have you ever..?, liked someone who has a bf/gf Options

[xoxoxx]

Have you ever had a crush, or did you ever like someone with a boyfriend/girlfriend, and you knew about it? I had twice, but i never wanted to date any of them, i just wanted to become close friends. But if they have a boyfriend, it kind of feels wierd if your talking to them. It seems as if the boyfriend will get jealous and they usually have these angry facial expressions. Oh, also, i don't like anyone with a bf right now, but if you did, would you give up? or would you wait.

[LittleLulu]

...well its happened before...twice..one guy, i told him a few months after they broke up, but then nthn came out of it ..n the other guy, well he's still with her, and since i have a boyfriend of my own right now, i really dont care about him anymore. i just care about my own bf =]

[parallel]

Who the hell cares.
I'd go for it.
cough*Ronnie and Nikki*cough.
[=

[_sarcastic_]

i liked this guy before he got with his gf, but i never told anyone so after he got with her i guess it was my fault of not telling anyone but we got together a few months after. now he's my ex.

[limanman]

it haven't happened to me actually.
but i think if those thing happen on me,
i will give up.
coz i don't want to be the third person.
i don't want to make the couple break up.
i will even not make friend with the person i love.

[topsyturvy]

Yes, I did. I waited until they broke up. (I suffered half a year of waiting.) Then we became closer friends and then... BAM.

[Xprezsion]

Of course I have liked someone with a girlfriend, because I was attracted to their personality and stuff before I found out that they were taken or they became taken. I would just try to become closer friends with them and wait it out.

[kill me please]

oh yeah. i mean when i first liked him he didnt have a gf but then he did so... yeah i was screwed and finally just gave up.

[technicolour]

OMG YES!

It happened at the end of school. We were writing notes in geography and he said he liked me and i said I liked him..but then he said he wanted to be with his girlfriend. [his girlfriend is a bitch. seriously. she likes controls him. she has him on a leash.] But. Next year. Never know..

[enyceXaddiction]

i like a guy with a gf. i dont care. im not going for him, yet im not giving up on him. im not tryingt o do anything im just waiting for my feelings to fade by itself. we're still really close friends though.

[*stephinika*]

nope...i've liked a guy when i knew he liked some other girl though...ugh.

[dahding]

once. but it was just a little crush, and that was that.

[Skyline Drive]

Yes but I started liking him before he got a new girlfriend. We actually liked each other at one point but when I heard he liked me.. I like pushed him away ( arg, what an idiotic move on my part )

Anyhow. I stopped talking to him ( last sept ) when he got with her just because I would get hurt and I needed to forget about him. They just broke up this month though.. so his single again and I think I may start talking to him again.. =/

[Mizz Rizza]

well it happened to me once or twice i guess
and ive always felt guilty about it
especially if it was a friend of mine's bf : /
but i wouldnt go for it
i mean
you wouldnt want someone to try
to hook up with ur bf
rite?

[DixieDaCutie]

[his girlfriend is a bitch. seriously. she likes controls him. she has him on a leash.]

whipped

AHHHHH....tht's happened to me tooo many times. if i really like the guy, then i'll just wait until he becomes single again, n hope that it's wrth it. yeaa i feel kinda bad when i know that the gf is probably getting pretty ticked that im talking to her man n all....like Mizz Rizza said, especially if its 1 of my friend's bfs.. ;-/

[angelrevelation]

hmm well i had this crush (my friend) and he kept on getting girlfriends and telling me about them... but i was pretty much over him by the time we became friends so... that doesnt really count

my crush is moving, but i found out he had a gf (at least i saw this girl with him that i honestly am 99% positive is his gf) the second to last day of school. so that was extremely....... *sigh*

[*disco infiltrator*]

i've liked people who were pursuing/liked other people but i don't think i've liked someone with a girlfriend. but, i think, if you do like someone and they have a boyfriend/girlfriend, you should tell them how you feel. however, don't like, go making out with them. but you should definitely tell them and keep talking to them, cause when they break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, who knows?

[FailedSense]

I'm a patient person.

But that really doesn't happy to me that often. *shrug*

[xFaith]

No.. but i think its sort of happening now..

and i'd look how much potential the relationship has.. if its good, ill give up. if its unstable ill wait ^^

[bfleenor]

yep thats happened to me lots of times.

[*danielle_x3*]

oh yes. it's happened to me once. like a year ago . .

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

yeah, but i never do anything. its wrong in my opinion, but thats just mines.

[silentxcries]

that happened to me b4.. this guy was really nice to me and ive known him for along time.. but he always had a gf, and he blew me off and ive moved on, i waited and waited but he just always liked someone more i was always second best, and now hes just a stranger to me and like i said ive moved on.. you cant wait forever.

[mouse_3k]

yah but I dont try to steal em. Either I wait till they become single or just move on. No big deal

[sheepy]

no actually i havent.

[maia_dc]

Uh YES.

[SMiLEEFORMEE]

yeahh. actually i liked this boy before he had a gf. and i now he has one and i still like him

[sweetabandon]

yeah. actually it was my best friend's boyfriend. i ended up regretting that whole thing.

In fact, I still believe that all the good ones are taken.

I'm still amazed at how I found my current boyfriend since I can't find anything wrong with him.

[sheddingtears]

if they with someone, id back off. i'll be there to listen to their sob stories and whatnot, but i don't ever want a good relationship to break apart because of selfish reasons.

[xtreme_<3]

well ..i liked him before he had a girlfriend. it was two years ago. i still do. they've broken up for how many times i have no idea but its ok. i talked to him when they broke up but then as soon as they got together again, i just stopped talking to him. i feel like if i talk to him, its like i'm trying to break them up you know? i feel guilty for liking him which i shouldn't but just knowing he has a gf makes me feel .. awkward. so i all i can do is wait and see him every chance i get, since we don't really see each other because we go to different schools. they say the greatest things in life are worth waiting for and hes the greatest thing in my life. but then again, who knows. maybe i'll get over him one day ..

[AnnahhbeL]

no...

[ComradeRed]

The whole point of natural selection is that you compete for the best reproduction opportunities, duh. If you like someone who's already in a relationship, you need to take the offensive to the enemy or your genes will die out, and people a few generations down will look at you with contempt and do what I suggested instead.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

yea ....ive liked a few girl-friends and crushes who have been taken already....some of them know and some of them dont ....some of them did like me and some of them didnt . end of the question.