why do people give blow jobs?? (ehhh), i think it sounds gross! Options

[xxtaintedlips]

what do you think of it..and what is the point?

[*paul murphy*]

[xxtaintedlips]

i hate to post it my self, but i just wanna know. everyone talks about it and i was like yuck! if you want to give him pleasure just feel him and stroke him...uhh..i dont know why i just said that...that was gross!

[danishcookiez]

When you get to care for somebody a lot, maybe you might feel differently, and you'll do things you never expected??

I dunno, well, some girls give blowjobs just like that, to just turn the guys on.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

To pleasure their partners. You may think it's gross, I know I used to think it was and I believed I'd never do it - but I chaged my views on it. There's nothing wrong with it.

SEX

KEKE

[sammi rules you]

you can make whoever you're with sexually pleasured without having to have sex with them before you're ready to have sex.

just curious; how old are you?

[*mzkandi*]

Its all about pleasing the one your with. Is this pg-13..ahh well...Like Sammi asked, how old are you?

[sammi rules you]

^ yes, this is pg-13.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Nothing explicit

SEX

KEKE

[starlette]

Agree!!!

Girls are just....girls....they want to please the boy...they want their crush to like them.....lol...lost of reasons....maybe they just are so self-conscious (don't know how to spell) about how they look, and think they need to be all pretty like the girls and models they see.....they have lots of reasons...but the most likely reason I know, is the one for the guy!

thats a pretty stupid reason to give a guy a blow job. just so he'll like you? Mast girls do it for their boyfriends. Just like guys give their girlfriends oral pleasure. It takes a lot of maturity and trust to get to that point with a guy. If you are just doing it to get a guy to like you, number one, hes using you, and number two, you are very immature. I mean, a blowjob doesnt have to be nasty. If hes clean, its just like any other skin on his body, and I dont know what you have seen of blowjobs, but they dont have to ejaculate all down your body and in your face. It ca be something special and sensual...but like I said, thats only if you and the guy you are with are mature enough to handle that. And besides, its a personal decision. If you ever meet a guy you like whos trying to pressure you into giving him a blowjob, promising more from him if you do, that guy is a jerk and you need to move on. And yeah, how old are you?

[*mzkandi*]

It takes a lot of maturity and trust to get to that point with a guy. If you are just doing it to get a guy to like you, number one, hes using you, and number two, you are very immature.

Damn girl, took the words right of my mouth. Kudos to you

[sammi rules you]

that's true. you should NOT be giving a guy a blowjob just to get him to like you. he should like you for who you are, not your willingness to give him oral pleasure.

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

^agreed. I know two girls who have all ready given guys blow jobs. How sick is that?!

[JustAnotherTeena...]

[*mzkandi*]

^agreed. I know two girls who have all ready given guys blow jobs. How sick is that?!

^What exactly is sick about it? Unless they were doing it get the guys to like them.

lil_gymnast6-grow up

[snak3y3z1001]

  what do you think of it..and what is the point?

Oral sex serves the same purpose as having real sex. Pleasuring each other and at the same time relieving sexual tension. By the way your freakin out, im guessing your a preteen or early teen. You still alot of growing up to do

[shortiiex]

i guess cause it give pleasure...

and....i read this thing..about how some girl gave her a bf that "job" and then gave him a hicky and he said it hurts to pee

[snak3y3z1001]

^^ ouch he probably gave him a STD. The hickey has nothin to do with it

[shawty_redd]

pleasure.

[Chii]

i guess some girls would say because they want to give pleasure to their man.

(isnt it kinda interesting that im replying to this topic?)

i agree, i like making my boyfriend happy

i guess cause it give pleasure...

and....i read this thing..about how some girl gave her a bf that "job" and then gave him a hicky and he said it hurts to pee

^^ ouch he probably gave him a STD. The hickey has nothin to do with it

i gave my boyfriend a hickey on his d*ck by accident once and we're both free of STDs

[__xxfrappachino...]

its simple..to give pleasure to their partner =\

[snak3y3z1001]

i agree, i like making my boyfriend happy
i gave my boyfriend a hickey on his d*ck by accident once and we're both free of STDs

i meant she probably gave him a STD. if a guy tries to take a piss and it hurt/burns, its a sign that he might have a std. im not saying you will automatically get std's giving oral sex. and im was commenting towards Shortiiex.

[*Weird addiction*]

To please our man. I do it because i want to and because my boyfriends love it...

[Ballpointpencil]

What is wrong with it? I mean, I haven't done it, but it doesn't sound that bad.

[sammi rules you]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

STD means sexually transmitted disease..and blowjobs aren't sex.

that's another good thing about giving/getting oral..it's much harder to get pregnant/get STDs from that but it serves the same purpose.

[fameONE]

When exploring the pleasures of eroticism, the even exhcange of cunnilingus and fellatio can warrant pleasure for both the performer and recipient.

The recipient is pleasured for obvious reasons. (Woohoo, nerve endings!) But the performer's pleasure and satisfaction will stem from seeing the recipient's pleasure/satisfaction.

