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 Jun 22 2005, 08:57 PM
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ok well there is this guy lets call him bob. well bob is a year older than us (me n my friends) but he hangs out with us cause his best friend is going out with my friend. ok so i like bob and he said that he didnt really know me that well so i asked bob"bob do u think if u got 2 know me better there will be a chance between u and me" and bob goes " i dunno maybe" well i dont know what to do like i really really like him and ive liked him for a while. any advice?"
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Jun 22 2005, 09:10 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
As hard as it may seem, just wait. If he doesn't know you that well then give him time to let him get to know you. When he gets to know you better then there will be more of a chance of you guys going out, or whatever you want to happen.
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Jun 22 2005, 10:05 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
^ I agree, wait.
Getting to know "bob" is far more important. Whether you like him or not, you still have to get to know the person. Like he said himself, "maybe," is that chance you'll get. If you get to know him and make sure he gets to know you, too, then you two may have something there. let's not forget he's a year older than you. You two should have many differences because of age differences. Um, yeah.. I suggest you wait and know him more incase you ask him out too early. When the time comes, you'll know it's ready. |
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Jun 22 2005, 11:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Obviously, you get to know him better.
Don't make a huge deal about it, but don't act like he doesn't exist either. Ask him questions when you're curious about something, and spend time talking to him when you have no one you'd rather talk to. |
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Jun 23 2005, 01:52 AM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
Well, of course, you wait and let him get to know you better. The best thing in life are worth the wait. But, I must ask, do you not have any friends that could tell you this so you have to ask people over the internet? Or do you not want your friends to know you like "bob"? Oh, and another bit of advice, don't rush into things. Let them take their time. You could find out maybe he isn't right for you after all once you two get to know each other better.
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Jun 23 2005, 09:12 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
hmm... wait. it will come to you. and dont be all "do we know each other well enough yet?" if he wants to go out, he will show signs.
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Jun 23 2005, 09:12 AM
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QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Jun 22 2005, 11:05 PM) ^ I agree, wait. Getting to know "bob" is far more important. Whether you like him or not, you still have to get to know the person. Like he said himself, "maybe," is that chance you'll get. If you get to know him and make sure he gets to know you, too, then you two may have something there. let's not forget he's a year older than you. You two should have many differences because of age differences. Um, yeah.. I suggest you wait and know him more incase you ask him out too early. When the time comes, you'll know it's ready.  yea that way you'll be sure if you want to be in a relationship with him |
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Jun 23 2005, 09:31 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
You can't have a successful relationship without having a friendship first. That's how you can analyze all his aspects and know for sure if he'd make a good boyfriend. Don't rush things or they'll turn out sour.
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Jun 23 2005, 02:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,643 |
how do i get to know him better?
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Jun 23 2005, 02:45 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
just be friends && like you're already hanging out so use that as a way to get to know him better
may be get his number and call once in awhile eventually after you guys get pretty close, ask for you two to hang out alone doing something you both will like well you never know |
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Jun 23 2005, 06:05 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
be friends while getting to know eachother. make your move when you know a lot more about him and he knows more about you.
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Jun 23 2005, 07:28 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
You can get to know him by just saying hi and being friendly and open. Simple as that.
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Jun 23 2005, 08:46 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
get to know him better. lols that's obvious. spend time with him more. and let him know you're interested but dont freak him out
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