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Do you think its wrong to be gay
meaganbabin
post Jun 29 2005, 10:47 PM
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I dont have any problem w/ it at all espically since i am a lesbian i date a gurl now for 7 months and i couldnt be more happier i dont understand y ppl. see it as such a big deal wink.gif
 
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jeSs1cA
post Jun 29 2005, 10:48 PM
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Aren't there other topics on this?

This thread seems so pointless to me.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 10:49 PM
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I personally won't be that way but I think everybody should be allowed to live how they want to, so long as they don't bother the other people. If you want to be a homosexual, then do it, for all I care.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 10:49 PM
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^^ there are alot.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 10:51 PM
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Yes there are alot of people like that and i dont see where it is soo bad either
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:05 PM
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embrace the beloved search button dear. there are many topics on this already.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...lite=homosexual
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:19 PM
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In my opinion it's not wrong to be gay, it's just wrong to act like you're special because of it.

It's not a big deal. It's only a big deal when you parade around like it is.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:27 PM
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i guess ppl arnt used to that sum 1 likes the same sex i hav no problem with it good job ;]
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:28 PM
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i guess ppl arnt used to that sum 1 likes the same sex i hav no problem with it good job ;]
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:28 PM
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well im posting this up because of a friend in the first place she is afraid about coming out and wat ppl. will think
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:29 PM
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my friend is gay, nothing is wrong with your sexual preference. some poeple just arent raised to tolerate everything. and i think this topic will get closed... soon.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:30 PM
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I'm fine with any and every sexuality.
It's not a problem with me.
I'm not straight, so I get that shit sometimes, and it doesn't feel good. I'm sure gay people get bullied worse, but still... it kind of hurts.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:37 PM
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I have gay and bi friends. It`s fine with me but then with other people, it can mean death. You have a right to have whichever sexual orientation you prefer, but most of this country is against it.
 
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post Jun 29 2005, 11:57 PM
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i dunno but to me everyone should just except ppl. for who they are no matter what they do or dont like you know wat i mean
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 12:11 AM
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YAH YAH YAH!!! BEING GAY IS SO... GAY!?!?!?!?!

no. love is about who you love, not what gender they are ^_^
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 12:15 AM
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QUOTE(jeSs1cA @ Jun 29 2005, 9:48 PM)
Aren't there other topics on this?

This thread seems so pointless to me.
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There a TON. Jeez, a mod should really close this because NOBODY CARES. rolleyes.gif

Btw, check the debate forum. AND EFFING USE THE SEARCH BUTTON. _smile.gif
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 12:26 AM
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Umm, this is a silly question. You should ask yourself that before you ask a bunch of strangers.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 12:27 AM
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QUOTE(miszSERENiTY @ Jun 30 2005, 1:26 AM)
Umm, this is a silly question. You should ask yourself that before you ask a bunch of strangers.
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umm i did ask my self that along time ago and no i dont think it is because i am but my friend wanted me to do this
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 12:28 AM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 29 2005, 10:15 PM)
Jeez, a mod should really close this because NOBODY CARES.  rolleyes.gif
... Tell that nobody cares to the thousands of homosexuals, and get back to me on that one.

This does, however, belong in debate; it's a matter of personal morals.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jun 29 2005, 11:28 PM)
... Tell that nobody cares to the thousands of homosexuals, and get back to me on that one.

This does, however, belong in debate; it's a matter of personal morals.
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Bah. I was refering to her 7-month relationship to her girlfriend and how she doesn't mind homosexuality. I'm not saying I don't care about the issues concerning homosexuality.
It's just, there are WAY too many topics on this and it annoys me. Tell me not to post if they annoy me, but I will anyway; otherwise, they'll never learn. Sorry about coming across rude.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 01:06 AM
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TOPIC MOVED TO INTERESTS > DEBATE
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 01:17 AM
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gay people are awesome. straight people suck.

sike. straight people are cool, too.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 01:30 AM
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This one is almost identical:
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...5&hl=homosexual.

Anyway, of course it's not wrong to be gay. What's "right" anyways? And even if someone was homophobic [i think that's the word] then they'd be crazy to say it here, they'd be flamed quicker than they could say "whoops."
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 05:25 AM
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post Jun 30 2005, 04:52 PM
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im all for it. im not a lesbian myself, but I really dont care.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 04:54 PM
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Morally I do, but I think everyone is entitled to thier own choice.
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 07:18 PM
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No, it is not wrong. Everyone is entitled to live life however they want to, whether it's with someone of the same sex or opposite. i don't understand why christians are soo against homosexuality....it's not like it's their problem! it doesn't even AFFECT them!
 
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post Jun 30 2005, 07:19 PM
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There isn't anything wrong with being something other than heterosexual. I just don't get some people. They automatically shut other people out if they're not heterosexual. Since when did that become the only "decent" or "accepted" sexuality? I realize that our bodies are made the way they are for a reason, but still...

Homosexual people and bisexual people have feelings too, you know. They're living and breathing people that deserve to be treated equally.

I think it's completely fine to be homosexual.
Diversity, my friends.
 
