'm sorry, I'm sooooo sorry!!"

But if it wasn't, I'd just be like, "Sorry" and shrug.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:31 PM
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i just apologize for th wrong i did and then ask them to forgive me.. tat's kinda itl..lol
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 01:26 PM
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hmm, I just say i'm sorry and tell them why i'm sorry. And ask for forgiveness. Do i buy them somethan? lol it matters what i did. Like if I accidently ruined a friends shirt or somethan, then i would say i'm sorry and then most likely go buy them another one. lol, so i guess it matters what i did.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 01:57 PM
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When its somethin important I do it online or make a letter...if they dont accept then screw it, I dont really care for apologies (sp?)
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 02:16 PM
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I bring up the topic while Im talking to them, then apologize for it. And then I'll ask them if i could make it up to them in anyway..
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 02:19 PM
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By a simple: "My bad"
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 02:37 PM
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look into their eyes and say im sorry with feeling.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:41 PM
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I don't apologize for a long while, usually; when I do, it ends up coming out, "Hey, I'm sorry for _______ a while ago. I'm not expecting you to forgive me, but just so it's out there." Works well, for the most part.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 04:13 PM
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I usually just say "Sorry" and write a long letter saying that I didn't mean to and stuff. If they continue to be mad. Then oh wellz. They're out of my life.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:32 PM
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I usually say sorry and give an explanation for whatever I did.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:44 PM
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i say sorry PERSON for doing blah blah .. i rarely give them any gifts
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:47 PM
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say sorry and explain.. and maybe ask them to go somewhere to make up.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:22 PM
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i tell them im sorry till they go crazy. ermm.gif
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 08:44 PM
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Say the 3 magical words:

I am sorry.




It's really that simple.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 08:46 PM
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When Jay-Z was making his Blueprint album, I sent him these horrible beat named "U Don't Know". I apologized to him for making that wack beat by giving him his smash hit "Girls Girls Girls" and "Song Cry", cementings "The Blueprint"'s status as a classic album.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:09 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jul 11 2005, 9:10 AM)
I just say sorry for whatever I did.
No need to buy anything.
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yeahh that's what I do
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:13 PM
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me:"just forgive you bitch. eventhough i know im always right, im letting you slide with this one."
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:15 PM
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i usually say my bad and go on with whatever i am doin
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:24 PM
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i just say sorry and give an explanation.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:36 PM
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i go

"sorry"
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:36 PM
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Say "sorry," but if they didn't deserve it, then I wouldn't mean it.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:49 PM
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I feel so bad I can't even gather myself to say sorry.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:40 AM
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hmm.. usualy in person, gift cards and all that is just saying how u want to avoid that person *is wat i think*, and in person it takes more courage =]
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:51 AM
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I bake something and then tell the person im sorry and that we should go cry over a batch of home made chocolate chip cookies.

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post Jul 12 2005, 12:55 AM
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I just say I'm sorry for whatever I did. I don't think it's hard to say sorry when you know you do something wrong..
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 01:49 AM
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I say right to their face, if they're not gonna accept it, heh. deal with it.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 02:06 AM
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*walks to persons*....articulates "im sorry"
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 02:59 AM
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" ercckkkk ! i'm sorrrrrrrrrrrry .. erm .. sorryy.. "

yeah, i'm shy to say sorry.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 06:58 PM
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no need to buy anything. it really depends on the situation..
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 07:14 PM
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I usually write a note, or send an e-mail.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 08:03 PM
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I really really can't say sorry. I just hold the grudge for a verrry long time.
 
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