spending the holidays alone..., ...again Options

[emo_in_urpanties]

yet another holiday has passed, [4th of July], n I've spent this one alone.
Its depressing driving past the fireworks and the people only to know that because my whole family's outta town, cept me, I'm stuck....alone...again.

Has anyone else gone through this before? It sucks.

[*Azarel*]

Aw. *patpat* Cheer up. Go out. Party. Have some fun. Live a little. :]

[Saeglopur]

Hmm... somewhat. My cousins are older than me and a few of my peer cousins. They kind of went to watch the fireworks... and me and my peer cousins are left. It was kind of depressing.

[parallel]

What a bummer.
You should've called up some friends or something dude.

No. This hasn't happened to me. I don't let stuff like that happen.
[=

[emo_in_urpanties]

i wouldve calld sum friends up but they're all with their families. ah well.

[TheSpoon]

aww that sucks. =(


and i didnt spend my july 4th alone. ^^ it was my birthday

[toodlepops.]

^Ooh, Happy Belated Birthday!
Sad, man. Wish you told us earlier. ;[

[*lolita kitty*]

well, my mom didnt take us anywhere to do anything. she literally sat on her computer all day, except for those two breaks where she made lunch and dinner. =l

i just kinda sat downstairs and played on the computer all day. i was alone too >.<

[*Weird addiction*]

lol...i spent newyear alone...

[Spirited Away]

lol...i spent newyear alone...

me, too. this last one was the third new year alone in a row.

though... i'm hoping to change that if everything works out with someone... lol.

[YourSuperior]

It's ok. This is my first year like that.

[inthemudhole]

I spend basically every holiday alone, but I almost prefer that. I did, however, party with a few friends last night, but that was the first time I've done anything with a friend for a holiday since I was a little kid, so I know how you feel.

[heyyfrankie]

that really sucks but i have never been alone on a holiday.

[alpha623]

I didnt do anything yesterday for the fourth. There was no one to go anywhere with. I was allright with it tho.

[yellowgurl]

usually in the summer i go nowhere and everyone goes somewhere. i guess that's kind of the same but cheer up next year might be better?

[parallel]

i wouldve calld sum friends up but they're all with their families. ah well.

But you know.
It was actually your fault for not letting yourself have a good time.

[Looow]

Aww shucks. I've never spent a holiday alone.
Last night for independance day I went to see the fireworks with my best friend. i don't get to see her very often.

[mai_z]

Aww *pat on the head* Fourth of July alone can't be that bad, but then again, Canada Day (Fourth of July counterpart) isn't a very big deal here.

[emo_in_urpanties]

But you know.
It was actually your fault for not letting yourself have a good time.

aw geez, thx for puttin it that way. lol, newayz, i ddnt haf a choice whether to let myself have a good time. I just made tha most out of it. But no matter wut u do, u still end up realizing that ur bored outta ur mind n alone.

[3ssx]

aww.. i've never spend my holidays alone.. thats 'cause my parents are always home and stuff so yea.

[enyceXaddiction]

dont worry im spended it alone to. all my friend are across the world

[jue]

im always spendingmy holidays alone.

[Fallen Fairy]

I'm going to introduce you to a little friend named Vodka.
We call him bud for short... no im just joking with you.
Anyways Yeah sometimes this happens. But hopefully you will find someone to chill with for all seasons.

fallen fairy

[[Deep]Thought63]

me too. i spent the 4th of July alone.

[shortiiex]

i was alone with at least 1-2 people..i think on Christmas

[xldubaliciousx]

Aww.. I'm sorry to hear that. But there is an upside to this.. You'll appreciate those holidays spent with the people you care about. Too often we just take things for granted.

[mocassinsx29]

I hate it when I'm home, lonely & pathetic, reading someone's xanga about the terrific and exhilirating day they had. It makes me feel left out especially if I know the person.

[*salcha*]

I spent July 4th on a plane coming back to cali, so I missed the fireworks.

[*mipadi*]

You should've thrown a big, big party to celebrate.

[The-Mach-Hare]

why are you still in town when they are out? that seems pointless and part of your problem.

ive never had that happen to me though. i find some way to make the best of everything

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

you should have walked out into the streets and just stood with a group of kids. they wouldnt notice.. probably. lol

you should call some people up ! have some fun !

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

Awwwwwwwwwwww poor you
I didnt have a 4 of July...
I live in Canada lol

[rAwritsgWeg]

yes all the time.............well actually on the 4th of july i broke down and started cryin in front of all my friends and then one of my reall good freinds told me alot about hihm self and that he can somewhat c0mpare to me and then he said this

"all u really eed to do is to forget. It sounds like it wont help but just try to live the moment, dont just whine about it, yes the problems may come back later on but just try to forget. trust me it helps"

and ever since then ive been fine but thats also cuz ive been doin alot of crazy and pretty fun stuff

but ya

try to do what my friend told me. if u wanna see what i was like it before he said that then look at this:The Fisrt link
Thats the Second room i made heres the first onethe second link