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post Feb 4 2006, 10:23 PM
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the people posting in this topic are all saying they're okay with it... but so many other people aren't.

but the ones who aren't are too afraid to post here...

I dont see why so many people are so prejudiced......

What's so wrong about a girl loving a girl or a guy loving a guy? Love is Love.
Why is it that in this country people would rather see two men holding guns than holding hands?

So many people use religion as an excuse to hate.
Jesus said to love your neighbor as your self. Not just to love your straight neighbor.

They say its a sin... they use that as their excuse to hate.
I disagree with the beliefs that think that way, but aside from that, everyone sins. Face it. That's no reason to hate
and isnt hating also a sin?

My friend just starting going out with her girlfriend and already many people are making negative remarks about it.
they dont say it to her face of course. they're too afraid to do that.
instead, they say it behind her back.

Why do so many people hate love?
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 01:42 AM
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QUOTE(meaganbabin @ Jun 30 2005, 12:28 AM)
well im posting this up because of a friend in the first place she is afraid about coming out and wat ppl. will think
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It's her life. She should make a decision based on her feelings and experiences. Seeking responses from an online forum is going to generate few, if any, quality responses because people are resopnding to such a fragmented view of this person's life. She should be listening to herself.
 
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post Feb 7 2006, 05:25 AM
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Call me a hate-monger if you will. However, know that you are mistaken. I do not hate anyone struggling with homosexual desires/tendencies or anyone else for that matter.

QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
What's so wrong about a girl loving a girl or a guy loving a guy? Love is Love.
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Why do so many people hate love?
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The topic is sexuality. Love is not sexuality. I love my friend Mark, though I am not sexually attracted to him.
QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
So many people use religion as an excuse to hate.
Jesus said to love your neighbor as your self. Not just to love your straight neighbor.
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Good point
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They say its a sin...
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If you mean God when you say "they", then yes God("they") says it is wrong.
QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
...they use that as their excuse to hate.
I disagree with the beliefs that think that way[...]
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I disagree with those who hate people too.
QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
but aside from that, everyone sins. Face it.
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There is a name for this argument. "Two wrongs make a right." It is a fallacy.
By the same logic any heinous act can be rationalized. ie Everybody sins so we shouldn't condemn ________(insert "sin"-murder, theft, etc.)
QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
and isnt hating also a sin?
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I would agree, but it is only through personal insight. This insight is available to anyone who desires it.
QUOTE(ursedonah @ Feb 4 2006, 8:23 PM)
Why is it that in this country people would rather see two men holding guns than holding hands?
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1. The right to keep and bear arms is protected under the constitution as a safeguard for all other rights. Firearms and the individual citizens' right to own them are symbols of liberty. Ironically, this includes the liberty to engage in abberrant sexual activity.
2. I challenge any heterosexual on this site to arouse themselves with a homosexual fantasy. I can't. I am disgusted by it. The knowledge that homosexuality is wrong is a priori for most. Hence most of the world acknowledges the incorrectness of homosexuality. As a very strong appetite sexuality evokes strong emotions.

This is the easiest way to understand why it is wrong:
Very few people on the absolute fringes of society would argue against this statement, "Pedophilia is absolutely wrong." Why is pedophilia wrong? It is abberant sexual behavior. In the interest of space I don't mention any other sex perversions, but they are included. The pedophile may have tendencies/desires to engage in sexual activity with young people as homosexuals have desires/tendencies toward those of the same sex. Is it wrong to have these desires? No. Is it wrong to ACT on these tendencies? YES! The same argument that took homosexuality out of the DSM IV can be used for pedophilia.

PS I used ursedonah's post to try to answer all questions regarding why homosexuality is immoral. Please ask me questions so I may clarify my position.

Edit: I don't think homosexuality should be illegal. I do believe it to be immoral. People should be allowed to exercise their agency.
 
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QUOTE(SideStraddleHop @ Feb 7 2006, 5:25 AM)
This is the easiest way to understand why it is wrong:
Very few people on the absolute fringes of society would argue against this statement, "Pedophilia is absolutely wrong." Why is pedophilia wrong? It is abberant sexual behavior. In the interest of space I don't mention any other sex perversions, but they are included. The pedophile may have tendencies/desires to engage in sexual activity with young people as homosexuals have desires/tendencies toward those of the same sex. Is it wrong to have these desires? No. Is it wrong to ACT on these tendencies? YES! The same argument that took homosexuality out of the DSM IV can be used for pedophilia.
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Pedophilia and homosexuality are two completely different things. Pedophilia is not merely acting on an "aberrant" sexual desire; it's forcing someone else to act on that desire, too. It's taking advantage of someone, in this case a child—someone who is easy to take advantage of.

Assuming a homosexual act is consensual, and both participants are adults, then the situation is completely different—two people are willingly engaging in an activity. No one is being taken advantage of. (If it's not a consensual act, then of course the act clearly falls under the definition of rape, which is again a different point altogether.)

You see the difference: Pedophilia is not wrong because of the mentality, but because one is taking advantage of a person for sexual or other gain. This is not the same as a consensual homosexual relationship.
 

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