Don't you just hate. . ., click! |
 Jun 28 2005, 04:27 PM
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 Life's random. . .  Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,977  |
Don't you just hate the silent treatment? When your friend gets mad at you and stops talking to you and just ignores you? That just pisses me off and makes me sad. It gets me depressed for weaks.
Discuss. [jerry] |
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| *Azarel* |
Jun 28 2005, 04:30 PM
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... I do that.
 With reason, of course.
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Jun 28 2005, 04:31 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I don't do that, I talk about it. And if I don't want to then I tell them.
But I don't like getting it>_< |
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Jun 28 2005, 04:37 PM
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my friend did that to me a few times before in the past. it's mostly because they just need awhile to cool down about what happened, but we eventually talk it out somehow and i guess everything usually works out in the end. it does make me sad though because it hurts knowing that they just couldn't come to me-- since they mostly go to other people to discuss the situation first. i'd rather have them come to me first but it's alright if they ask someone for a little help i suppose...
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Jun 28 2005, 04:38 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
Yes, especially when you don't know what the reason was in the first place. Of course, you can't talk to them, because they're giving you the silent treatment. Ah, the torture.
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Jun 28 2005, 05:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 726 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,137 |
who doesn't hate it? although, i admit, i have done it a few times before. but i've changed. those were elementary school days.
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Jun 28 2005, 05:58 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
Yeah I have done that, we still haven't talked.
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Jun 28 2005, 06:12 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't associate with people who do that anymore, it's so immature, especially since it's something stupid or something that's really their fault
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Jun 28 2005, 07:08 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jun 28 2005, 5:12 PM) i don't associate with people who do that anymore, it's so immature, especially since it's something stupid or something that's really their fault  Totally. Actually this has never happened to me because I probably don't want to talk to them anyway. Or I'm the one who gives others the silent treatment. 
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Jun 28 2005, 08:56 PM
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of course.. to me, i dont care b/c it shows that they're immature to handle a little problem in there long living life
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Jun 28 2005, 08:57 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
I'm not physically able to pull off a silent treatment for my life. But when other immature idiots give me the silent treatment I smack them. Violence solves everything!! Ok, that was one time! I usually end up having to talk through a chain of friends to stop the silent treatment.
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Jun 28 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
They're usually waiting for you to say sorry.
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Jun 28 2005, 10:19 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
my friend did that to me for about a month.
i guess she thought i "stole" two of her friends. after a while, she started to warm up to me. i don't know whether to fully trust her now, but i'm trying my best. yeah, the silent treatment is never good. for Christ's sakes, just be direct and tell others what problem you have against them. |
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Jun 29 2005, 12:09 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jun 29 2005, 11:16 AM) They're usually waiting for you to say sorry. Agreed. At least that's what i'm doing when i give silent treatment..
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Jun 29 2005, 12:12 AM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Erh... I don't do the silent treatment... but if it's a really big thing to be mad about, I'll cuss alot and get pissed off.
Then I try to talk it out. -.-;; |
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Jun 29 2005, 09:31 AM
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 Sugar, We're Goin' Down. Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,644 |
Lol. Silent treatment sucks. But talking is better to do than that.
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Jun 29 2005, 12:21 PM
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 Para ti... Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,983 |
i hate wen my friends do tht
and wen i try and ask them wats wrong they say nutin or juss ignores it makes me mad cause its annoyin as hell but also cause it seems like i wont be able to help and make them happy |
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Jun 29 2005, 12:47 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Silent Treatement. Ugh. That's like torture on a stick. IT SUCKS! I never give that, well, i can't. I can't not talk to someone. It's weird. But i hate it when ppl do it to me. Especially for no good reason.
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Jun 29 2005, 01:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
mmm..yeah same here...but only once tho...
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Jun 29 2005, 03:14 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
yeah i hate it effing whores!
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Jun 29 2005, 06:45 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well i give people silent treatments, but yeah i hate it when my friends do it to me for no reason. like my ex, he always did that to me.. and when i finally do talk to him and ask him, he's just like 'oh i wanted to know what it feels like avoiding you, not having you didnt feel much different. '
biznatch. |
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Jun 29 2005, 08:04 PM
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 // blue flying alienated cow Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 161,866 |
No, because they piss me off more.
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Jun 29 2005, 08:25 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
I've done it once to a friend, but that was because I tried talking to her so many times, yet still, she wouldn't stop being so rude, annoying, mean, etc. So I did it, and since I was one of her only friends, she came back to me. Hey, no one's going to be perfect, but I started talking to her again, and she was a lot nicer. I'm not saying I'm the only one who's right though. I just think the silent treatment should only be used when you've already tried talking to him/her.
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Jun 30 2005, 12:03 AM
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 Yates Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150 |
yeah. i agree. silent treatment is the worste. i hate it because then you dont know what you did wrong. then you have to write notes to eachother, which is so dumb because you can talk much faster than writing notes. too bad friends arent perfect.
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Jun 30 2005, 12:10 AM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
I hate the silent treatment but I actually think it's better than if they respond. >_>;;;
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Jun 30 2005, 04:09 PM
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 Rock Music Enthusiast Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,803 |
silent treatment is retarded, gets you no where. I would know because I've done it in the past and all it causes is hurt.
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Jun 30 2005, 04:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Yeah. i do that to my friends more often cuz i have shitty friends and i dont give a shit about them. They're so stupid. Let them died.
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| *danielle_x3* |
Jun 30 2005, 05:57 PM
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my friend is giving me the silent treatment right now :( i don't even know what i did. whenever i'd try to talk to him, he'd just look away, or even walk away. i'd try not to think about it >_<
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Jun 30 2005, 06:41 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
i dont care. i have plenty of other friends i can talk with. unless that person if like my bff. then i would talk to her and my bff is not the kind of person who would ignore me.
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Jul 1 2005, 09:05 AM
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 BiGdRaGoN31 Group: Member Posts: 463 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,585 |
it can be good and effective if used properly :)
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