Now, this isn't your usual, shameful 'poke a tongue around' sort of thing. This is passionately doing the job (no pun intended) without thinking twice about it.

You could do it because you care about him/her or you could do it primarily for pleasure. Whatever the case; if you do it, do it right and enjoy it.

[edit] Sammi, you can get an STD from receiving fellatio (blowjob just sounds so... ugh, nevermind).

[iheartsimba]

It feels good on the guy. I'm guessing it's either you love him that much, or you want to be cool. I think it's disgusting to! hah. That guy would have to be amazing for me to do that.

[fameONE]

It feels good on the guy. I'm guessing it's either you love him that much, or you want to be cool. I think it's disgusting to! hah. That guy would have to be amazing for me to do that. 

Its similar for guys but guys are much more willing to perform cunnilingus if it leads to a good blowjob.

Have a little fun

[Bobblehead425]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

you can get herpes...but yea that isnt like sex.. i dunno

[XaZnX07]

i hate to post it my self, but i just wanna know. everyone talks about it and i was like yuck! if you want to give him pleasure just feel him and stroke him...uhh..i dont know why i just said that...that was gross!

lmao!!!! haha

i donno why people do it either??? hmm maybe because they just want to do it just to say the did it guess


.:tonY:.

[iheartjohn]

For pleasure. I've done it before, and it's not as gross as they make it sound.

[shushh]

its not that gross....

[fameONE]

its not that gross....

It seems like the ones who think its gross are the ones that aren't ready to embrace sexual freedom.

[iheartjohn]

^^ And you're there to encourage them, right? Hah.

[xxtaintedlips]

oh sorry it took so long for me to respond..i am 15

[biglamchops]

My ex told me that a lot of girls love to give them because it turns them on to know that the guy is enjoying it..and some girls just do it to pleasure their man and didn't really enjoy giving them.

[william]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

STD means sexually transmitted disease..and blowjobs aren't sex.

that's another good thing about giving/getting oral..it's much harder to get pregnant/get STDs from that but it serves the same purpose.

"Unprotected oral sex (without using a condom or other barrier) puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections, whether they are giving or receiving genital stimulation. These infections include gonorrhea, syphilis, chancroid, herpes, hepatitis B, cytomegalovirus, human papilloma virus (HPV), herpes, and, rarely, HIV and chlamydia."
-teenwire.com

yeah.

[sammi rules you]

oh sorry it took so long for me to respond..i am 15

wow..that was unexpected.

i'm also 15, and i've given more than one blowjob. i don't think i should really be having sex at this age quite yet, so it's an alternative to still get the same effect for my boyfriend.

it's really not that bad once you've done it. i have to admit, beforehand, thinking about it, i thought it would be disgusting. and my boyfriend didn't ask me or anything like a horny pig, i just did it. figured "why not?" ..it's not that bad. it's like if you sucked on your arm. (well not exactly of course, but it doesn't..taste any different than any other skin)

it's fine if you don't feel like doing it, but it's not like..gross. you make yourself sound much younger than you are, like a little 3rd grader who's all "ewww cooties!" people have sex and give handjobs and blowjobs, etc. these things happen, even at ages much younger than ours. you have to come to terms with that. it's really not as big of a deal as you're making it out to be.



and true willy, you can, if the guy squirts his load down your throat, but if he doesn't you're at much less of a risk than you are if you have sex or something.

[lilliannnn]

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

STD means sexually transmitted disease..and blowjobs aren't sex.

that's another good thing about giving/getting oral..it's much harder to get pregnant/get STDs from that but it serves the same purpose.

you can! you can get herpes.. if he has it on his d*ck, you can get it in your mouth.

[sammi rules you]

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

[xxtaintedlips]

^^ yes u realize that is is not that big of a deal, but well i guess i am just really innocent and stuff. I mean sure i would do it to someone if i loved them and stuff. I just think a hand job is one thing and putting your mouth where your man pees is another. People sometimes wonder why i dont have a boyfriend, and i think i is because i am waiting for just the right person to come along...is this the right thing to do? or is it good to experiment?

[sammi rules you]

you can do whatever you want! if you feel comfortable waiting, then that's fine. no one should push you to be with someone or do anything you don't want to. you should just understand that others do these things, and it's not gross - it's expressing love.

and yes, handjobs are one thing, but my boyfriend actually said that blowjobs are like 1000000 times better. it feels better for them. and it's not like they're actually peeing in your mouth.

if that happened....he'd definitely get a major slap.

[william]

and true willy, you can, if the guy squirts his load down your throat, but if he doesn't you're at much less of a risk than you are if you have sex or something.

yeah, that's true.

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

i think she was reffering to this part of your post:

i don't really think you can get STDs from getting a blowjob...

but i could be wrong.

[sammi rules you]

well that was just bad phrasing on my part. sorry for the misunderstanding, y'all.

[HappyHeart]

some people do it because they're drunk. kinda scary

[fameONE]

^^ And you're there to encourage them, right? Hah.

Who me? Of course not! (Unless they want to)

some people do it because they're drunk. kinda scary

Not drinking would solve that problem.

