Need some advice.. o.o, again.. |
 Jul 8 2005, 01:59 PM
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 Like i care. ♥  Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706  |
ok.. yeah.
I know this guy, and hes kind of someone who makes out with lot of people.. he's everything that i hate; he smokes, he is kind of a racist.. and he's not even that good looking. We danced at the school dance, like really close, and we are really flirty. So we had a msn conversation 2 days ago.. and in the conversation i just put a kiss smiley in it.. and he said; i still want that in real life. so i said; ok come and get it (i didnt think he would really come since the weather was bad and he lives on the other side of the town). A time later, hes for my door.. seriously i was shocked.. but happy.. i guess i started liking him already. So we talked and walked a bit, and he had to go. so i said; where were you coming for again? (i felt like slapping myself in the face after i said that).. he said; a little kiss. so i said; ok so where are you waiting for? (another slap moment; i didnt know what i did seriously :O). then he kissed me on the mouth, twice. i was nervous xD. i was kind of surprised it didnt go to "real" kissing.. (didnt tell him that ofcourse :P) he said; I cant do it, im in love with Maris (another girl,duh).. and she already forgave me twice."-while walking to his bike. I said something of okay. he got on his bike, said "but next time i want it (you know the real kiss)(what was that supposed to mean, a next time?? and then suddenly he does want to kiss?)" and there he went. Well, the problem is; i cant stop thinking about him. i know its wrong and stupid.. but i cant help it. i dont want to be in love with him, he loves someone else REALLY BAD obviously, but she doesnt trust him anymore.. . What do i do now? i cant "just" forget him 
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Jul 8 2005, 04:33 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
oh my gosh thats so romantic!!! he acctally went all the way to your house i wish a guy did that for me *tear tear* well back to the topic..dont froget him dont GIVE UP. wait till they broke up...then make your move.
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Jul 8 2005, 04:38 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
You don't like him but you talk to him online? Well, he obviously has feelings for you so I think you should just tell him (if you don't want to be with him) that he has a girlfriend and what they have is good. He sounds like he's like Romeo, the kind of guy who falls in love so easily and then falls back out just as fast.
QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 8 2005, 5:33 PM) oh my gosh thats so romantic!!! he acctally went all the way to your house i wish a guy did that for me *tear tear* well back to the topic..dont froget him dont GIVE UP. wait till they broke up...then make your move.  It's kind of weird to me. Someone who's going out with someone and then comes over to your house when you were joking and...yeah...maybe it's just me but its really weird o.O. |
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Jul 8 2005, 05:31 PM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
hes everything you hate, yet you like him haha, lovely. dont give up on him... i think he really likes you or he wouldnt have done all that, maybe he just wont admit it.
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Jul 8 2005, 06:27 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that's horrible, is this what you want?
some racist ass? he told you that he's "in love" with another girl (which i highly doubt because if he was serious he wouldn't have kissed you). just get out while you can, step into reality all this guy will do is bring you pain and heartbreak. you will never be able to trust him because what he's doing to the girl he supposedly loves he can do to you if you two get really close. trust me, the sooner you try to forget him the better. |
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Jul 8 2005, 11:13 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ True that.
He's just tricking you. He doesn't really like you. You're never safe with a relationship with someone like him. It wouldn't be a surprise if you found him making out with another girl, would it? Forget about him. He doesn't know what real love is. He's not worth your time. |
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Jul 9 2005, 03:12 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Gahh.. After kissing you he says he's in love with another girl. And goes on to say he wants a REAL kiss next time or whatever.. You can learn a lot about someone from observing how they treat other people. So what IF you guys did get together. Would he just cheat on YOU then..?
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Jul 9 2005, 04:15 AM
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Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
i dont think he falls in and out of love easily, but he just loves to makes out with other people.. ill just forget him, but how if he keeps on flirting and stuff? >_< gaaah.. xD
Thnx for your replys, its really helpful :) |
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