how life makes things complicated, for family Options

[laxumaster8]

when i was a baby, my dad was killed... now, being older, it's hard to look back and recall things about him, not knowing anything about him...and even with supporting people and friends and a good life, i still cant help but think about what it would have been like if something in the past had been different. you think that adults are capable of handling things [wiith some exceptions] and handle their emotions, but deep inside, do you ever wonder if they still feel like you do? today, we might think as younger people that we have tough lives. but if our parents actually shared all of their feelings and hardships with us, that it might be almost the same as ours?

[myheartxbandages]

aww, i am so sorry.
Memories will come and fade..
i'm sure randomly you'll remember things about him that you never even knew before.

that happens to me a lot.
<3

[xenosaga]

agreed, since I'm just like you (losing my father), and remembering about my past. It's hard to forget, since that person is someone very special to you.

[xldubaliciousx]

Aw.. I'm sorry to hear that. But your mom or any other close adults probably feel the same way. If they haven;'t said anything it's only because as an adult they're supposed to be strong for YOU. But you should bring it up to them.. Maybe they want to reminisce about your dad too.

[megan_x3]

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad.

Actually, I share some same thoughts. My Dad could've nearly been killed by some family reasons. It wasn't the nicest thing I've heard about it, but it was some of the things that I really hate about my Dad side of the family. I believe it's true that adults or parent hide their thoughts and feelings away from their children. It may be hard to lose someone in the past when you were so little, when you don't even know anything about them, since you were so little. Yes, indeed I think its really hard. Things may be the same or different whether your dad is here or not. Maybe you get a little extra help from your Dad, besides your Mom. Adults and kids, I believe share the same emotions. Adults are just little, well, shy ( in my own opinion ) because they're adults. They don't cry out loud like we kids do. We share the same emotions.. For an example, when our friends ditches us, when you get a broken heart from your ex. All those things are something that all people in the world experience throughout the whole entire life. I hope my opinion helps you, throughout your problems.

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

I think that they do because if you let adults really let go without worrying about bills and saftey and all that fun junk, how else would they act? They would be just like us all in their own individual way and what such.

[PinkTrash]

maybe you should ask your mom, or your dad's relatives about things regarding your dad and what kind of a person he really was, because you didnt really know him. I think adults have a lot more hardships then us, that are more serious, but I think kids overreact in situations a lot more than parents do.. and a lot of the times they just know how to deal with things.

[enyceXaddiction]

I think that they do because if you let adults really let go without worrying about bills and saftey and all that fun junk, how else would they act? They would be just like us all in their own individual way and what such.

agreed^