[jue]

its just nasty to me. i dont understand why though; maybe to give there man pleasure. But i mean what if while your giving the man heads and he needs to pee. Then what?

[fameONE]

its just nasty to me. i dont understand why though; maybe to give there man pleasure. But i mean what if while your giving the man heads and he needs to pee. Then what?

How old are you?

[snak3y3z1001]

i know you CAN, i said it's much harder to, especially if he doesn't cum in your mouth.

did you know that when a guy has an erection, tiny tiny microscopic blood vessels breaks. you cant see it because its so small. std's can be in the blood ;) lol honestly i learned this a few weeks back in health class. have no clue if thats true. (the breakin of blood vessels part)

[*XLilAznGrl592X*]

omg... i am really dumb... but... wut is a blow job?... yeah... my dumbest question ever..

[*mzkandi*]

omg... i am really dumb... but... wut is a blow job?... yeah... my dumbest question ever..

Oral sex..Mouth to Penis...its not a dumb question, nothing like a little sex education.

[snak3y3z1001]

omg... i am really dumb... but... wut is a blow job?... yeah... my dumbest question ever..

ever sucked on a popsicle? same thing but on a guy penis

/edit aww mzkandi beat me :(

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I guess they give them blowjobs because, they care for each other and they trust each other, I guess that they want to take their relationship up another notch (sp?)

[iheartjohn]

its just nasty to me. i dont understand why though; maybe to give there man pleasure. But i mean what if while your giving the man heads and he needs to pee. Then what?

Then...um...maybe he just doesn't pee.

[heyyfrankie]

the both of you=don't spam!!



whoa...i haven't been in the girls' locker in a long time and now i come and see this!! lmao!

yeah...people do it because i'm guessing it feels good (duh) and because as sammi said: it's an alternative to have full on sex.
and as many people have already said, you think it's gross and you don't HAVE to do it but why not try? ;]

[*paul murphy*]

I want one!

[_suzie_]

''How sick is that?!''



...why do you think its sick? the media (i.e through porn) portrays it as a slutty thing to do. heres a hint : dont rely on the media for your own opinions.

it can be somethin very special between two people. i think ur prolly too young to understand ; when i was younger i thought it was a gross thing.

wait till ur older, then u'll understand.


and ROARxD , men don;t just randomly pee like that during you know what...... (i hope this is pg13 enough )

[ichigofan]

I think that some girls do it cuz they think that if they dont then their boyfriend will break up with them and Others just do it cuz its fun for them =}

[magiKK]

I do it to return "favors" to my boyfriend. It really doesn't bother me at all, I found that some people like it some don't..

[ichiban]

to give pleasure, i guess.

[yOUCANtSEEmE]

there are a lot of immature people posting in here.

personally i dont find anything wrong with giving a blowjob. as long as youre doing it for the right reasons. (not because you want a guy to like you)

i dont think you should really say you dislike something or think its gross until youve actually experienced it. so uh paul_murphy and lil_gymnast6 after you grow up a little more (or a lot more) and have actually experienced a blowjob you can come back and give opinion about it.

[snak3y3z1001]

its impossible for a guy to piss when he is getting a blowjob

[fameONE]

If I'm going to perform cunnilingus, you're going to return the favor, and its going to be good. And y'know what? You're going to have fun doing it just as I did.

Well now, problem solved. At 12, I thought oral sex was disgusting. 6 years later... :satisfied:

[xlaydee_v]

its for pleasure..lols

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

^What exactly is sick about it? Unless they were doing it get the guys to like them.

Actually it's because they were both 11. I don't think it's sick...but they could have waited a little, couldn't they?

[lilliannnn]

The keywords here are "I think its disgusting." Yeah, that's right. YOU think it's disgusting.. other people don't. Which is the answer to your question (Why do people give blow jobs). BECAUSE THEY DON'T THINK IT'S DISGUSTING.

[*chaneun*]

It's a form of sex without having a chance of being pregnant.

[mocassinsx29]

Like people said above, some girls feel comfortable enough to do it, some want to try something new, and some consider it a "favor" to their man... but some girls also like giving 'em. It's just how they feel.

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

I want one!

hah keep on dreaming...

anyway like you said I think it's disgusting. other people don't. there is nothing wrong with it unless of course you are doing it for the wrong reasons. but why do people give blow jobs? i think that already has been answered many times.

[tofuburger]

as my biology teacher put it--
oral sex is still sex..if you've had oral sex..you're not a virgin..you just put the penis in a different hole on your body

eh..but to answer your question...you'd hafta be PRETTY DAM* IMPORTANT..and pay me a BUTTLOAD of money to get me to give you head.

[sharerol]

Well okay. So the question has been answered, so replies are getting kind of redundant now. Shouldn't this be closed now?

[AznVi3tGrl]

I've never done it... But I don't think it would be gross really...

[mouse_3k]

to pleasure ur partner. If your in love, it aint that gross...that or your just...a sex freak lol.

oral sex is still sex..if you've had oral sex..you're not a virgin..you just put the penis in a different hole on your body

wtf...u still a virgin. What about phone sex...is tht still sex? exactly so ur still virgin if u do oral sex.