"friends with benifits", [how ever you spell it] |
 Jun 21 2005, 05:42 PM
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do you think its right to be friends [with benefits] with your ex
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Jun 21 2005, 05:45 PM
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Yeah, it's "benefits". And no I don't think it's right. He's your ex for a reason. If you like him again might as well get with him, and not just use each other for some ass.
'scuse me, just wanted to say that. xD |
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Jun 21 2005, 05:52 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
QUOTE(hyperchick @ Jun 21 2005, 3:45 PM) Yeah, it's "benefits". And no I don't think it's right. He's your ex for a reason. If you like him again might as well get with him, and not just use each other for some ass. 'scuse me, just wanted to say that. xD  i agree... i think with ex's its best to be friends and JUST that. otherwise one of you might get the wrong idea again and get hurt 
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Jun 21 2005, 06:02 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with Kim, you might as well go back together if you want to be friends with benefits. but you guys broke up why do you want to go back together as friends with benefits. just becareful and don't get too attached
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Jun 21 2005, 07:32 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
NO NO NO NO NO! With an ex????? Oh God no. You're asking for trouble if you follow through with it.
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Jun 21 2005, 07:36 PM
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Haha No, why would you, well, if you wanna be friends then go ahead.. But then you'll gain that feeling that you like him again..then everything will hapen again..with you ending hurt.
  AND who would want that? Personally, You broke up for a reason.. just keep it that way.. 
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Jun 21 2005, 07:43 PM
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If you both are mature enough to handle that type pf relationship, then yes. Not everyone can handle it though.
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Jun 21 2005, 07:53 PM
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 i have a cut that no bandage or medicine can cure.... Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,746 |
i agree somewhat
screw who ever u want just try not to screw ur ex cuz then things get weird... just tought ud want to know |
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Jun 21 2005, 07:58 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
It's like that episode of Friends! With Monica and ..Richard? Idk..that dude that she used to go out with but then they broke up because he didn't want to have kids..
Ahem. No, it's totally wrong. It's your EX..I mean..please..you dumped him for a reason..you don't need to go back .. |
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Jun 21 2005, 10:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,611 |
i have a friend with benefits. its not so bad. the only time when it becomes a problem is when feelings get in the way. if you can keep them under control, then go for it. who knows, you guys might acually realize that you never fell out of love in the first place and were just both scared of commitment or something...i dont know if that makes sense or not but i swear it sounded better in my head.
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Jun 21 2005, 10:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
i guess its okay...?
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