Ever had a time, when you sensed that... |
| *iNyCxShoRT* |
 Jun 22 2005, 04:34 PM
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Have you ever had a time when you sensed that your friends started to dislike having you around, or being your friend? You know, that feeling you get when nothing you do ever seemed to be good enough for them. No matter how hard you try, they still have a problem =\
Can any of you relate? If so, what are the signs. Example of "The way they might talk differently" or "Body language" would help greatly. |
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Jun 22 2005, 04:56 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA.  Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
My friends started ditching me. They never ditched me before.
 
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 22 2005, 05:34 PM
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^ =( oh I'm sorry to here that
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Jun 22 2005, 05:57 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols...well....it happens sometimes...but one time i just started hanging out with new people because i wanted to meet new people and stuff..and a few days later my old friends whom i still talked to occasionally wrote me a letter saying that they didnt want to be friends with me anymore....but uhh...i was already hanging out with new friends
 lols....i guess they start ignoring you and stuff.... 
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 22 2005, 06:43 PM
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^ Oh man, that sounds terrible =\ just cause you wanted to meet new people huh?
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Jun 22 2005, 06:51 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
yes. they start ignoring me. i hear them talking shit. or they just totally dont talk to me.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 22 2005, 07:22 PM
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^ mmm...I hear ya, I hope I'm not one of them x__X
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Jun 22 2005, 07:23 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
they grew apart from me, like i don't seem to know them anymore. or secrets they don't tell me, i find out myself. well that ws last time, we're good now
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 22 2005, 07:36 PM
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^ yeah I went through that too
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Jun 22 2005, 07:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
That happened when some bitchy girl tried to take them away. But in the end she lost and they hated her and became my friend again! :D Yay! By the way, I was born on the same day you were, if you were born on July 3rd and not 4th.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 22 2005, 07:42 PM
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^ Ahaha nice, and cool we have the same bdays!
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Jun 22 2005, 07:43 PM
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 No Day But Today. Group: Member Posts: 1,405 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,184 |
It's never happened to me personally but I am friends with 2 other people and we used to hang out ALL the time in middle school...then when we entered high school, one of the friends started getting annoyed of the other friend and I was stuck in the middle..
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 23 2005, 07:08 PM
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^ oh i hate when that happens, it's best if you don't take any sides at all.
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Jun 24 2005, 10:07 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
QUOTE My friends started ditching me. They never ditched me before. I could relate. When I was in third grade, this girl Janette told me to ditch my other very best friend, and told everyone else in our group to ditch her, too. I didn't do it though. That's just plain mean. 
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Jun 25 2005, 12:35 AM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I can detect a negative vib floating throughout our bubble. When they make excuses or when you walk up and they're talking about something and you ask what? and they say nothing..yea..big clue right there I guess.
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Jun 25 2005, 12:39 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,148 |
Yes, when I was younger she always take advantage of me, I was so naive. She told me if you don't move from that seat I wouldn't be your friend no more. So I move so she can sit next to her formal best friend. We always talk to eachother but end up in fighting. So we seperated I still remember her name..
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Jun 25 2005, 10:06 AM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
they just ignore me.. ><
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Jun 25 2005, 02:05 PM
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well sumtimes i got da feeling dat they all just got tired of me...i onno y tho... and like ignored me sumtimes...and like sumtimes would talk to me... but most of da time...i think they're annoyed at me..... fo sum reason... =/
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Jun 25 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Oh yeah... all the time.
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Jun 25 2005, 03:48 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Ha, I spent 2 years studying people (Long story) I learned out body language and voice paterns to the point of where I would be able to predict people.
Naturally, we pick up vibs, it's wired into our brains already. Some of us just enhance that more and are a little better at it than others. We also have glitches and bumps that give us a vauge sense of paranoia. this sense will make us create problems like that in our head. *Stops being all deep and scientifical* Yes, I reckon I have. |
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Jun 25 2005, 08:15 PM
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 Bonjour Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,449 |
yeah I get what you mean, I think their just doing it because they are having a bad day and don't feel like talking, or they just need to be independant and alone sometimes.
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Jun 25 2005, 08:48 PM
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Yes. That's why I don't talk to them much anymore. They suck.
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Jun 25 2005, 08:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Thats me. i hate my friends (not all of them)
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Jun 26 2005, 12:01 AM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
they leave you out, make plans with everyone except you, avoid you, etc. you know..the obvious
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Jun 26 2005, 01:29 AM
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Hydro Azn Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,718 |
Yeah, when they look at u...stare at u for 2 seconds andnot say anything and just look away....mmmhmmm
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Jun 26 2005, 03:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
yeh... but rarely .. if they did have that kind of feeling, i wouldnt really care, although they're my friends, im very independent, i dont really share my feelings out to them [like my personal problems] unless they asked... so it doesnt really matter [p.s. i have alot of friends]
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Jun 26 2005, 03:50 PM
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 me likes! ^^ Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,729 |
They leave you out and talk in low voices so when you ask them whats going on, they immediately stop and say nothing.
You can sorta tell when you ask them something and they don't respond/take a long time to respond/ or just give you these really crappy answers The most obvious one I think is when they start avoiding you or just leave you in in group activities or they just turn their back to you or ditch you It really sucks to be the one who's being ignored
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Jun 26 2005, 03:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,292 |
I don't think I've really had that problem... well kinda.... let me explain, I don't really affiliate myself with any clicks or anything and basically hang out with as many ppl as I can and sometimes sure some of my friends don't want to hang out or ditch me or wtv... but thats ok I always have friends from other places and I also have some friends that never ditch me... some of them always wants to hang out... so i don't think I've ever felt ditched by my friends.... well atleast not all of them... and does that don't ever ditch me are my true friends... so its ok
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