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 Jun 17 2005, 08:33 AM
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would you go with a guy you've been with for almost 2 month?jut a question...
thankx! 
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Jun 17 2005, 09:16 AM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
eh....I guess that depends on how you feel about such things.
The first person I had...intimate relations with, it was about 2 months. I'm not going to say I regret it, but it wasn't the smartest thing I've ever done. Ultimately, its up to you, but I suggest you think long and hard about it. If you want to throw random ideas at someone in private, feel free to message me. I'm an easy target for thrown things. ^.^ |
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Jun 17 2005, 09:20 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
depends on how trusting u are of each other and how willing the two of u are. if you feel definite about ur relationship and that u know what you're doing, then whatever. if you know that you trust him and that you both aren't just acting on stupid hormones and shtuff, then whatever.
*mraow* |
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Jun 17 2005, 09:20 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Agree. There shouldn't be time limits for relationships.. things just happen. Don't push it.
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Jun 17 2005, 12:24 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Jun 17 2005, 9:20 AM) depends on how trusting u are of each other and how willing the two of u are. if you feel definite about ur relationship and that u know what you're doing, then whatever. if you know that you trust him and that you both aren't just acting on stupid hormones and shtuff, then whatever. *mraow*  agreed. you should feel comfortable with whatever you're gonna do with him, there isn't a specific time on when things happen, they just do. just as long as you trust him |
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Jun 17 2005, 12:40 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Go as far as you are comfortable with. Don't let him push you into things or you push yourself in order to please him.
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Jun 17 2005, 12:40 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
^ What ever you act on, will decide. If you act on your hormones, your setting yourself up most of the time.
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Jun 17 2005, 04:08 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
i would think it depends on how long uve known them...not how long uve been together. do i dunno?
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Jun 17 2005, 04:17 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
no, not realy ;x
how long have you known him though? |
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Jun 17 2005, 04:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, it depends on how comfortable you feel with him, and how much you two trust each other. It doesn't really matter how long it it, just as long as you trust each other.
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Jun 17 2005, 05:38 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
If you're comfortable with him [completely], if you can fart in front of him without blushing, if you can tell him you need to go to the bathroom because your pad is wet, if you trust him completely... then... sure.
CONDOM! |
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Jun 17 2005, 08:46 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
depends...
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Jun 17 2005, 09:04 PM
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Perhaps holding hands? I like taking it slow, kinda like my friends relationship.
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Jun 18 2005, 08:04 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I go w/ the flow, in a relationship.
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Jun 18 2005, 05:29 PM
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so you're asking would i?
heyyyyyylllllll no.  for abstinence!
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Jun 18 2005, 05:52 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
depends on the situation. depends if you wanna risk losing a friendship if your relationship falls into pieces...its a gamble
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Jun 19 2005, 09:06 PM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
i think the question was how far would you go in that time. and for me it would just be making out and such, because im just not that into that kinda stuff. but hey do what you want.
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Jun 19 2005, 09:08 PM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
im 13... so i couldnt answer it... but from a guys view... the farthers i would go with a girl maybe after two months... not sure... If i answer it, it might look strange lol cause im 13... ya use ur ImAgInAtIoN ugg.. I hate writing like that its so annoying. But I would want to makeout but ive never made out b 4 >_<
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Jun 20 2005, 09:56 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jun 17 2005, 9:20 AM) ^ Agree. There shouldn't be time limits for relationships.. things just happen. Don't push it. exactly. |
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Jun 20 2005, 10:22 AM
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 bitch in a g-string Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,567 |
QUOTE(endura88 @ Jun 17 2005, 2:33 PM) would you go with a guy you've been with for almost 2 month?jut a question... thankx! You don't mention your age, or his. This is important as the older you get, generally the more experienced in life you get. I will guess that you're about 14. If you have already experimented and are comfortable with it and are not under pressure from him to screw, then you're probably ready. Just take it real slow and relax if it's your first time. Just do not have any regrets after and make very sure that whoever you tell isn't going to spread around that you're a slapper or a skank. Mssg me if you want to go private on this hun. Good luck otherwise. |
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Jun 20 2005, 11:39 AM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
Just remember that sex is like a magnifying glass. It can do one of two things - it can point out how much you love one another, or it can show every little flaw in your relationship.
Two months is a bit fast, IMO, but that's just me, and I don't know your situation. I'd just go with what feels right. If you want to and you truly think you're responsible enough to handle all of the side effects that come with it, go ahead. Just be smart about it. Don't be like so many naive girls who think they've found someone, and end up getting hurt because the guy's really a jackass. Be smart about it. |
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Jun 20 2005, 12:37 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(helenababe888 @ Jun 20 2005, 11:22 AM) You don't mention your age, or his. This is important as the older you get, generally the more experienced in life you get. I will guess that you're about 14. If you have already experimented and are comfortable with it and are not under pressure from him to screw, then you're probably ready. Just take it real slow and relax if it's your first time. Just do not have any regrets after and make very sure that whoever you tell isn't going to spread around that you're a slapper or a skank. Mssg me if you want to go private on this hun. Good luck otherwise. 2 signs: a. first off, her sn is endura88. '88, as in the year 1988. b. second, look at her proifle. 13 October 1988. that's her bday. so that means she's 16, going to be 17. penny for ur thoughts. |
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Jun 21 2005, 01:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,680 |
thankx for the reply everybody i mean i dont want to have sex no not at all for now...i just wanna knoe LoL im not 14 im turning 17 thankx anyways! :)
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