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 Apr 14 2004, 09:47 PM
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 Mr.Politicly Incorrect  Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 8,405  |
It started a few months ago....in January...My gf wanted a "break"...so i figure its her way of nicely trying to end everything...well bout 2 weeks after we started our "break" i developed feelings for one of my teamates sisters(who is also a good friend).....the week of Valentines Day well that day..i told her i had feelings for her...she had the same feelings for me....so that whole we we talked and hung out and stuff....well she then got back with her bf...and my gf said she wanted to be back with me because this other guy hurt her bad during that month...so i got back with her....well for about a month it was on and off with me and her and i still had feelings for this other girl...me and my gf are now broken up permenantly...thankfully...and the other girl told me that her and her bf where having problems but that she wanted to see if nething could happen with another guy...so i lost all hope of being with nebody netime soon...so i began to look and just let life go on...well a few weeks ago i started talkin more with my friend Krissy's younger sister....and i started to like her alot...and i found out that the other girl still likes me and is now tryin to leave her bf for something....so after talkin to her she tells me she is goin to the mall with him and things are all good with him right now(i never asked what bout me and her) and later i told my friends sister i liked her...that went down the drain....so now once again in my life im lost....i dont kno what to do ne more everytime i have feelings for someone and tell them i get hurt...should i even bother looking ne more?????
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Apr 14 2004, 09:57 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
hmm...
this reminds me of my friend... he went out with a different girl every month...sad right..?i was starting to think he was mindless and taking actions without thinking of possibilities... i know he was better than that... what i think is...you are attracted to these girls...but what else is...i don`t really think they`re being honest with you.. some girls have different motives...along with guys.. you should look for more girls...but don`t get too intimate with them...don`t give your all...because some people can be blinded...just relax...and take it slow...don`t rush into things like love... we, girls, need to make up our minds... 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:14 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
QUOTE what i think is...you are attracted to these girls...but what else is...i don`t really think they`re being honest with you.. some girls have different motives...along with guys.. you should look for more girls...but don`t get too intimate with them...don`t give your all...because some people can be blinded...just relax...and take it slow...don`t rush into things like love... we, girls, need to make up our minds... omg i totally agree with mariel!!! u should probably take a break from ur girls and see what u really want. cuz it sounds like ur really confused. and confusion is such a bad feeling to have.  jackie
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Apr 14 2004, 10:19 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
omg ur love life is soooooooooooooo complicated! im so sorry about ur love life...dangs...thats one messed up part..dang... feel sorry for u for sure... ay... wow thats a lot of girls...who had feelings for u, but then went back to the person they liked long time ago...dang....lols u kno... they prolly was jus using u...jus to comfort them... so dont think that they liked u...cus how i was thinkin while reading this...it seems like they didnt like u at all..jus using u.... i mean if she liked u.... she wouldnt go back to the person that she liked long time ago... so all the girls that u liked was jus using u... i kno that was kinda mean wat i said...but it's true... i kno it's hard to believe.... but im kinda tellin' da truth...heh...im not one of da girls...but i jus kno...cus almost all my friends has went through this stuff...and it was the same reason... heh yeah...so wat i wuld tell u... to do is... try and wait.... heh thats wat my friend did.... ay THIS IS SO HARD! lols...haha...complicated fo' sho...hmm... if i try to think hard more...i'll tell u...lols
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Apr 14 2004, 10:24 PM
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Haha, you fall to easily for girls, eh? Well are you sure you don't like them just because they said they like you? Or ask yourself "Why do I like them? What quality do they possess that makes me like them?" and see if you can come up with a good answer.
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Apr 14 2004, 10:29 PM
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Mr.Politicly Incorrect Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 8,405 |
yeah your right i fall for girls really easy...its beacuse i usuallt tend to fall for them if i can trust them....all of which i do....and i can talk to them bout stuff.....but when i open up i get hurt....
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Apr 14 2004, 10:32 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
^ agreed with seonho.
also agreed with mariel.  awesomeness. anyways~~~my advice: You need some quiet time young man! you need to take a break from everything and everyone, and just ponder for a while. I mean, its not uncommon that a guy or a girl with be lost and going from this person to this person to this person again. its quiet a typical thing, but it is not right to do so. You need to choose ONE GIRL and stick with her for a while. i dont think it is healthy to like this gurl and then that gurl and go back and move on and so forth so quickly. just sort of take a break from gurls... and then when you think you are ready, start dating again. thass just my opinion tho... :bilnk:
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Apr 14 2004, 10:35 PM
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 ~play guitar~ Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,691 |
hmm, i suggest you dont look, just kinda let it flow i guess
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Apr 14 2004, 10:44 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
aww ... thats not good... its okay feel better
 be patient and wait for the right one to come 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:54 PM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
The fine line between friendship/trust/love/lust is so thin...You can't even see the mofo.. Just because you love spending time with someone, and they make you happy, doesn't mean you love them.. You gotta learn to tell the difference...Otherwise you'll end up unhappy with your choices. Everything else...I've written in your blogger :-D
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