My best friend, gets on my nerves |
 Jun 15 2005, 07:45 AM
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 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774  |
Ok here's this thing. My best friend may seem the same as me but really we're really different people and have different personalities. It's not like really serious or something but I just feel so annoyed by her.
Sometimes it's like I'm ditched or something. She's sooooo competitive in every single thing..I mean, she can go on and on about her sports and achedemic results and just be like, so obsessed about it that she doesn't have fun like everyone else. I tried to tell her but she's just like ignoring that. I don't see why you have to devote yourself to be so perfect all the time. It's like she's completely using me as a..listener. Yes, I don't mind being a good friend and listen. But come on. Does she really have to talk about the same thing over and over again?? Another thing is that she copies me all the time. I started drawing this sorta picture...and a lotta people gave me positive comments on it and she just decided she'll copy the picture and do the same...except it sorta looks...weirder. BUT IT WAS MY IDEA. I feel cheated sometimes, you know? Like I created this whole artwork and somebody stole it. It's like that. I mean I really wanna work this out I just don't know how. Please help me 
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Jun 15 2005, 10:44 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
oh ive had that before. maybe you should drop hints, or do it back to her. or just talk to her.
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Jun 15 2005, 12:12 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
If talking to her doesn't work..you can always turn to the good old pen or typewriter.
What I'm saying is..WRITE to her. Write a letter or an email..and tell her all that you feel. She can't ignore that. Good luck with it. |
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Jun 15 2005, 12:13 PM
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 Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515 |
yeah dude seriously talk to her if she is truly yo bf she will listen to u
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Jun 15 2005, 12:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,214 |
Ask her why she copied your art thingy.
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Jun 15 2005, 04:00 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
You should sit and talk to her about why you don't like her that much .. like why she copies you all the time and blah ~~ or maybe just don't be her friend at all.. i doubt she is that sort of a good friend.
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Jun 15 2005, 06:07 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
hmms.. she doesnt seem like such a best friend to me.
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Jun 17 2005, 09:45 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Took the words straight outta my mouth. You go, girl.
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Jun 17 2005, 05:33 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
Just send her this topic, tell her you wrote it, and tell her to read it.
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Jun 17 2005, 06:11 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
I have a situation like this..only my friend is loud, bossy, kinda snobby, yearns for attention, and owes 14 dollars....and I haven't done a thing about it. It aggrivates me, but I'm too chicken to do anything.
I think you should write to her. Give her the silent treatment and make sure she knows that you wont listen to her until she listens to you. |
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