.:Cheating:., Good or Bad? |
 Jul 1 2005, 08:14 PM
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 speechless  Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564  |
Heres the thing...Ive been seeing someone for like over a month now...But I'm cheating on this other person. The reason is cause the person I'm with is always mean to me and isn't always there for me. On Tuesday night, she went to LA. w/o any warning...and doesnt come back until today. She tells me the truth finally that she went with 2 complete strangers she recently met. Tehn she tells me she made-out with one of 'em. Is she doing this to get back at me!?!
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Jul 1 2005, 08:16 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
eh if shes mean to you why dont yu break up with her. and yeah that was probably revenge.
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Jul 1 2005, 08:17 PM
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speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 1 2005, 5:16 PM) eh if shes mean to you why dont yu break up with her. and yeah that was probably revenge.  Don't you think I've tried. It isn't as simple as it seems to tell someone you no longer love 'em. |
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Jul 1 2005, 08:48 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
^ um. actually it is.
 you should really break up with her if she doesn't make you happy and treats you like crap. |
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Jul 1 2005, 08:54 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
being with two people, no matter what is bad. It shouldnt matter who is cheating with who, you should only belong to one person
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Jul 1 2005, 08:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
QUOTE(REBELnDISGUISE @ Jul 1 2005, 8:17 PM) Don't you think I've tried. It isn't as simple as it seems to tell someone you no longer love 'em. lmao..u LOVE them? arnt u currently cheating on them and u still LOVE them?! wow... pathetic...truly pathetic.. |
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Jul 1 2005, 09:10 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Even if you don't like your current girlfriend, it's really wrong to cheat. Just break up with her officially so you can have a good time with the girl you like guilt free.
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Jul 1 2005, 09:36 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Cheating is BAD either way..unless they cheated first. If she treats u bad at least break up with her
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Jul 1 2005, 10:06 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just break up with her, the both of you are cheating on each other. what's the point of being with each other. and you LOVE her?! psssh. i don't think so.
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Jul 2 2005, 10:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
if she says dat she's been meeting dese two completely strangers and made out wit one of dem...then break up wit her..imma sry to say dat...but like dude shes cheating on yoo tho...
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Jul 2 2005, 02:18 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jul 1 2005, 10:36 PM) Cheating is BAD either way..unless they cheated first. Two wrongs don't make a right. Cheating is ALWAYS a bad thing. |
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Jul 2 2005, 03:23 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Cheating IS always a bad thing. It WILL probably end in a break up. you SHOULD break up w/ her.
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Jul 2 2005, 03:30 PM
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in any type of situation, cheating is always bad.
if it's to get back at someone, that's a pretty lame thing to do. that's probably the worst thing you could do to something in a relationship--well, other than killing him/her but that's really not a very good decision. i mean--how would you feel if someone you were with was cheating on you? wouldn't be too fun, would it? |
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Jul 2 2005, 05:02 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
cheating = bad. never does any good.
break up with her, and no, apparently, u don't love her, cause if u did, u wouldn't have cheated on her. |
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Jul 3 2005, 03:03 AM
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 ..hawaiian pride.. Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,150 |
cheating is bad... it soudns like you and this other person aren't doing too good and i think you should break up with this person... i hate players like dat
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Jul 3 2005, 03:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,553 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jul 1 2005, 8:06 PM) just break up with her, the both of you are cheating on each other. what's the point of being with each other. and you LOVE her?! psssh. i don't think so. AMEN! Cheating is so bad. Why don't u just stick with the girl #2 ...does she even know u have a gf right now? That would be unfair to her (girl #2) if she's actually faithful, but anyway....just dump ur gf...she doesn't sound like a great gf anyway. =) |
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Jul 3 2005, 03:09 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(SSJ Kenshin @ Jul 3 2005, 3:18 AM) Two wrongs don't make a right. Cheating is ALWAYS a bad thing. ^ Agreed. How can cheating ever be right?!? |
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Jul 3 2005, 01:00 PM
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brooklyn brooklyn Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,315 |
could be Bad for both and could be good 4 both.....yeaaaa okkk im gonna go now...
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Jul 3 2005, 02:56 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
So...You cheat on her...and then she cheats on you.
Is everyone this messed up in the head these days or are we just hearing about it these days? Look, if someone isn't treating you right, you don't cheat on them, that makes you look like an a-hole and you are then shunned in your perm relationship record. Girls talk man, and if you cheat, then people see you as a cheater. She might have been getting back at you, yes, but if you hadn't screwed yourself before, then there wouldn't have been a problem. Break it off instead of cheating next time, just word of advice. |
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Jul 3 2005, 07:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
If I said cheating was bad, I'd be a hypocrite. If I said cheating is good, I'd be lying.
I can't help you on this because I HAVE cheated.. and don't regret it. But, I'm not sure if I'd do it again, ya know? |
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Jul 3 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
your mean!.. but i shouldnt be talking...[i cheated on my bf before]
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Jul 3 2005, 10:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,037 |
cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone other than physically hurting them. stop it and just break up with her.
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Jul 3 2005, 10:49 PM
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Gahh, cheating is just plain hurtful to the person your with. Well, if she knew you were cheating they yea maybe its to get back at you, but if i were her..i would have broke up with you
 . However, if she's mean to you..which is just plain gay, then break up with her, if she doesn't think your good enough for her 
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Jul 4 2005, 12:27 AM
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 d@niel Group: Member Posts: 1,267 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,453 |
i dnt think she's trying to get 'revenge', but just telling you that she no longer wants to be with you. if she's mean, make a decision. wat do you want more?
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Jul 4 2005, 12:37 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
karma is all i gotta say
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Jul 4 2005, 12:48 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i think it's called karma. anyways, it is pretty easy. just say 'i dont think we're working out..' and just mention all the cheating issues and all.
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Jul 4 2005, 07:56 PM
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 :] Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 |
i think that you should jus break up with her like wat everyone is saying
cuz as far as i can tell is ur both treating each other like crap |
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Jul 5 2005, 11:28 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Cheating is definatly bad, and WHY are you all doing it?? geez....
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Jul 5 2005, 11:42 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Dump one of them and you won't have the load of guilt on your shoulders. I say get rid of the one that made out with someone other than you. You have a valid reason to break up with her. But do what you think is right. It's not easy, but right now is a good time to make some decisions for yourself and sort things out. You're in a really screwy mess right now. Straighten it out yourself!
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Jul 5 2005, 04:09 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
loll.. she knew you were cheating on her? if that was the case.. im surprised she never dumped you first. Then again, shes just as worse making out with some guy & going to L.A with them, but its just karma..
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Jul 5 2005, 09:14 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
forget her. unless its lyke sum1 u really like // looove???
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Jul 6 2005, 06:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 167,150 |
you've only gone out with this person for a month. i doubt its love.
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Jul 7 2005, 11:25 PM
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 Mr.Charismatic Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,383 |
CHEATING IS GOOoOOOOOOOOOD lol
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