I don't know what to do.., . |
 Jun 25 2005, 11:51 PM
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 step on my flag, I step on your face =]  Group: Member Posts: 96 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,697  |
ok, so ive been going out with my BF for almost 7 months now, and im confused on what to do...the thing is he hasnt kissed me (or shown really any other form of affection) in like....more than 1 month
 and iono why. For some reason i just cant talk/ask him about it. I kinda feel like i need to find the right time to talk to him about it, but I havent so far. Sometimes i feel like if he doesnt show affection then maybe he doesnt like me anymore. It really bothers me because I still really like him, and he's also my first boyfriend so i dont have much experience with these things... To make matters worse he's really busy this summer, so im hardly going to see him at all over break. I dont know what to do...So I guess I just wanted to know if guys had any advice or an explanation to why he might be acting differently. 
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Jun 26 2005, 12:10 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
with guys, after they know that they've "got you" then they usually find no need to try to woo you more. you know, after the first few months when there's a lot of hugging and kissing, then it dwindles down to practically nothing. for some reason, men don't realize that women would like to be affectionate most of the time...
it's common, and usually no big deal but you should definately talk to him about it. |
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Jun 26 2005, 12:16 AM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Might just have something bugging him. I wierd out when I feel really stressed and cut myself off from almost everyone.
See if something is wrong ^_^ |
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Jun 26 2005, 12:29 AM
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 tk prt yr hd Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 |
Yah, talking to him would be the first thing, as for me I never get sick of being with her or anything...
Hrrmm Talk to him, maybe there's someithng more to it. |
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Jun 26 2005, 01:19 AM
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Hydro Azn Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,718 |
Chii is right.
Sometimes...guys just dont remain sweet or affectionate when they are with the girl that they want. Have u like..tried kissing him first? Just speak up for urself, u deserve to know whats up with him. |
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Jun 26 2005, 08:29 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
maybe he has something in his mind, talk to him. have you tried making the first move of kissing him, if not give it a shot, maybe he's just waiting for youto do so
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Jun 26 2005, 10:04 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Agree. Some guys are just naturally more shy
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Jun 26 2005, 10:39 AM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
yeah hes probably shy,. go talk to him first adn see what he says
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Jun 26 2005, 11:23 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
This is where the term Communication in a relationship comes in...
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Jun 26 2005, 11:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
hold his hand first....and look into his eyes and see if he'll make a move and if he doesn't he probably clueless or not into you
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Jun 26 2005, 12:25 PM
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Maybe he waiting for the right time to do it. You should just tell him about it.
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Jun 26 2005, 02:46 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
If he doesn't show affection, pucker up and do it yourself, silly! Take things into your own hands, or lips. lol.
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Jun 26 2005, 03:07 PM
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The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Well, I don't have any experiance with it.
But, I can rightfully assume if you look straight into his eyes with question. You'll get your answer. (If you make sense of that) |
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Jun 26 2005, 03:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
tell him... me and my ex had the same experience, like the 2nd week after we got together... we both wanted to do something! so we both told each other in a odd way, in the end, it turned out good, but we supposly broke up [whole other story]
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Jun 26 2005, 05:25 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jun 26 2005, 12:23 PM) This is where the term Communication in a relationship comes in...  i agree talk to him, tell him what's on your mind, maybe try making the first move. |
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