Fall for another guy? wEn u've been wid him/her..., for more than 6 months? Options

[c4rL4]

Ive been with this guy named Don.. for bout 6 months now.. goin to be 7 months on july 1st.. But wat if u easily fall for guys.. and hes just right there.. and ur startin to hav feelings for him.. What do you do? I love don .. so much.. i cant see myself wid a different person.. but these feelings.. I dont want them.. I want to avoid them.. but .. when im on Aim.. Hes just right there.. wantin to talk to me..

B4 this dude that likes me went to japan..
I hanged out wid him the day b4.. and i was wid don also cuz their frenz..
But b4 don came.. This guy that likes me seemed so happi..
but when don came.. he just all of sudden became sad..
B4 don came.. he was all flirtin wid me..
Even if don was also there, he was still flirting wid me..
I know hes a player cuz his friends say so..
He also has feelings for me n my bestfriend..
But i dont know wat to do..

All of a sudden.. when we were crossing the street wen don was there wid us..
I was talkin to the guy and he was tellin me things...
And wen were done talkin..
i went to Don.. And he sed "done flirting?"
I got mad.. but i was thinkn if i reali was..
My friends say im a flirt at time wen i dont notice it..

Now the guy is bak frum japan..
Hez talkin to me..
Flirtin wid me in ways..
i just dont know wat 2 do..
I reallie love don..
but dont know wat to do.. any1 can help me please??

2 DON! If u ever read this.............. I LOVE U.. in ways.. i am confused..
but that doesnt mean my feelings for u hav changed..

[topsyturvy]

First things first: please learn to type in sentences, which include commas and periods.

Now, maybe you should consider staying away from "that guy". Sure, he flirts with you, but then again, could he have flirt with you if you weren't there? "That guy" might be a really nice person and not deserve to be told off, but you have to show him the fine line between flirting and friendly chatter.

DO SOMETHING BEFORE YOU LOSE DON'S TRUST. Good lord.

[c4rL4]

Sorrie if im weird..
>____________<
Just got a lot of probz..
Thanx for the advice..

[aznhunnie6o1]

Try to spell correctly....

Uh... Tell "that guy" that you have a boyfriend that you love and care for and you dont have feelings for him the way he has for you.

[_sarcastic_]

i don't think you deserve any of them, you claim that you 'love' don and yet you're still flirting with this guy maybe you just don't notice it. but if you don't want anything to happen with you and Don, stay away from that guy

[_suzie_]

u shouldnt b flirtin with someone else if ur ina relationship. u say u love don. does he make u happy? if so stay with him and get over it. people walk into ur life and walk back out. but u dont always get someone u can love and trust.

measure ur feelings. u say u love don. does he love you back? whats the situation?
etc. Id say dont throw away what u have with Don over ''that guy''

[LoST SouL]

look... ive been in this situation too many times before.. and from my experiences i have learned that if you fall for someone else when you claim to love the person you are currently with.. u don't love them as much as you think you do.. im sorry

[Chii]

tell This Guy to leave you alone. tell him that you have a boyfriend and you don't like it how he keeps flirting with you. you can still be friends but the flirting seems to make you uncomfortable.


don't worry...we all get confused sometimes about feelings and life. we're all young and still trying to find out who we are.

think it through though, do you truly love don? what does "love" mean to you anyway? is it just a word you use to cover up infatuation or something you use for status? or is it something more, like when you think of him or look at him and you know that it's love?

either way, it's not the end of the world...maybe don isn't "the one" maybe That Guy isn't either...maybe you'll find "the one" when you're 30. who knows, don't stress about it too much.